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    #376 Rectrix, Sep 4, 2022
    I'm with @littleguy3 on this. It's not just orgasms -- our erections, too, belong to our wives. So from my point of view, rubbing it until it's real hard is masturbating, whether it spurts or not. Erections are a privilege granted by our wives.
     
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    #377 borbulls1961, Sep 4, 2022
    Thanks for your opinions @Rectrix and @littleguy3 on erections.
    Its a moot point for me at the moment.

    Firstly my wife's latest objection was that not allowing erections was bad for the cock's health. Now I seem to have at last got her to accept that no orgasms is not harmful.

    Secondly I have found that I get anxious that after 2 months with just 2 big spurts and just pulsing in the cage the rest of the time....maybe, you know, the cock won't work properly or won' t erect. Right?

    If Madame Vanilla were to be less reticent, I d be happy to put up with the anxiety.
     
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    #378 borbulls1961, Sep 4, 2022
    Also I really feel reassured when I have deep cleaned the cock and pulled it hard with lotion so it shines and I can see pre-cum pearling on the lips; then a dowsing in ice cold water until it aches and back in the clean steel, I then know I have saved myself for Madame when I give her back the keys.
     
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    #379 littleguy3, Sep 5, 2022
    I guess if I was convinced that it was important for my health that I have semi frequent erections, I'd be begging her to supervise... no... produce them because 1) it's her property, 2) her manipulations are superior in affect than mine, and 3) her manipulations are much more likely to result in an accident!
     
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    #380 borbulls1961, Sep 6, 2022
    Not much happening as Madame is quite tense with the start of the new school year for our child.
    I did a deep cock clean yesterday and took the advice from here, and avoided "self-erecting" it.
    I have sort of forgotten what cumming feels like. Its been over a month.
    I have some anxiety that it might not work. Silly?
     
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    #381 Rectrix, Sep 6, 2022
    It will work, you'll know because you'll feel it trying at night. Erections are a privilege she will grant when you deserve one.
     
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    borbulls1961 Madame Vanilla's property

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    #382 borbulls1961, Sep 7, 2022
    You are right.
    Madame Vanilla has a doubt that it might not work properly, and she is very strong willed.
    Sometimes I even doubt if I can still come.
     
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    #383 borbulls1961, Sep 7, 2022
    Madame Vanilla saw me in the shower struggling to clean the cage and contents...and asked me if I'd just like the key to unlock and clean.

    I did and I showed her my erection while cleaning.

    Afterwards I left the key by her phone and now its gone.
    In general she shows little interest in it so this small event made me happy.
     
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    #384 borbulls1961, Sep 7, 2022
    I was driving Madame Vanilla this morning and she had some nice open toe shoes and tight pants. I gawked hard at the veins in her feet and could almost have come from the desire to lick her veins and in between her toes.
     
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    #385 borbulls1961, Sep 10, 2022
    She was little spoon this morning. But with her nightie. Still nice. My cage pulsed on her leg.
    Haven't come for a long time it seems. My mind is scrambled.
     
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    #386 borbulls1961, Sep 15, 2022
    Wearing a different cage, it is shorter and has tightly spaced bars over the head so its 'no touch'.
    Its very frustrating as I can't fondle the head with my pinkie. Almost like I don't know if I still HAVE a cock.
    Havent come for 38 days.
    Madame Vanilla is a bit tense and keeps wearing a nightie so her body is 'no touch' at the moment.
    I saw her naked in the shower room but she was busy so I didnt try to touch. I do like her body.

    In fact Id actually just like to fuck her.
     
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    #387 borbulls1961, Sep 15, 2022
    I'd really like to touch the head.
    But I can't.
     
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    #388 littleguy3, Sep 15, 2022
    Is this different cage permanent or the primary one you'll use going forward? If so, will you be updating your profile page background? Is it really chastity if you can still play with yourself with it on?
     
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    #389 borbulls1961, Sep 17, 2022
    40 days since I last came.

    Madame Vanilla is going through some stress and doesn’t let me cuddle her, so I feel a little rejected.
    She seems oblivious to my locked and loaded cock.

    Chastity gets difficult when the lady "forgets" all about it.

    Ofcourse the point of chastity is to get me to concentrate on HER needs.

    We need to communicate more, just seems that it's never the right time...too busy, too grumpy, too tired...
     
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    #390 borbulls1961, Sep 18, 2022
    She says that she is not in the mood for fun right now as real life is making her stressed.
    So chastity is about respecting her and not taking the cock for a quick rub.
    She has the key.

    This morning she allowed me to touch her thigh and breasts and nipples and I pressed my cage into her butt. HER BODY IS MAGICAL.

    Not for long though, she got up and I had some leakage.

    I do feel chastity quite worthless when she's not in the mood.
     
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    #391 Chaste J., Sep 18, 2022
    Yes. Chastity does require input from both sides to be fair. I think most of us appreciate that our partners might not feel in the mood sometimes and that's fair enough. But long periods of being locked up and forgotten would probably seem quite pointless to be honest. Having said that one of the best things I find is when she "has her wicked way" and then just tells me "I'm finished, you can go now". I'm left hard and dripping to clean the her dildo and strap on whilst she goes about her business.
     
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    #392 borbulls1961, Sep 18, 2022
    Thanks for you input.

    To continue this important matter Ive made a thread:

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/when-do-you-dislike-chastity.47802/
     
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    #393 borbulls1961, Sep 27, 2022
    Its over 50 days now. No release. I forget what it feels like to have ropes of cum shoot upwards through the inside of the shaft and out the head. My balls are like some strange helpless victims.
    I wasnt counting initially but it seems to drag on as my Lady takes no interest. Shes under stress.

    At least She hasn't told me to take it off.
    If only she'd let me lick some of her juices.
     
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    #394 borbulls1961, Sep 28, 2022
    I got all confused yesterday and fucked up. I kissed her breast in the morning and realised the astonishing emotions her body brings on me.

    Went rummaging through her stuff to find the key. She saw me. Then she wouldn't take it back. And I masturbated. All wrong.

    I locked back up this morning still horny...and the key is gone.

    Ofcourse its still nice to know the cock still works. I had got quite anxious.
     
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    #395 Jay Sub, Sep 28, 2022
    Oh dear. You guys need to communicate, open up about how you feel. I do hope she forgives you, and you learn from the experience.
     
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    #396 borbulls1961, Sep 29, 2022
    This morning we are still in the midst of a cold spell and my cremaster is trying to pull my balls through the steel ring and up almost into my throat...at least that's the feeling.

    Oh yes, @Jay Sub communication is the most difficult thing, maybe for fear of rejection.
     
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    #397 IB-Chaste, Sep 29, 2022
    I feel you fucked up when you failed to provide Madame Vanilla with a key safe.
    Without rummaging I know exactly where my key is… it is however, probably more untouchable than your head in your new cage ;)
     
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    #398 littleguy3, Sep 30, 2022
    That is true for me too! Haha! What a great response! I read that and wish I had thought to respond as you did.
     
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    #399 KMW’s, Oct 8, 2022
    So does your wife recognize your sexual needs in any way at all? I read through all of your posts quite a while ago, but I've since forgotten what her response was to the cage and everything like that. Do you think if you got rid of the idea of the cage that she might warm up to you sexually more?
     
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