It has been nearly 9 months since L discovered my cage the morning after I first put it on. Apart from washing and release for play or sex, I have basically worn it all the time, day and night since day one. We have been married for over 23 years, I have just turned 50 and L is nearly 43. We have 2 teenage boys (14 and 17) and live in the UK. We have no interest in me being a cuck or sissy. And apart from a bit of spanking (for me) and the occasional bit of light bondage, we are a normal family couple looking to learn to adore each other more and more. L has just started reading up a bit. I have been sending her the odd article about male hormone levels, come retention and ruined orgasms from a really great website, that is geared toward women and not kink. www.evolveyourman.com I will post the links in a separate post. She has asked for a pause in me sending at the moment, but she has taken it on board, and we have had some good discussions. I explained what a full orgasm does to me...Careful what you wish for!"...and said "The question is...How often are you willing to put up with the few days of me being less attentive? If you let me have a full orgasm every few days, where is the upside for you? What is the point of it? I don't have an answer to that yet, as I think she is weighing it up. More later, I have to go shopping.