Part 5 ~ The best thing about the future is it only comes one day at a time...

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    Very nice, MW. I'm glad you're finding a comfortable stride. I think a lot of Dommes and proto-dommes are intimidated by the fantasy stories of 24/7 slave-owning, merciless bitch-dommes. Sure, some people lay that way, but far from all. If it's how you want to play, then it's good! You make the rules!

    It sounds like it's good to be home! :) Enjoy!
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    bravo!!! sounds like a fun night.
     
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    At this point I believe a thank you is necessary for tiff and Ms Linda is in order.

    To tiff for the wonderful paddles, they've had their first outing on pet's rear end (he giggles just like littlepet!) and to Ms Linda for the technique.

    Ummm... pet isn't quite so pleased! :haha4:

    I was feeling a bit poorly, so pet came to snuggle with me before the kids got home from school. I decided that seeing as my bag of crops/canes/paddles was to hand that I would show pet my new found skills.

    I felt much better instantly and feel that I should administer pain far more frequently. It brings about a calm, serene air....
     
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    You go, girl! :party-075:
     
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    Quiet night last night because I had to go to work. :mad0217:

    I was still wide awake at midnight and pet and I had the silliest chat before going to sleep, really stupid, you would have thought we were teenagers having a sleepover.

    I live for the odd moments like that, going to sleep laughing...
     
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    my wife says she always goes to sleep laughing(maybe its me)! :confused0068:
     
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    Awwww, poor stroppy! LOL

    pet had I just had our little Christmas Tradition visit to a garden centre to pick out our illuminated house for our village.

    It's funny, I wasn't keen on those before I met pet, but he talked me into one for our first "proper" Christmas together, and now we buy one every year... we have 3 now.

    Baby was in AWE of all the lights and Father Christmases and the Pippos (which we think she mean hippo, despite the fact it was a polar bear!) It's going to be a great Christmas with our little 2.5 year old. :elve-089::party-094:
     
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    Firstly, I'm sorry your not feeling well, Mistress :( Colds are no fun.

    I had to laugh at your post about going to bed laughing. Those silly moments for pet and I are just priceless. Not talking about anything, and talking about everything all mingled together.

    Christmas is going to be such a great time this year with our little chicklet. She's totally understands Santa now, and is so excited! This year will be the best Christmas yet. There's something so incredibly magical seeing it through your child's eyes. :santa-116:
     
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    best part of CM is reading about couples like Mistress and me.
     
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    Oh well, back to normal then!

    I have managed to swat pet's bottom a few times with various paddles and crops, funny thing was, yesterday he said he was leaving his jeans on because it hurt to much - so I hit him harder - DUH!!! He won't be doing that again soon. I still can't get over the fact that he just giggles and giggles even though he's in pain.

    He took me to see 2012 last night (yay for Orange Wednesdays, 2 tickets for the price of one!)

    You think he would have learned from the Day After Tomorrow - NEVER take a geology/environmental graduate to a geology/environmental disaster film (tsunamis don't do that out at sea, if Yellowstone went up it would move much faster than that and the heat would have burnt him by now, but yes California will probably fall off one day, and yes the poles do switch on a fairly regular basis...) it was a good film though.

    I have a party to do tonight and the girl has already told me I won't get many sales because no one has any money. I'm tempted to say "so you're dragging me out there so I can pay my petrol and entertain you for free then?!" but unfortunately I am a good sales woman and can't be rude to my (potential) customers. As a result I'm already in a bad mood today!

    Need to get on with organising the house, sorting out paperwork, making a decision on my degree, finding money for Xmas presents and all that jazz!
     
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    lol. I do the same thing. If it makes me yelp, I invariably giggle afterward 'cause I'm having so much fun! Quite often, after a flogging, my face hurts and I realize I was smiling so much that the facial muscles are tired. heh

    mikecb
     
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    guess you need to smile more!:character0180:
     
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    Wow it's been a week since I blogged! :sex024:

    I'm afraid this is just a brief message too. I have been loving the busyness of the site lately - over 200 posts in 24 hours!!!! Madness! It does mean that it has been very difficult for me to keep up.

    I'm very easily distracted and today I really should be doing some paperwork but I want to take Toddler to see Father Christmas in town, so maybe when I get back I won't feel like doing paperwork and I'll sit down with a coffee and catch up with everyone.

    Relationship-wise I'm up and down. We are very happy, but I'm still wanting to move towards 24/7 and pet is super-resisting! But in a bratty way, not in a "I don't want to do this anymore way".

    Sure wish I could bundle him up and ship him over to have a talk with tiff... maybe that would sort his attitude out!
     
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    I've recently started a job in a Final QA/Packing role and I have access to a great deal of Packing tape and large boxes (HINT) :happy0158:
     
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    you ain't kidding it's hard to keep up
    what is with you women wanting it to be 24/7 :anim_39:
     
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    I never want to be 24/7, I said move "towards"... so I'm thinking more like 10/5ish for now!

    And Burger, I might take you up on that!
     
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    sorry, but when I read moving towards I interpreted it as the eventual goal. I apologize for the misunderstanding.
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    It's not just women. I would love to move towards a 24/7 lifestyle I love the feeling of submission. Oh hold on I'm a sissy where do that put me in all of this? lol
     
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    I don't understand why people are so anti 24/7.

    But then maybe my idea of 24/7 is different to everyone elses.

    I already have pet's respect and he will do anything I ask him at any time. He also sees his primary goal as to make my life as comfortable as possible and be as helpful as possible. He is like that 24/7. It's called being in a relationship!!!!!

    I still want to be able to potter round the house doing housework, looking after the kids, working.

    I don't see 24/7 as being sat on my butt all day, wearing leather, eating chocolates and spanking pet every so often for fun!

    24/7 for me will mean fine tuning pet's attitude, but incorporating my wishes into his life. I don't want him to stop doing things he likes, he will still have spare time, money, freedom.

    As we all know, I don't conform to the standard book of D/s rules... I want what I want. 24/7 means he will be as he is right now, with a few attitude adjustments, more cuckolding and playtime, and I don't envisage that until the kids have moved out in 10-15 years!

    Not getting at anyone, just don't understand the horror or the glaze people get when 24/7 is mentioned!

    I should have been more specific in the first place. :jumping0046:
     
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    Priceless words.
     
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    MW- I'm not saying it's an issue, I just noted that Goddess Jen mentioned it in her journal recently, Madam mentioned it in her post.
    Part of me thinks 24/7 would be great, another part isn't so sure about it.
    As we ALL tend to say, we will see what the future holds.
     
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    No problem madamsboy.

    I have a rotten headache and it's probably not the best time to be trying to catch up with everyone's posts! Lol.

    :party-071:
     
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    if you were in america I'd say you had too much wild turkey
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    Recent studies have shown that sex (or more specifically, orgasm) is one of the best remedies for headaches in Women. Have pet sneak out for some chocolate for You afterwords & presto! headache is gone!
     
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    I don't get them often, and I have a feeling this one is cycle-related. Sometimes being female really really SUCKS! I may get off lightly with the rest of the cycle stuff, but I wish it wouldn't give me headaches! LMAO!
     
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