How long have you been married or together?

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  1. GoddessG
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    Met circa 14 years ago, the time wasnt right however the signs were there. We both missed them .
    The planets aligned and we have been together for roughly 9 months.
    Thinking back, both with FLR and kink - we had it but neither mentioned it. We used to indulge in it mildly.
    I'm a believer in everything happens for a reason (even if it irritates the hell out of me at the time!!).
    Now, we fate made us find one another again. We've opened our inner soul to one another.

    Chastity came about as during bedroom time he would say to me he wanted me to zap him and lock him and begged me to own him etc. I hadn't heard of it /the expressions at all however was quite enthralled. I did some googling and I found a website which specialises in cages and then here.. I haven't looked back. He is being caged this weekend. I shall hold the key for the rest of our lives
     
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    boi paul slave to my Mistress/wife 24/7

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    Met online a month later a Munch as of this good Friday 19 years it was always FLR From day one chastity was the next weekend first lockup 90days and been Living the lifestyle since became 24/7 slave 13 years ago when I retired. Love my Lady more and more by each day.
     
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    Been together 41 years, married 36 in chastity 3years
     
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    nicely expressed, you hear the intimacy
     
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    Married for 30 years, chastity for 3 years. Discovered chastity because I was searching for solutions to ED caused by performance anxiety. Chastity takes the pressure off my performance allowing me to perform at a higher level in many other areas of our life, not just the bedroom. I would recommend chastity/orgasm denial to anyone dealing with performance anxiety.
     
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    Did chastity cure your ED?
     
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    It’s greatly reduced but not gone 100%.
     
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    How do you feel about that, do neither of you miss the penetration sex? What do you have as a substitute ?
     
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    Been together seven years. Married five years. We got pregnant a week or so after we officially got together. We have been friends for 12 years. I was dating my first wife when we met and there was just something about her that clicked. We were never together romantically and my current girlfriend rushed me into an engagement. I was young and dump. Seven years later I'm getting a divorce and we reconnect.

    Shortly after that, baby number one! Then baby 2 then baby 3! We really rushed into the relationship and didn't get to do the getting to know you phase, you know where all the weird kink stuff gets brought up. So couple the stress of three kids a husband who has more kinks than that old extension cord tossed in the back of the garage and her low labido and you get a really bad sex life. At least from my perspective.

    The complete asshole I am cheated on her. She found out and for some strange reason decided to give me another chance. I brought up Chastity because for starters I think it's kinky and love the control aspect. Secondly it will help me be more attentive and force sex to be on her schedule.
     
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    Married 30 years in August, FLR about 3 years, orgasm control about 18 months.
     
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    Been together 18 1/2 years, married for 16.
    Only recently tried chastity to stop my incessant masturbating.
     
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