After I told my wife

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    Hi all, I had a thread in the chastity and orgasm denial forum when I first started titled “I told my wife this morning”, the good news is that was a month ago, since then she had me locked in my cb6000s for over a week, let me out for release with PiV where I lasted 39 seconds, since then have ordered a small steel cage and she now has the keys and has not set a release date.

    Today is day four of in the new cage, eight days since last orgasm and think I’m possibly at peak horniness! I think this is pretty common around this point from memory and should ease up, but also know we’ve got a kids free night tonight so hopefully I’m allowed to serve her orally and with her toys but not sure that will help ease my needs lol.

    Thanks to all those who have supported my journey, will look to update here regularly.
     
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    Good luck to you both
     
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    Enjoy your new cage, you look good in it.
     
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    #5 sissybetawimp, May 11, 2024
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    Well it actually happened. We got home from our night out, we’d both had a few drinks and got into bed. I wasn’t sure how it would play out if at all, but she just said “ok”, pointed to between her legs and took her pyjama pants off and told me to lick. I was naked except for my cage and after a few minutes I asked her if I could get her dildo to use on her and she said yes. I continued to lick her clit and slid the dildo inside her, she was quite wet so it was easy. We continued to do this for almost spot on an hour, considering normal sex for us including me licking her is about 5-10 minutes this was huge. To top it off, while I was licking her with the dildo inside I moved away so she could rub her clit and instead I licked lower, tongue her bottom. This was massive as she’s never even let me touch her there before with a finger but she seemed to enjoy it. Long story short, she came twice, I’m still locked and no relief and no end date in sight and I couldn’t be happier. She doesn’t do the ongoing regular teasing but if it’s like this I don’t mind! Oh and in the midst of passion I also admiitted to her I would give up sex and getting unlocked forever to be able to keep doing this, hopefully she didn’t hear or remember that bit!
     
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    Reading this took be back to when my Lady caught fire with the idea of a chastity-based FLR. If your experience is similar, your orgasm count will go way down. For how long? In my case, it's looking like forever.

    Your wife may end up doing the coming for both of you. Good luck. It'll be interesting to see how it's going a few months from now.
     
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    The dilemma of I think that’s all I can dream of but also nervous of how it may turn out! I certainly want it to be an ongoing way of life, I’m done hiding it and pretending
     
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    I say go for it… If she enjoys it so much that she ends up RARELY allowing you to cum, then embrace it. Many in this community will envoy you. :+1:
     
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    Oh my god I’m so horny today, six days locked, 11 days since last orgasm and I can’t stop thinking about that dildo going in and out of my wife while I was locked and licking her. I’m working from home tomorrow and she’ll be out, almost want to ask permission to be unlocked and wank, but also not sure the best way to handle her now - is it going to be better to stay quiet and locked until she’s ready? Just to make matters worse my parents are coming to stay for five days from Thursday so no chance I’ll be unlocked to play while they’re here so likely if not out tomorrow means at least another full week locked and denied.
     
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    I know how you feel... On April 27, I made myself cum in my cage out of desperation and just 2 days ago I was watching some of my favorite porn and I was so horny and aroused, I got a spontaneous orgasm just from watching. It's only been a day and a half since and I woke up with a serious boner in my cage and I've wanted to jerk off since. I have a busy 2 weeks ahead of me starting yesterday, so I won't have time to make myself cum in my cage. This is gonna be torture for me... But I LOVE it! :D
     
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    Oh dear. SBW, if you were serious about your past statements here and to your wife ('ongoing way of life', 'I also admiitted to her I would give up sex and getting unlocked forever to be able to keep doing this'), it would be a rude reversal to say 'never mind, I'd like to cum now'. If you have been working to get your wife to accept your submission and take the keys, now is the time it gets real; it's important to make good on your promises.

    It's 'Be careful what you wish for time'! If you acknowledge her authority and are open to what she has in mind, you'll be entering a thrilling world that you (eventually) will never want to leave. Stop counting and ask her what you might do to please her today - and tomorrow, and the day after that. Once she comes to see your willy as hers and acts accordingly your life will never be boring. Good luck! Make sure your cage is comfortable and does not create problems, it usually takes a while. If both of you get your wish, you'll be in it all the time.
     
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    Thanks @PornAddict103 and @Clean Living. I think deep down I already knew the real answer (not be let out) but thank you for reassuring me. As it was I didn’t have a choice lol.

