MsPamela

I don't ever think of hubby as a toy or as being inferior to me. Our marriage is a partnership of equals. In the bedroom, however, I have complete control, an arrangement that we both enjoy.

Many years ago we started experimenting with occasional orgasm denial. At first it was something hubby wanted to try and I went along with it as a favor. But once I started getting comfortable with not being "fair", I really started to enjoy controlling his orgasms. We found that it added a lot of excitement for both of us, and the arrangement became more or less permanent.

Over time we've incorporated other elements, and my vanilla self from all those years ago would be shocked at the kinkier aspects of our sex life. Chastity is something we add now and then, usually when I feel like denying hubby for longer periods of time.