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    #1 borbulls1961, Aug 3, 2020
    Hi everyone,

    I have finally taken the bit between my teeth: this is where things started 2 weeks ago... (and now I'm locked again this morning and she has put the keys away).

     
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    #2 borbulls1961, Aug 3, 2020
    ...and yes! there's been more sex in the last 2 weeks than in the last 10 years!
    She hates the device but commented on it saying she supposes that "my little metal friend was her little metal friend".
    Wow didn't realise how much I love the taste of her vagina nor how much she loves PIV and she had me take it off these last two night and climbed up on me for her pleasure.
    She whimpered.
    This morning I re-locked and put the keys on her pillow, and now they've disappeared.
    BUT yet she is still SUPER VANILLA...just touching my cock with her hands she dislikes, kissing me after I've licked her she hates, fucking in daylight is still difficult for her!!!
    Time will tell...so here starts our Journey. Its not about chastity, or me kicking the bad masturbation habit, but about giving her pleasure again. Looking forward to bringing out her wild animal for the first time in her life.
     
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    #3 bondinchas, Aug 3, 2020
    If you don't produce your happy hormones, then you don't miss them.
    But if you produce them regularly, they become addictive in a good way.
    Little and often is the way (which leads to lots, often).
     
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    #4 borbulls1961, Aug 6, 2020
    Still on my quest to get the vanilla out of Madame.

    Well I've been more or less locked for 17 days; Madame made me unlock on saturday and on Sunday night and climbed up on me and oh boy it felt like she reached Inside my body and ripped my cum out of it! Most importantly she whimpered.
    Yes I dropped for 2 days but up on the 3rd..then.curiously back down on the 4th? and today is day 5 and my balls are so bursting: I've had my hands on her all day and...

    I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER! I thought that aspect of chastity was an exageration, but I stare at her body and feel week in her presence and the rest of the time I daydream of fucking her: and this is a chronic internet porn multi-daily masturbator talking who just stopped dead masturbating 17 days ago!

    Madame gets to see the device every day although she said she didn't want to see it; in the evening we cuddle infront of the TV and she rests her arm across the metal bump. I'm super scared that she might just say... OK Time's up I'm tired of this game...She was so worried that I'd hurt myself but she hasn't mentioned that for a few days and I'm trying to normalise the whole thing and being super attentive to her and her needs. Thanks guys for all the advice on my "introductions" page.

    BTW I bought 3 devices with 3 compatible but different sized rings and have found a surprising combination to work: its an A285 with the largest ring (50mm). Only thing is it weighs 310 grams that's more than 3/4 of a pound! Anybody have a heavy device, does it give you ball ache?? do you have to keep briefs on in bed to support the gravity on your balls?

    Madame was worried the chinese lock might jam and she'd have to axe it off like Rose in the Titanic...well I don't know where that all came from so I have ordered (on Madame's amazon account) a Burg Wachter barrel lock which should arrive tomorrow, then I hope that it will add some "german" security to the locking mechanism.

    Last request for advice: do the stainless steel devices (310grams of it) set off metal detectors that are more and more present outside airports??... I don't think Madame is ready to face that level of embarassment (yet).
     
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    #5 bondinchas, Aug 6, 2020
    You can do a simple test... with a magnet. If the magnet won't stick to the steel, then it is unlikely to set off the scanner. That's because the better surgical steels are quite non-magnetic, and they tend to not set off the magnetic scanners. Compare the magnetic adhesion to a metal trouser or jacket zip. If it's less strong, you're good to go.

    You can't be totally certain though because they can adjust the sensitivity of the scanners, you may get through undetected in some places and not in others. Obviously they don't want every metal zip and button to set the scanner off, but again, they want to catch things like pocket knives. The problem with these scanners is that if they set off the alarm, they don't know what caused it until they do a physical check (or ask and judge that you're telling the truth).

