PA Pierced After 20+ years

I've been an lurking member here for a while but never posted anything. But I just can't refrain from telling someone .. I finally overcame all my fears and got a PA piercing last week. 7 days in now.

I've been into chastity for over 20 years but was always able to pull out of every device I tried. Reality never met the fantasy and (my wife and) I never pursued it further.

But a great experience with the Lori's 2e device with a retainer ring convince me I could and should take that next step .. and did (at 6ga for those who would inquire.)

I'll write more on the future... once I'm fully healed ...

 

Maybe I've been lucky so far. Nothing seems to leak out the new exit and the stream does hit the ball on the way out but it's more misdirected off "straight" than a splash everywhere. I've been sitting for the most part anyway but a few times decided to stand and aim it and did just fine. Perhaps it will leak out more later when I'm more fully healed. I guess there could be some swelling sealing it up - I'm at 10 days and counting.

 

I felt that way for years. No way could I or would I actually get a piercing. I have no tattoos and until the PA, no piercing AND I dont even like when the Dr takes blood for a blood test.

But if I can overcome that "fear" anyone can. One thing that helped was thinking of it as a medical procedure. I once had surgery and afterwards needed (demanded) to get a catheter put in to relieve the building pressure to pee and my internals hadn't yet "woken up". Getting the catheter inserted wasnt fun, felt really strange, but ended wonderfully when the pressure was relieved. To find the nerve to do this I had to think the same way .

You're not doing it for the act of getting pierced itself. You need to look beyond that. You're doing it for what it enables to happen afterwards. True security and what that will actually be like. As I sit here healing , I'm more and more sure I made the right choice and can hardly wait for the "benefit" to pay off now that the very short lived pain and discomfort of the actual procedure recedes into my past.

 

Let's say that stubbing your toe or banging your funny bone (elbow) or biting your tongue or burning your mouth on hot pizza all hurt a lot worse and for a lot longer. This was a few seconds of discomfort, not pain, when the piercer got things ready. It was only bad then because of my own nervousness. Then he had me inhale. Exhale had and he did it. It hurt for a second or two during the actual piercing and then immediately after there was no further pain or discomfort. I was hesitant to look down at it .. but felt nothing different from that point forward.

Tldr: It hurt, but not badly for at most 2 seconds. The anticipation was worse than the reality, by far.

 

Yes, it was a good experience with it. I was locked in first for a few day and then for just over three weeks. During that time I did not intentionally pull or unintentionally pull out. Every other device I tried before failed in that later regard. Inevitably after a few days, I'd wake up and the escape artist will have done his thing at hed be hanging out of the tube . That was disappointing - but never happened with the 2e!

What also never happened in the 2e is that I felt I could intentionally pull out easily. I'm sure if I wanted to, I could. But the fit was so perfect and the retainer ring did its job so well, I never wanted to ruin the experience by blowing the fantasy and proving I could actually get out.

Even when I unintentionally slipped out behind the retainer ring (which might happend when showering, but never at night) I would put myself back into it rather than complete the pull out.

So ... getting back to your question... For the first time I really found out what it would be like to really not be able to escape and really wanted it more than ever. So instead of feeling I had another failed device and experience where I would lock the chastity device and idea away for more years in disappointment, I I decided to go for it and close that last loophole.

Lori had provided me with a PA pin to go along with the retainer ring. That was her idea. I didnt think I'd ever want to get a PA and use it. But I was wrong. My experience showed me how perfect the device would be if I was held in by PA rather than the retainer ring.

So I did this less out of disappointment and more out of confidence that I wasnt taking a crazy next step out of desperation. Rather, I did this knowing that once healed, I can get right back into that same 2e, with the pin instead of the retainer ring and continue where I left off. Knowing this time that thought at the back of my mind that maybe I could get out, or knowledge I could, would be gone and I'll get to experience the real thing.

Tldr: the retainer ring proved to me it was the right device. It convinced me to get the PA so I could use it in a fully secure manner. It became a desire I couldn't resist.