Boys, what is your reaction?

Sounds like a wonderful thing to hear coming from a significant person in my life!

 

My love says that and it is awesome!

 

Suspicion.

 

Actually My Queen has very high standards about Herself and the significant ones in Her life, including Her very own pet. As such, She is proud of me in many areas, and still train me with care to be outstanding. i am Her creation, after all, someone wiser, stronger, healthier, a close ally She can trust, yet totally at Her disposal.

but i can understand that not all KH have a close relationship to her slave(s), especially if the KH is offering a service of keyholding. in my case, it is a way more than about chastity and keyholding

 

Appreciation for shared sentiment.

 

Goddess shares words with the same intention frequently. Knowing that I am valuable, loved and special to her has the desired effect on me to cherish her. throwing me a bone makes me want to serve her and please her.
On the other hand, i also love being humiliated by her. It has the desired effect that I feel inferior to her. The two applied together in an alternating fashion is really working for reprogramming a male.

 

Incredibly positive! Just because a relationship has kink in it doesn't mean that people shouldn't adore each other. As a matter of fact I get really discouraged when I see people who think all alternative relationships are based on contempt, dislike, misogyny, or misandry. Alternative love is still love, it's just the way it's expressed that's different.

 

And so are you. :-*

 

It probably depends on the type of relationship.... but in my opinion these are very valuable words... words from the heart... and shouldn't every loving relationship come from the heart...So for me it would give me warm feelings of love... being appreciated... and those words should also work the other way around...

 

It should be a shared experience, one born to dominate and one craving to submit, and if these things come together, then the sentiments you describe would flow between the partners. So I would say "thank you" and reciprocate with words of my own.

 

I'd ask my wife "How bad is the damage to the car?"

What? What?

 

Quesy. It's too much at once. That She is saying it because of a therapy session She had.

But I do feel that my Wife feels this way

 

On the other hand She would love it if I said those words to Her all the time while looking in Her eyes. That is exactly what She craves from me. She has told me on many times that I need to say that to Her. I need to do better saying that to Het

 

It's nice to see such positive responses. But the first thing that came as my response would be, "I'm not getting unlocked, am I"?

In other words, she is really saying, "you are great, just the way you are, special, worthy, loved......and locked! You have become all these wonderful things, see what locking you up has done for you. I want you to always be this way, so I think you should always be locked".

Sorry for the conspiracy theory, but to me, that would be actually be awesome to hear her follow up with that. It is what we really want more than anything, isn't it?

That would be such a rush. My life would instantly be awesomer. I would love her more than ever, because she knows best, that being locked is the best thing for me. It is what I need. It is for my own good.

 

Lol

 

I soak this up. It makes me yearn to be a good boy and even better in my submission to her. She praises me for good behavior and I’m a good pet for it. This has allowed me to take on challenging rituals, rules and constraints because she encourages me.

Some women say men are dogs. But they can be good dogs!

 

She does tell me these things, and it's so important, especially since chastity and FLR to know she still treasures me.

 

It has happened. I feel the same way back to both my wife, and my keyholder. We all care about each other, and wouldn't be friends, or this close, if we didn't think highly of each other.

 

On top of the world

 

I would think to myself, "Who are you? And what the F' did you do with my wife?" Of course I wouldn't actually articulate that for two reasons:
1) I'd be in shock.
2) I know better.

 

She makes me feel that way every day

 

She constantly says how lucky she is, I’m her perfect, etc. Feeling appreciated is one of the cornerstones for male submission. The carrot works better than the stick, and feeling good about being lead makes all the difference in the world.

 

Mrs Chaste has never said these words to me! She has no need to. Her actions in our everyday life convey every sentiment expressed in those lovely words. It's amazing how "in tune" you become with each other! Mrs Chaste is truly wonderful and I know that she feels the same about me. We also know that neither of us is perfect, but that's part of what makes us who we are!

 

I'd probably be waiting for the "but,..."! Just kidding. She tells me things like that almost every day!