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    Does anyone know anything about or practice "karezza" with their partner? If so would you recommend it?
     
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    Karezza is the most beautiful lovemaking I've ever experienced........it's just chastity without the kink - please Google it by all means and let me know if you have questions.
     
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    yeah its basically love making with no orgasm as the goal. I've thought about asking my wife if she wanted to try it out. I guess I was thinking it would be a good segway into female orgasm denial for her :D
     
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    Yes, @Lockedfiancé - I was just about to start a thread about it. Searched and found your post. :)

    It's one of the most incredibly satisfying ways to strengthen your union. Training pet through karezza has taken our sexual intimacy to new heights. And this was before the cage.

    Karezza after chastity was so much more powerful for us. Making love this way is already quite deliberate, but when the tone is set before the key's even in place... It makes for a very sensual experience.

    It's My favorite way to play. :love:
     
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    I've only experienced it with a female partner who did have orgasms (lot :) ) while I refrained (or was denied) to focus on her. It was lovely beyond words so I won't even try to describe.
     
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    It’s pretty much what we practice most of the time (though, as I understand, most couples who practice Karezza have intercourse, just no orgasms). My wife usually doesn’t feel ambitious enough to have an orgasm and I never get to have one either.
     
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    Just an addendum to My post. If the ideal form of karezza involves both partners refraining from orgasm, that's not how I operate... :D

    My orgasm isn't the sole goal most times, but usually a fairly predictable byproduct.
     
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    Echo that. if she is having plenty for the both of us I find myself very satisfied without them.
     
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    I have brought it up with my partner and she was like um no ... I like you in me and you losing it ... what is the point of the other way ...

    I love my partner deeply, but there are days I keep thinking ... man our sexuality dials are polar opposite :), but I respect as it "is her" and I am not going to be disrespectful in trying to change her ... that is just rude

    But yes ... this is one thing I wanted to engage in for a while .... so if you can ... I suggest it.
     
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    Same for me, the goal is the orgasm, at least the pleasure of my Mistress.
    She learn me how to PIV to please her needs and this is very powerfull. In the action I discover that the male orgasm is not only the simple ejaculation but something far more powerfull.
    A mix of pleasing the lady, lasting long and going slowly to a pleasure far beyond the simple orgasm of ejaculation.

    like a slow, very long orgasm that last for a long time. Ultimate goal is the pleasure of my Mistress and after a PIV with no ejaculation she does a magic wand session with you near, it gave you an powerfull pleasure that blow your mind as she experience her orgasm.
    Well at least for us. Kerazza is a must and not easy to make in place.
     
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    Can anyone let me know of a good book or a good website where I can learn more about Kareeza? I did a quick google search that brought up lots of information but a lot of what I'm finding seems vague other than what the practice of kareeza is. Like @Breathe , I want my partner to have her orgasms but I'd like to naturally last longer during actual intercourse.

    I shared a thread I started about PE with my mistress, she admitted to me that most of the PIV I'm allowed is more for my pleasure than hers. She did say however there are times she wishes I could last longer but it's usually not that important to her because I've pleasured her in other ways, I've usually worn her out by the time she allows me piv anyway. Regardless, I'd like her to tell me to cum when she wants me too versus it being uncontrollable. Maybe it's not possible for me to control it but it's worth looking into.
     
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    I guess there is no real guide, I should write one but it will be my own experience.
    Try to do some yoga meditation, also the cage will help you controling, it does not work imediatly nor magicaly.
    It takes a lot of time. You need to be locked for 15 days bere feeling the absence os ejaculation need, the worst in my case was at 7 days, feeling like my nut will explode.
    After 15 days you should be nore confortable with not ejaculating. Try to masturbate very slowly, always stop when it come, and do again. With time you will be able to be hard and keep all in you.

    Not easy at all, don't expect to succeed rapidly.
     
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    We've been doing it for decades. Focusing entirely on her orgasm and pleasure, I'm able to "share" her orgasm, and get about 70% of the relief of my own orgasm. Even when we switched to me wearing a strap-on, I've been able to manage to get some relief and a deep sense of sharing the one orgasm. It;s what taught me/us that I don't need an orgasm to enjoy sex. The key is to learn to focus entirely, so that your motions and actions are not for your own pleasure, but to be in synch with her, and get her to reach her orgasm. It sounds easy, but it takes time and patience.
     
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    Very similar here. Have managed to do this the last three or four years. When she has orgasmed several times I usually display slight breathlessness, a tingly sensation and my skin goes tickly. Often i lose my attempted (caged) erection. In fact she often teases me after she has cum and if i don't display my ultra-sensitive tickly response she is disappointed as she considers i have not "orgasmed" myself. The response i have described is something she really likes about long-term chastity, considering it weird but wonderful.
     
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