Average Period of denial with a keyholder

Not how long you are locked.

How long are you usually denied orgasm? Ruined and prostate count as it is a release of fluids, and relief of a sort.

 

Average in the last year, if you've been at it a long time. Perhaps the average over the last 6 months if you are more new to this, or there has been a dramatic change. Obviously if you are averaging 1 per year you need to look back further. It's your current average that's interesting. I will leave the poll open and people can change their mind. Or should I start a new poll with different categories?

 

So... Of those that average under 1 month, how many of you are doing Lockober? Who hasn't told their wife about Lockober yet?

 

It will be interesting to see whether the balance changes as more people add their data.

 

Come on guys, I was hoping for more voting by now. It would also be interesting if the self-lockers did a pole too, to compare data.

 

@jemima @Doczilla421 @Macho de Calcinha

So never again any ruined orgasms, or prostate milking, only edging and frustration? When was your last?

 

With my subspace head on. I love the ruined orgasms. Frustratisfying. And no subdrop. It's a win win situation for your lady. And deliciously hot too. Part of me wants her to mostly only allow ruined orgasms, and make a full one more rare. It's in her best interests.

If it takes me 4 to 5 days to get desperate just for an erection, and she let's me have a full orgasm once a week, she only gets 2 of 7 days of deep subspace out of me. How is that fair?

If it was two weeks, then she'll get 9 of 14, which is barely over half the time with a fully devoted husband. Does that seem right?

Three weeks is 16 of 21 days is about 76% (did I do the maths right?) That's more like it, but is that setting the bar too low?

4 weeks is 23 of 28 days which I think (please check?) Is around 82% a reasonable goal, but if you asked your KH what percentage of time should you be allowed to be in subdrop? What do you think they would say?

31 days (seeing that Lockober is coming...I hope you will not be!) 26 of 31 is just short of 84%. Starts to get difficult to make up those points now.

2 months is 55 of 60 now you are at 91.66% Should that be the goal, or is that not enough for Mistress

Not until 100 days do you reach 95% of submissiveness.

450 days without a full orgasm and you would be horny and dedicated 99% of the time.

Which would she choose?

 

With some extra teasing, which Mrs Jah has not often got time for, though she starting to get really fuckin' good at it, I think subdrop can be reduced to 3 days. Here is the maths

1 week 57%
2 Weeks 78%
3 weeks 85%
4 weeks 89%
31 days 90%
60 days 95%
100 days 97%
300 days 99% Which if you started today would be 4th July 2022.

I've written it up in the notebook...With a note saying:

Before you turn the page. What percentage would you think be a good starting point, as the amount of time I should be totally focused on you, like I am after a week.

Write your answer here........%

Then turn over and see I your expectations are anywhere close to what you want.

Yes! Telling you this scares me a bit, but the twitching gives me away.

I was looking at Lockober captions and sent her this earlier.



J: Noooo!!
J: I would beg and beg, but still be grateful and thank you with all my heart. I love you so much. Xxx

L: I love you tons, but if you not careful you will get yourself more than you can handle. Xxxx

J: I'm ready for whatever you want my love

And with that hot reply of warning, I think I've been brave writing down the stats, and seeing what happens.

 

Brilliant. You must be pleased