    The other type of scanner that can see through clothes is much less of a problem (for cage wearers). Yes, they'll see the cage, but yes they'll know what it is and not bother stopping you. They see chastity cages all the time and they're not a threat to aircraft security.
     
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    #6 borbulls1961, Aug 7, 2020
    Thanks bondinchas. I've tried the magnet and there's no attraction so I'll have to risk it...

    On a happy note Madame has said there's no TV this evening and we're going to bed early (after our 10 year old though).

    I wrote her a love note when she was out jogging this morning, and told her how much I loved her and how intimacy these last few days felt like our beginnings (13 years ago...) and thanked her for accepting my device and asking her to unlock me this evening if I've been a good boy and only if she wants to!!!

    Well this is the end of my 3rd week in chastity and Madame Vanilla is very slowly going along with it.

    Now the thing is that I've got pressure on me to make her cum this evening and nobody does well with pressure...

    Wish me well.
     
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    #7 BR_Saiph, Aug 7, 2020
    Right on. Slow and steady...
     
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    #8 borbulls1961, Aug 8, 2020
    Last evening was a new experience after 5 days of no cumming.

    Madame Vanilla told me with a bit of a laugh "unlock yourself" but I had to remind her to give me the keys.

    We watched some documentary on Great Cities in the living room: I got her soaking with my fingers then she climbed up on me and started fucking me. When she started going real fast I concentrated on the TV audio which enabled me to last longer than usual but eventually it felt like she hooked on to a sperm rope way down in my base and reeled it out of my balls and up through my cock and away into her. She groaned and whimpered but not sure if she came. That's a discussion to have later today.

    Oh my, THE DROP! felt like I'd Fallen off the top of a cliff until early this morning. I almost masturbated my morning wood but just got up early, made her some tea and locked myself up leaving the keys on her pillow.

    Madame Vanilla really digs PIV.
     
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    #9 borbulls1961, Aug 10, 2020
    Still locked and chaste...3 days after cumming so hard. My pressure is up. A272 doing à good job. Have to keep do ing things for Her.
     
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    #10 NZSenator, Aug 11, 2020
    Enjoyed your journal and can relate somewhat to how your wife feels about it. 12 or so weeks in and my own wife's reaction has gone from "eeek, what are you doing to your penis, it looks squashed", to accepting the cage but "its your thing", to starting to exert some level of control over the cage and most recently to exerting control over my penis itself. Its a slow road, but left to go at her own pace has been best.

    I had a 2 week denial period early on, but like your wife, mine likes PIV, we only get the opportunity on weekends so I'm normally uncaged for that 1 of the 2 days (the other is just for her).

    I never understood "the drop", but when I had that 2 week period initially, my whole body was buzzing. I start to get to that level again by mid-late week (especially if we have a mid week session just for her), but with the weekend release, it just all starts over again.
     
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    #11 borbulls1961, Aug 11, 2020
    Thanks NZSenator.
    The worst happened last night...She said she didn’t like the device, after I had got her hot and bothered with my fingers... so I said give me the keys and I ll unlock.
    After unlocking she roll éd over and said sleeping time.
    I masturbated.
    Then Ive been an arsehole today.
    Not quite sure if this will get back on track.
     
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    #12 subrick, Aug 11, 2020
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    borbulls1961,

    Sorry to hear things have derailed a bit. I hope they get back on track for you. My Wife/KeyHolder and I have been doing the cage/chastity thing off and on for over 20 years. It was only this last time that she has been completely onboard with it and fully sees it being all about HER. So, I've been locked as long as my signature says (123 days as I write this) with no orgasm of any type while I'm locked. That's HER rule, and she has insinuated that may be the case until our 30th Anniversary, next July, a total of over 450 days! She's not even saying she'll unlock me then...just that I might be allowed to have an orgasm on our anniversary! She didn't allow me to have one on our 29th last month, though she DID tease the HECK out of me!

