How long have you been married or together?

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    43 years together and married 41 years.

    New to chastity - 4 days
     
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    Wow that is awesome
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    Been together nearly 11 years . His idea to try chastity as things were a bit slow in the bedroom, kids work usual distractions lol
    Very new so far so good
     
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    My humble suggestion is that you lead with your heart but be sure to lead
     
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    We're right there with you :) never enough time!
     
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    Together for 15 years, married for 10, chastity 24/7 with FLR for about 14 months
     
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    Married 40 years. Just started using a cage to control my urges. Have put all my trust in her, my Keyholder.
     
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    Together 11 years married 8 years.
    Just started taking chasity more seriously within the last 3-4 months. Husband tried a few years ago to introduce it. I wasn't in to it being done to me, but having him locked up is great! Lol!
    Being in control and more dominate is new to me, I am very passive. Trying to bring my inner b*tch out, lol
     
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    Just think about all the things you'd like to improve in your marriage. His home life. His schedule. Your sex life. Work on those. He's amenable, he wants to do those things, he wants you to get the things you want and be happier. He wants to know that he's serving you and he wants to be charged up all the time. That's why he agreed to wear the cage.
     
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    24 years- feels like yesterday
     
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    Together for 22 years. Playing with being locked up for 6 months with various kinks thrown in. I brought it up to try something new.. Wife/KH has really grown into it , more by the day. We still have PIV, but, I do a lot of pleasing of her when not doing PIV.As she is the priority .Lucky me!
     
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    Interesting that a lot of couples here started their journey much later in their marriage. Why is that? Why couldn't we start this at the point we started dating or at engagement? Why do we wait so long to make our fantasies known? I'm guilty. Didn't come out to my wife until 7 years into our marriage though I had been interested in this lifestyle before we got married. I suspect part of this has to do with fear. Fear of being rejected by your significant other. Then you have kids and they throw a monkey wrench in the whole equation. I also would submit that women become open to new ideas with age.
     
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