This to me is kind of a grey line I think. I am 53 and am embarrassed to say I had a wet dream last night, and had a full on orgasm and cum all over myself. I realized and woke up in time to get turned to where a didn’t make a mess all in the bed. Now this is my problem. Am I to let Mistress know I had an orgasm’ and feel Breyer about myself and risk a punishment, or do I keep it from Mistress and feel guilty about it and still risk a punishment if she was to find out?
Yes you’re right I already know the answer. Was just speaking out to the chastity world and hoping that there were others that might have had a similar scenerio that would give some insight or explain how their scenerio worked out.
there are bound to be hiccups like this along the way you will both get better at identifying your need building up all that is needed is a little reduction of that need if you tell her about your mishap you can then work together to prevent this happening again plus she will appreciate your honesty even if she does not acknowledge it she will also get a better insight into your own level of commitment and you will also enhance your feelings of commitment if you don't tell her and you do get away without her finding out or realising you are less tense you will know you have cheated on her and the temptation to allow your self to do so again or even encourage yourself to deliberately... then ask yourself what have you two actually got going on? I'd say not much.
You make a lot of sense. Thank you. I am so caught up in shame from it that I couldn’t think straight.
Just tell her. As soon as possible.. Delay can be misread. Be honest with her.... maybe even completely honest and tell her you asked advice but if you do then be prepared to explain why you think you needed advice put the emphasis on relating to her her hoe much you did not want her to feel you had let her down if its true.. just don't lie and be straight with her
I have told her after she had gotten out of bed and had her morning smoke. All seemed to go well and was told that I probably lost my privilege to cum tonight. But that will be ok I will probably still get my ball slaps and or course Mistress will get her orgasms with pleasure from her slave. And I do feel better knowing that she knows now.
A week. Mistress was horny last weekend and she wanted me to fuck her. So she unlocked me and allowed me to cum also but only after she was fully satisfied was I allowed to cum.
Tell her immediately. If that happened to hubby and he told me right away then I might be a little disappointed that it threw off my plans, but I wouldn't be angry at him. There wouldn't be any real punishment, though I'd almost certainly verbally tease him about it (that's just too good of an opportunity to pass up). If he didn't tell me right away and I found out later then I'd be very angry about the betrayal of trust, not the emission itself. There would certainly be consequences far more significant than any "play" punishments. --- I just noticed your reply where you told her and everything worked out. That's great! Trust is really the most important thing.
Trust means everything, without that you don’t have a relationship. Honesty works every time and then you’re not looking over your shoulder all the time.
Wet dreams happen. It's the bodies way of releasing what it has too much of. In other words, it's normal body function and out of your control. You can't hold your breath forever, nor can you consciously stop your heart beating. There is no shame in what happened. It's just to your body regulating itself. If anything, you should be proud that you had so much cum stored up from not ejaculating, that your body got rid of it naturally. Just my 2 cents. Iso.
I h Seems like you passed your first big chastity related honesty test I hope things continue to work out for you both
Tell her. I did this once and She then decided I need to be milked regularly so this did not happen again
I never had a "wet dream". Neither in my youth nor in adulthood. Not sure, what happens there inside the chastes brain. If I told this my lady, she woudnt be embarrassed. She would ask me what I have been dreaming of.
I did tell Mistress as soon as she woke up. She was happy I told her as soon as possible. But was still punished by losing the orgasm I was told I was going to perform for her. I was going to be unlocked and was going to be instructed on how is was to jerk off while she watched. But that is ok. She got her pleasure all that weekend.
A wet dream is genuine, undeniable proof that you haven't been cheating... Personally, I love confessing after a wet dream. Very humiliating.
I also had a wet dream last week. Unfortunately, I didn't wear anti-drip pads at night, so I woke up with a stain on my baby pajamas and sheets. Mistress checks my chastity every morning so I had no chance to hide it and I had no choice but to wait for her in the room, confess and suffer any punishment. I was reprimanded for not wearing pads at night, a rubber sheet was placed over the mattress, and as punishment I had to wear a butt plug all day. In addition, Mistress's plan to wear diapers at night and occasionally during the day was accelerated, so I had to order ABDL diapers that Mistress had chosen for me. They will be delivered today and I am super embarrassed that I will have to wear them. Despite everything, the lady praised me, saying that it meant that I hadn't cheated on her and that I still complied with her ban on touching the cage.
It happens and there's nothing you can do about it. That said, you're still likely to get punished for it.