We are trying chastity for the first time. I brought it up in March, was actively practicing denial since probably then, and finally locked up after she got comfortable with the cage since July 19th. We are making progress. She says she enjoys this lifestyle and wouldn't want to go back. She says I'm a much better husband. My first release was 3 days in, she wanted sex. We had some seriously amazing sex. She didn't ask me to lock back up, so I didn't. When I brought it up the next day, she didn't say much about it. So, I kind of tested her. Going back to my "old ways" in a sense. After a long day, I tried to initiate sex. She said "it's so late! Is that all you think about? You know what? Lock yourself back up". I asked her to keep the keys with her instead of on the nightstand 24/7. She put them in her purse. How fitting! Success? Either way, I don't think she's had her aha moment. But, we are making progress. I've learned that patience is key here. Males tend to want to go 100mph right when their wife agrees to try chastity. Remember, you've wanted this for years. They just found out this even exists.