Forced Impotence

Basically, you are designing that end state. Soft cock and premature ejaculation.[/QUOTE]
I really like this. Incredibly exciting!

 

"Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour."

The D / s is a consensus, the goal is common,
and each other's delight.

 

An impotent man is vulnerable to a woman in love.

But he is faithful,
if she forgives her.
In fact, if you want an impotent man who can not get an erection.
Because he is ready to serve the lover's needs.
Except for that one, which requires erection.

 

There are people that do banding for 1 to 1.5 hours and get total numbness for up to 3 weeks. Too bad you can’t just go to a Botox clinic and get a few shots to paralyze the nerves in the penis for a few months at a time. You can research banding at eunuch.org

 

The botox is exactly the opposite. It helps the blood vessel. It relaxes the cave body and fills it with blood.
Barking is dangerous. Blood clot formation.
The corpora cavernosa
is a suitable way for final impotence.

 

Botox would be used in the nerves of the penis. As far as banding goes, unless you have health problems, it’s generally safe to do for up to an hour and a half. The warnings for drugs like Viagra say to seek medical attention after a 4 hour erection which is similar to banding because the blood is trapped in the penis. If interested, do so at your own risk and do due diligence.

 

Thank you for your reply.
I will consider your advice.
I am grateful for your attention.

 

Banding works for me and after many years of wearing a cage it is great however far more frustrating than a cage there a no cheating this method and I still leak on and of due to the frustration
Anal play has taken it place now
I think if you are sensible about it and do some research it' very safe to a point
My wife loves it as she has always wanted me to only use it for peeing lol

 

This is exciting and necessary ...

 

Great topic, suits to our tastes. Very informative, thanks to everyone who speak out his thoughts and experiences.
However our conclusion is rather sad: there is no safe way to achieve such a results: to keep penis soft and if necessary to ejaculate prematurely.
Or we missed something?

 

makes perfect sense, lol

 

Just one thought: lidocaine spray, cream ... (if there is no allergy to this)

 

I believe this (penectomy) was a common form of castration in harems........the eunuchs used a quill to urinate but of course erections were irrelevant memories.

 

As I am angainst any permanent damage banding, botox and especially penectomy are sounding rather dubious to me. Especially as I wouldn't want him to stay limp all the time - just when I want it.

And like someone earlier noted there is a way to achieve this: hypnosis.
It is not easily done (takes time for permanent effect) and reversing all effects completely might be even harder, but it can be done if the hypnotised subject is working toard his goal.

The hardest part will be finding a competent and trustworthy hypnotiseur. There are good educated ones who also do erotic hypnosis and some "amateurs" (without some kind of formal education but a lot of practice) who are organized ind groups and munchs f.e. on fetlife. With people here looking for permanent "impotence" though without any way to circumvent it it might be really hard to convince them as they will not do anything that will harm someone (from their point of view !).

We had a quite controversial discussion about this at a munch I attend from time to time and in the end most agreed that they would be willing to do this if
1. there were at least two meetings with the subject before to make sure he realizes the risk and problems it might cause and
2. there would be any trigger that allowed the subject to still get an erection / orgasm.

Finding a good and willing hypnotiseur might be the hardest part, but please don't expect him do do magic. For a lasting effect it will take several sessions and audio hypnosis might be used in a supportive way (if you have some experience with it) but most certainly will ont work on their own.

But you have to realize what you are trying to achieve... it is no simple bondage hypnosis where you put a trigger that will make the subject unable to move, but you try to modify something the subject has no concious control about. Doing this safely and with lasting effect takes time....

 

I find this all fascinating because since my teens I've had real problems with impotence. When I was younger I had numerous one night stands where I had to deal with the embarrassment that I couldn't perform. It was hellish. I would often ignore ladies advances because I didn't want them to know my secret.

Very occasionally I was able to do it, generally getting it in whilst briefly hard then holding base to keep it in until I reached orgasm so I'm not a complete virgin but this has had a large impact on my confidence and self esteem in life. So to see a thread where people are talking about how to achieve it is weird.

I haven't had sex for nearly 20 years (am 45 now), my wife let me take a Viagra and try the other night, didn't happen. I wish I had a big hard dick but instead I have a small useless one, I think that was one reason I was attracted to chastity in the first place as it takes away performance pressure.