    I did want to address your question about the metal detectors at airports. Hopefully things will get back on track for you and this will be a concern again. I don't know if you're in the U.S. or not, but I can tell you the "body scanners" used at all major U.S. airports WILL see just about ANYTHING on your person. They actually use a computer algorithm to "detect" unexpected things to help eliminate human error. Chastity devices may not set off an "alarm" per se, but the TSA Agent viewing the screen will see everything the scan shows. Here's a link explaining the technology and what they "see": https://www.tripsavvy.com/tsa-backscatter-or-body-imaging-x-ray-machines-3150258

    And here's another link showing which airports in the U.S. have the scanners: https://www.tripsavvy.com/which-airports-have-full-body-scanners-3150257

    I don't know what their prevalence is outside the U.S., however. Even if they see a device on you, they may or may not pull you aside for further questioning.

    But to be safe, I'd put it in my carry on luggage during scanning and reinstall it after the security checkpoint. Saves possible embarrassment and as others have said here, helps keep "our kink" out of the "vanilla's" environment. :) If you're travelling alone, take a pic and send it to your Lovely Wife so she knows you're locked. If your device allows one of those plastic numbered locks to be used, all the better as those can be easily cut in an emergency, but the coded numbers can show your KeyHolder whether you've changed locks or not. There are different styles, but if you haven't seen them, here's a typical model: https://www.amazon.com/Disposable-M...ocphy=9001634&hvtargid=pla-523065426704&psc=1

    Anyway, Good Luck! I hope things get back on track for you soon. Just be loving and patient.

    ~subrick
     
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    #13 NZSenator, Aug 11, 2020
    Could that have been a test by her on how serious you are about chastity and it being for her?

    If you continually remove the device for masturbation because she isn't cooperating or participating, there will be no reason or incentive for her to participate (you're doing what you normally do, so why should I bother).

    Ultimately though, if she really is a PIV type of lady, then you'll struggle to remain locked / denied. You could go down the numbing cream / condom route so that all the pleasure is hers, but that is very dependent on the dynamic of your relationship.

    I found for Mrs Sen, limited talk about the device was best, just let her get used to it in her own time. Also not trying to push things, like taking intimacy beyond something simple like passionate kissing or simply holding her hand while watching TV etc. Just because we are locked and loaded doesn't always mean our partners sex drive changes.
     
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    #14 borbulls1961, Aug 14, 2020
    Thanks subrick and NZSenator for your thoughts.
    After 3 days out and masturbating once every day after a twenty day lock up...I wrote my good Wife a love note again adressing her worries and requesting she change her mind to control my bad habit.
    And she has, albeit slightly reluctantly.
    So Im back in the A272 and being a good loving husband once again.
    What relief. I ll do anything for her like this. Hope she connects the dots.

    On another note my right ball popped out of the 50mm ring last night in bed so I slept with it off but did not masturbate. Ive gone for the 45mm this morning. It feels a little tight. Not sure if possible for long term.

    I did not tell her as I dont want the equipment to be an obstacle.
     
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    #15 borbulls1961, Aug 17, 2020
    Havent come for 4 days. Beginning to enter my edgy zone.

    Have managed a solution to the ball popping on the comfortable 50mm ring...bending the connecting bars slightly and thereby reducing the gap very slightly.

    The 45mm ring is impossible at night so Im hoping this solution works out.

    Been ok for the last couple of days...no ball popping.

    Madame Vanilla has been too tired for any Piv as we have had house guests this weekend but she said that we hadnt touched enough so we did some body rubbing and hugging before early rise on sunday. She seems ok rubbing against the steeled penis.

    And Ive been non stop helping her. Hope she registers that the help and the lock up are correlated. The crazy thing is how much I have started to crave HER again. How does a steel device hanging off your balls do that?
     
