Looking for No Erections for One Year

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    So, I'm always seeking the impossible, apparently. What I'm wanting to know is if there is any way to prevent an erection with a cage-only device. I've recently had my husband, @Ruining pierced, and I'm looking forward to the additional security and freedom with this modification.

    A pro to all this is that my husband is an extreme grower. He goes from very small when flaccid, to very large, (fat) when erect. I've seen some devices like the Lori's tubes that are made very small and fit extremely tight to the flaccid size. This would prevent erections almost completely, but there would still be--if I had one made to fit his flaccid size--enough room for him to push out a little in length. Maybe an inch and a half?

    So I think I've answered my own question, as I'd like to eliminate erections completely for a year, but I wonder if anyone has experience with this kind of device. What I'm looking for is something like the Nub we had where he couldn't get any kind of erection, and he changed from asking me if he could please cum, to asking me if he could please just get out to have an erection. Will any of the cage-only devices offer what I'm after with this? I want him completely frustrated with how impossible it is to stretch out an erection while caged.
     
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    I'm also a grower.

    My KH bought a badassworkroom ba03 with piercing attachment.

    I cannot get an erection.

    The longest continuously locked was 4 months I definitely begged more for erections than orgasms, but I did come to terms with it after a while despite being teased.
     
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    No erections??? Doesn't that border on cruelty to animals??? LOL

    Seriously though, my Vice Mini pretty much cuts it off completely. However, after no erections for 5 weeks and experiencing 4-5 week lockups each time before release the past 3+ months, my little guy is shrinking and definitely taking up less room in the cage so there is about 1/2" to grow now when stimulated. But that is seriously not providing me ANY enjoyment! It still seems extremely frustrating!
     
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    The erection will happen, it will just be internal, with all the blood flow inside pushing the cage away

    It's no different than saying I don't want my woman to menstruate

    You need surgery or medication

    The body will do what's needed

    Erections serve many purposes, from getting dead cells from erectile tissue to maintaining blood vessel health


    You can't stop a natural process within the body without paying a price somehow

    I understand not wanting them, but they are a sign and measurement of a males circulatory health and should happen to gauge problems that may be occuring. Especially as we age, knowing what's going on is very very important
     
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    I find that the urethral plug of my cage prevents erections. Things swell a little when aroused but that's about it. As @CagedJohn says, the body will do what's needed but for me the plug prevents the body fully achieving what it wants to do!
     
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    You should still check from time to time

    An erection that is thinner than usual can mean a variety of things from an aortic clot or some other thrombosis, diabetes, spinal nerve deterioration, or other serious conditions

    Unusual discoloration can be an indicator of a clotting issue, internal bleeding, or penile injury

    Plus discoloration of pre-ejaculate, or semen can be an indication of a prostate issue that should be looked at ASAP

    Just like a woman's menstrual cycle can let her know if something is off with her health, an erection is homologous to males

    You don't have to use them but erections should happen and be paid some attention to, at least once a month, to make sure nothing serious is going on

    As any guy here can say erections are difficult to get when you're really sick

    They are a measurement of a male's health
     
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    As fun as some things sound on paper you have to separate the fantasy part from practicality. Completely eliminating erections for a year could have serious long term implications as outlined by CagedJohn. Nocturnal erections happen for health reasons, not enjoyment. The body knows it needs to stretch and eliminating that for too long is not healthy.
     
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    A full belt would be a better option.
     
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    I have no answer to your question, but I am interested in the subject and I will continue reading what other users advise you and what you decide.
     
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    Cool. So I asked if a cage-only device was effective to prevent erections. What I got was discussion on 2 ball trap devices, a urethral insert, (which he cannot tolerate) a full belt, (which we own) and people telling me not to because it’s dangerous. So no answer to my actual question yet.

    As a medical provider in a family practice, I understand the health implications. I’m not going to pad every post with disclaimers about health implications and how our level of play requires necessary risk, and that we’ll be taking every possible precaution to…blah, blah, blah.

    So I’ll take the health risks replies, and I’ll thank you for mentioning it on behalf of someone who comes across this post thinking it’s harmless fun with no potential for long term damage. But almost everything you boys do on this forum has disastrous consequences waiting in the wings.

    When I was doing my surgical rotation, there was a guy who used an anal toy and he got a bit rough with it. Now he’ll be pooping in a bag for the rest of his life. But I’m still going to strap my husband down and fuck him like I mean it…I mean, “make love to him in the ass.”

    But I wonder: can a CAGE-ONLY device be effective to prevent is DICK from getting hard? I’m not trying to alter his biology to prevent the body from attempting it. I want his dick soft.

    Is this all enough clarification and drilling down to specifics?
     
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    no

    the cage wont stop a natural process from happening

    I doubt anything could. Its like asking what metal can you hold to get you to stop thinking about sex
     
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    Any well fitting cage should stop proper erections. He may still get mini-erections inside the cage, or inside his body, but they will be frustrating rather than satisfying and they'll just make him beg to released more, not less. So yes, if you lock him in a balltrap cage for a year, you will get the desired result.
     
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    There's no stopping the process without surgery or meds

    Some devices may limit the erection to internal structures, but not the erection itself
     
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    No.
     
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    To answer Your question, @Madam Darling, in my experience, my ball trap devices have not prevented erections. My current device is an A-273 and the base ring is as small as my testicles will allow.

    i have also used a Nub and the CB series back in the day and neither of them prevented erections either. But other's mileage may vary, so i cannot give You a definitive answer.

    Good luck in Your efforts!

    asa
     
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    That’s a false analogy. I’m asking if I put a balloon in a straw, will it prevent the balloon from inflating? I’m not asking if it will prevent air from entering the balloon at all. As I said in the original post, I got this effect with the Nub. So can I get the same result, and same level of frustration with a cage-only device?
     
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    I’m not asking about ball trap devices.
     
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    Ok?
     
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    That's only answerable by empirical evidence from your sub

    Everyone reacts different to different devices
     
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    Everyone reacts differently to being kicked in the balls, too, but I could ask if it hurts. If some say yes, then I know it’s possible for some. That’s my question. I’m not asking you to presume anything about my husband. I’m asking if it is possible. We’ve spent over $3,000 on devices in the past few years. I just don’t want to have to spend more money on a cage-only device if they’re known for not doing what I’m wanting.

    Summary of this thread: Is the flu shot able to prevent the flu?

    “I take vitamin C, and I haven’t had the flu for years.”

    “I find that a good sleep schedule and staying hydrated is enough to prevent me getting the flu.”

    “Be very careful, because any kind of vaccine can be dangerous.”

    “I got a Covid shot, and still got Covid. But as for the flu, I don’t have an answer for you. Good luck!”

    “Everyone reacts differently to flu vaccines.”

    I’ll add this thread to the piles of regret I’ve had in my life.
     
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    I suppose it depends on how you define an erection… a balloon in a straw will get hard when inflated and will take up the shape of the straw. So you can vary the size of the cage to limit growth but not hardness.
    A tube only device will be less effective as it wouldn’t contain all the tissue that ‘inflates’ as this extends into the body. I’d therefore assume, what isn’t contained will grow in diameter and the tube will probably also do little to constrain the length. A ball-trap cage will help to resist this increase in length but can pull with significant force on the testicles! A full belt will obviously react this force into the waist band.
    I appreciate it doesn’t fit the functional specification, but a flat fronted belt would be my suggestion! :eek:
     
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    We have a MySteel belt, but he can pull out, even with it fitted as well as possible with his anatomy. Also, they’re not practical in the least. When I’m done working, I’ll post the photo that inspired this question.
     
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