If anyone's interested I'll tell you how it happened to me, not that it's replicable I don't think. Wind back to 1991, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. When we are together having fun I'm always hard as a rock, we do this most nights a week at her parents house. One night we are playing and I need the toilet but think I can hold on, so I push through and she continues playing with me. Due to me trying not to pee, my erection disappears. Neither of us say anything but a seed of doubt is planted in my mind. I found that by worrying about not getting hard, that's exactly what happens. A month later her parents went out for the night and that was to be our big night, we would lose our virginity together, I bought condoms and we try. I'm rock hard until having to fiddle with the unfamiliar condom packet, by the time I try to put it on I'm barely semi. I couldn't get it in her. I'd blown it. Two weeks later she cheated on me with some big meat head that could break my legs if he wanted to and then she dumped me. I felt like such a failure. Well that was cathartic.

So, I don't know, maybe try learning to worry about not getting hard might do it? Or is that just my fecked up head? It's the same feeling as when you blush and realise you are blushing and then you blush ten times worse. Your brain is messing with you.

 

We are new here in the forum and come from Germany. We have already come a long way and tried many things. The result is, among other things, erectile dysfunction and impotence. In a post I also read the possibilities of banding here. Much more about it in the forum eunuch.org. However, we probably have not found out the correct application. The goal now is to get the penis numb. If anyone has experience with it, we would like to share it.

One member wrote something about alcohol injection in the penile nerves. As preparation before washing procedure my wife inject the local anaesthesia Lidocain through my penis.We have had good experiences with the method. Unfortunately, the effect lasts only 15 to 30 minutes. It should be of much longer duration. Gladly also permantet.

Maybe someone may share his experience

 

@paulie slave
A case of mind over matter. The wham bam brigade are immune from this but I know who I prefer.

 

I would love to find out more on this and how you did it

 

Thankyou Mistress B. What a kind thing to say.

 

A device that is considered an effective behaviour changer is the Kahly's Teeth Bracelet.
I have worn it and the last thing on earth you want is having an erection!

 

If it can be done, count me in. Impotence would be awesome. I have been to my GP and my uro doctors but they hesitate doing anything "crazy". I want to know why they think I a crazy just because I don't ever want erections or feeling. What's wrong with that?

 

I agree that permanent limpness and a total loss of sensation there would be great, but I can understand why most doctors are hesitant to help make such a thing possible. I imagine they'd view it as fixing something which isn't broken. I think a cosmetic surgeon might be more understanding.

 

there are probably some interpretations of their oath that forbid it, "first, do no harm."

 

@paulie, What you are described with struggling with your erection in your teens (or at any age) is normal! If you are getting an erection (rock hard as you said) on it's own, or if you get erections naturally (morning wood) and you are able to masturbate, then you cock is completely fine. Performance anxiety is also normal. Anxiety can take you out of the right mind-set for sex. When you're focused on whether you'll perform well, you can't concentrate on what you're doing in bed. Even if you are able to get aroused, you may be too distracted to reach orgasm. These things lead your body to release stress hormones like epinephrine and norepinephrine. Once that happens, your brain and body don't give a rats ass about sex and blood is redirected for survival of you right now vs creating someone that will survive you. I've been married for 16 years now, so my sample of new flings was a long time ago, but I always had to allow myself to work through anxiety when I didn't know the person that well. There were some "let's fuck right now" kind of moments where I blew right through it, but for the most part, when dates were going well, I would get anxious realizing what may happen later that night. If I was with someone in an established relationship, I almost never had to, it never crossed my mind. Mind / body taking over for evolution purposes is tough to get through. Also, that awkward moment of putting a condom on seems to happen at the exact time when the anxiety would heighten, just moments before you're supposed to start intercourse.

Anyway, that was decades ago for you. I assume you've read and researched to find similar info. Now in chastity with releases every 3 weeks or so, I don't get erections very often, but when I am let out, the erections are pretty awesome vs when I was having an orgasm 1 x day.

With that said, I hope over the years you've found that the circumstances were driving your result and that you're really ok.

Cheers!

 

Apologies for the delay in replying. I just went through my old postings and came across this thread. I think your stress on the consensual aspect of (in this case) forced impotence is perhaps in reply to my earlier post in this thread about the risk in the UK of criminal prosecution. I’d just like to point out that it is settled law in the UK that consent of the harmed is not a defence to prosecution in a BDSM context (R v Brown, House of Lords)

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/R_v_Brown

That was a 1993 judgement of gay BDSM behaviour and perhaps will be overturned if ever a case is prosecuted but it is for now the law of the land.