I think it is like that for most of us. That's why I am doing the Poll to try to get an aprx percentage.
The answers are not mutually exclusive. He could have introduced the idea, and it could still be her wish to lock him. And you probably should have a tick box for "We both ran across the idea and started talking about it," and "He brought it up, but only much later did she decide to do it." Typically, it's the men who run across this stuff, so they are more likely to introduce the idea.
As I’ve put in other posts, it was all my madams idea, she saw a male chastity device in a video, and googled it right away, and found the cb website. She showed me the video as soon as I got home from work, and asked me what I thought, I said it could be fun, but I wouldn’t know where to get a device from. she clicked open the browser showing the website and said from here! Order one now! I did and as soon as it arrived she had me in it, evenings and weekends we were together only to begin. Then one weekend she was meeting another sub for a session and she had me go home wearing it on the Friday night, as she didn’t remove it until the Sunday night as I was adamant i couldn’t wear it to work. A few weeks later she insisted I wear it to work, just for one day to please her. So I did. After I finished work she said if I could manage one day then I can manage every day, and I was to remain locked for her pleasure.and so it began!
[Poll Results] Who Introduced You to Chastity? https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/who-introduced-you-to-chastity.42568/ Sorta relevant. Asking the locked instead of the KH.
At the minute it's 25% of the KH that started the Chastity lock up. I didn't think it would be as much as that. Most off what you see and read it's him asking for it.
I saw it someplace on the "Net", asked my Wife what she thought of it. We couldn't get one here fast enough. It's been around three years since I have been caged. My Wife(KH) wouldn't have it any other way now. I think I'll be wearing one now until my Wife gets bored of it. And the way things are going, it won't be anytime soon...