Bob Spade
Last Activity:
Apr 7, 2022
Joined:
Nov 10, 2017 at 4:42 PM
Messages:
5
Likes Received:
2
Trophy Points:
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6:45 AM
Gender:
Male
Birthday:
Aug 1, 1969 (Age: 53)
Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
Netherlands, Region Oss

Bob Spade

C4/D5 on the TomAllen-Rectrix scale, Male, 53, from Netherlands, Region Oss

Married Dec 29, 2020

Bob Spade was last seen:
Apr 7, 2022
    1. Bob Spade
    2. Mascara^Snake
      Mascara^Snake
      Goedenavond bob. Welkom bij CM
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      1. Bob Spade
        Bob Spade
        Dankjewel.
        Nov 11, 2017
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      2. Mascara^Snake
        Mascara^Snake
        alstublieft
        Nov 11, 2017
    3. Bob Spade
      Bob Spade
      Married to Vanilla
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      2. ABITNUTTY
        ABITNUTTY
        Just give her time and patience.
        Nov 13, 2017
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      3. Bob Spade
        Bob Spade
        That's why I love her, she is too sweet.
        Nov 13, 2017
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      4. ABITNUTTY
        ABITNUTTY
        I imagine that she is!! All of the best of us ARE!!! :-D
        Nov 13, 2017
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Aug 1, 1969 (Age: 53)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Netherlands, Region Oss
    My key is held by:
    my Lady
    Your chastity role:
    • Submissive
    Chastity devices:
    Steel devices from Amazon and Ali
    Holy Trainer the nub
    The Vice
    Red Chili Ibicella cage
    My-Steel Comfort Active-style
    I've been interested in BDSM from when I was small, although I didn't understand where it came from at that time.
    Never had the strength to express it to the world as it was/is not accepted in my surrounding.
    Read a lot about BDSM when I was young and created some home made toys. And bought some first devices.
    Then I met my wife and decided to bury my feelings.
    But feelings are something you can't bury nor deny.
    My wife is a great person and I really don't want to hurt her (which I probably already do), but sex and talking about it is not her thing. Tried to introduce some card game to at least start some more discussion and work on it a while ago, but that didn't take off. Also the occasional tv shows on improving sex life doesn't resonate.

    So lately I've started playing around on my own with chastity devices on the many business travels in the hope to be able to introduce the topic of chastity and FLR to my wife and provide her with things she will get out of it. Probably the wrong thinking and direction.
    ---------------------
    End of 2019 I decided to come out of the closet with my wife and she reacted very positive.
    We are now on and in this journey together. However she still remains somewhat vanilla she agreed to embark on this journey as my Lady.
    I'm also visiting a pro-domme who is teaching and exploring my (sado)masochism.
    I'm very interested to learn from others and their journeys.

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