I have been into many fetish interest and have been way before I met my wife. We have been married 24 years. I am still interested and she still isn't. However, in 2002 I found a post on the cb2000 and was hooked. It took many years and devices to find one that could be worn 24/7 without any need to be removed and have the security I "needed". Having a PA, completed the security with a device from Steelworxx. Getting my wife on board would be the biggest hurdle. I knew she would never be the mistress, FLR, keyholder I had fantasies over, yet with the love and relationship we have, there could be a middle ground. The timing and discussion was requires to be light and open. Over the years, things have opened up but has taken time. If you have a vanilla wife and want to introduce her to chastity, take it slow, all her to talk, try to find a middle ground you can be happy with or grow from. We started with a few days here and there with me in chastity. Fast forward to 2017, I averaged 2-3 month in at a time. 2018 we have discussed the option for 6-12 months without being removed. She has gotten comfortable with bringing me to orgasm with a vibrator on my device so I still orgasm at times. So the possibility is there for what I want to experience. Don't jump in the pool full forced. Take time and let her get adjusted. A lot of communication. It would be the best advice I could give.