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    #16 borbulls1961, Aug 19, 2020
    So 6th day locked... and Madame Vanilla said this morning as we cuddled in bed that I should be unlocked for tonight, which translates in CM language that she wants PIV this evening. This morning she left for some shopping and looked at me and said "no bad behaviour when I'm out".

    I think she's connecting the dots.

    Guys you've got to realise that before I brought chastity up this last July we hadn't had sex for 5 years! And I'd empty my balls manually every day.

    So my balls are full and I'm thinking of my wife's body and looking forward to her draining them this evening. That's just how it should be.
     
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    #17 Conrad3, Aug 19, 2020
    Or she could be playing with your mind and you don’t get it anywhere near her vag
     
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    #18 borbulls1961, Aug 19, 2020
    Oh I wish...but she is too vanilla for mindfucking... so far.

    Though I am in the process of getting her there to mindfuck me with a transparent jewelry box containing my key and a bluetooth padlock controlled by her phone app.

    Padlock to arrive next month.

    She luvvvss Piv and playing with her phone...
     
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    #19 borbulls1961, Aug 20, 2020
    Started the evening helping her paint her toes nice and deep red. First time for me and its not so easy...

    Well Madame Vanilla was feeling tireder than shed expected...but when she felt the unlocked cock she decided she would use it and climbed on top. Lots of grunting from me as I tried to last out and she seemed Very Happy and I felt her reel in a long line of come out of my balls up through my cock on and on until I felt the end of the line slip out and into her SNATCH.

    Slept well.

    She went out early for a jog and Ive locked up to avoid playing with her toy.
     
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    #20 NZSenator, Aug 20, 2020
    Good progress so far, don't rush or push it, let her continue to set the pace
     
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    #21 borbulls1961, Aug 22, 2020
    Thanks for your encouragement NZSENATOR.
    She put the keys away on Thursday morning in her bedside drawer and Im still locked.
    Slowly going up the curve...it seems like its always my 4th day that I start getting edgy so that should be tomorrow.
    I have doubled up my efforts to relieve her of chores and listen to what she has to say and give her foot rubs...
    Not sure she is joining up the dots.
    Worried she might just say that’s how it should be without the device...though I have explained 3 times what an out of control masturbator I have been...for many years.
     
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    #22 borbulls1961, Aug 23, 2020
    Yep day 4 it is.
    We have had bbq with guests in the garden and Madame Vanilla dolled herself up while I was grilling...which I hadnt expected. Been staring at the bare skin of her legs under her dress. The painted toes. Her dress bust to see if I can spot any perkiness. Pretty earrings.
    Geez I havent stared at my good wife in YEARS...
    When the guests left she told me to go take a shower and then when I was done she hugged me and said I smelled better.
    Thanks little steel device.
     
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    #23 NZSenator, Aug 24, 2020
    Did you make an effort to point out that you noticed how good she looked, compliment on her outfit and how you felt about it?

    A bit of intimacy often doesn't go astray either, prolong the good night kiss, hold her hand, even the odd bum/boob grope can be well received from time to time too. Little things start to add up and shows you are being more focused on a deeper connection than just sex.
     
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    #24 borbulls1961, Aug 24, 2020
    Gerat suggestion NZSenator.
    I gave Madame Vanilla a good footrub last night then suckled on her toes and licked her arches. Very first time and she looked astonished.

    So I did compliment her with a little love note albeit belatedly...
    I also asked her to no longer keep the keys in her bedside drawer but to hide them.

    And for the first time in six weeks of me being locked my wife has really HIDDEN the keys.
    OMG! I guess Im going to have to be a very good boy from now on...its only just dawning on me.
     
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    #25 borbulls1961, Aug 25, 2020
    7th day starting now and I am a dripping horny mess.

    We cuddled before getting up and the I realised I could nt stop staring at her as she got out of bed.

    This morning she is out and I am at home and can not stop thinking about my good wife's body.

    I realise from all the posts here that I have to keep my own brakes on and not overwhelm Madame Vanilla. Wow that is challenging.
     
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