    Last night as we were getting ready for bed, before she had her top on I asked her if I could touch her boobs, she stood and stuck them out to me then as I went to put my hands on them, she turned away smirking and simply said “that’s enough, just seeing them is probably enough for you.”

    So still locked, denied and knowing it is my place in life.
     
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    Congratulations! Becoming my wife’s slave was the best thing that ever happened to me ! I’ve been locked and pierced since sep 11 last year. It just recently became permanent and now I get to be totally devoted to her pleasure. I’ve become much less selfish
     
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    I don’t know where she’s getting it from my wife is picking this up pretty quick. Last night she asked if I would like to be unlocked and I said to her that it was up to her. I was thinking she’d say ok and unlock but instead she says “hmm, not today.” I was blown away and subsequently turned on all day today thinking about it!
     
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    Nice! It doesn't really matter where she's picking it up from, as long as she's getting into it. Just go with it! :+1:
     
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    Things are escalating quickly. Last night my parents arrived from interstate to stay with us for five days, yesterday morning my wife gave me the keys to unlock while I had a shower, first proper clean and shave since getting locked. I was thinking that maybe she'd leave me unlocked while they were here, but no, she was in the bedroom as I came back in waiting and said "Put it on - you know I don't really get in the mood for sex while your parents are here so you may as well stay locked." So now I'm locked until at least next Tuesday night with no relief!
     
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    Consider this your right of passage. :+1:
     
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    Hi all, so turns out I didn’t have to wait until my folks went home…the morning of the day they were leaving my wife and I both woke up about an hour before we needed to. After some cuddling I asked her if she would like an orgasm and she agreed, so I went under the covers and successfully licked and ground my face against her until she had a juicy orgasm on my face. She asked me if I would like one also and I said it was her call, so she unlocked me and let me enter her but I couldn’t stay hard and went limp. It was pretty embarrassing, but she used her hand on me for a while and I tried again, but as I was in her I started going soft again but then unasked and out of nowhere she started rubbing behind my balls and then back towards my sissy hole. She’s never touched me there before but it really got me going and I ended up spurting in her I reckon around a minute later. After a shower I came out to the bedroom and she had the cage ready there for me and told me to give her the keys.

    I’m slightly worried that twice now since we’ve started the first time she let me have PiV I spurted in 39 seconds and this time I went limp and then spurted as she rubbed near my butt. I think any illusion of her manly husband may be in jeopardy…
     
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    I think you worry too much… Chastity will make you sensitive both physically and mentally. It’s perfectly normal. I know this from my own experience. I used to have difficulties bringing myself to the edge of orgasm when jerking off because I did it so much that I became desensitized. After more than 8 months of chastity play, I was watching a very kinky porn video and I was so aroused that I spontaneously orgasmed in my cage. That was 11 days ago and I’m already feeling like I could burst any minute without even touching my cock.

    Also, I tend to get mood swings on days when I’m feeling super horny, I get very “Expressive” and on days when I’m not overly horny, I feel like I’m tired and spent and don’t really wanna socialize with anyone. I’ve also accepted this as my new normal.

    You’ll be alright… I’m sure you and your wife will find some fun ways to deal with your “new normal”. Trust me, you’ll both enjoy it, as long as you embrace it and not fear it. :cool:
     
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    Yes, stay quiet. Don't try to force the pace, let her grow into it at her own speed. It might feel like it takes forever but you'll build a much more solid 'normal' if she owns it without you pushing.
     
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    I think we all need to be a little careful here. Many wives just have sex with their husband's out of obligation. Once a wife discovers chastity and holds the key, it might end up a long time between drinks.
     
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    Sex was already a pretty scant thing, often once every two or three months. Not sure if it’s just the novelty but last night after she had a few drinks, while I cleaned up the kitchen she got ready for bed, I went into the bedroom and she met me already in bed, then pulled away the covers and she was naked. Now noting I’d last served her and she let me spurt on Tuesday, this was now Saturday and she had me go down on her again. This time I asked if she would like me to get the dildo and she said yes, that she liked feeling something inside her while i licked her. End result she had a nice juicy orgasm while I stayed caged. There was no pressure , just a focus on her pleasure. I was certainly super horny by the end and would have loved to spurt but it’s worth it to be more like this and not be pretending to be an alpha bloke with a big cock. Am sure I’ll miss pussy for a long time, may get it every now and then but starting to accept life may be better pussy free.
     
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