Are there actually any submissives here?

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  1. rebeccacd404
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    No mistress, sorry....please forgive me I am just a silly sissy gurl that just craves attention. You are my superior and I worship you....
     
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    Thank you. Not being submissive but rather an alpha male in day to day life doesn't make me someone with a fetish for role play to get my sexual kicks.
     
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    PrincessK [Not Seeking] Owner & KH of SaraLovesChastity

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    Uhh, what part is this is "submissive" Rebecca? When a Lady says she's not interested, maybe back off instead of harassing her. Gross.
     
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    Quite!
     
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    I'm a lifestyle submissive in a very straight world. Life gets in the way sometimes. It's been a roller-coaster of a year.
     
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    sillymaid <--- that's me....

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    Feels like a bit of a fight here....

    The willingness to relinquish control of one's sexual organs to another is an act of submission... ultimately one has lost a very basic animal instinct.

    But whether you are submissive in other ways in life depends upon so many third party issues, it becomes very difficult to define. It becomes what you and your partner or significant others want.

    Submission can take the form of a knight in shining armour, a grovelling slave, or a domestic Goddess.

    I don't think it is possible to apply a submissive label that fits all.

    Well that's my two pennies worth...thank you.
     
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    So then you would not consider me a submissive when Mistress uses a strapon because I also enjoy the experience and definitely submissive when she makes me suck her lovers or get fucked by them. How about when she fucks me with the strapon while I am forced to suck her lover? How would I be classified at that time?

    What about when she fucks me with a strapon in front of others? Does the fact I am embarrassed outweigh the pleasure of getting fucked to make me a submissive?

    As for hiding the sexual pleasure, is it not nice when a sub and a dom can both be happy? Mistress loves when I cum from a strapon fucking while caged. Then she doesnt need to milk me and adds punishment time for minimal reward.
     
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    I'd like to think I'm a good sub to my Bride.
     
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    I'd consider you both to be sexual fetishists.
     
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    Is love real?

    That's the phrase that popped into my head after reading through all this. I don't mean anything specific by it though - it was just what flashed into my mind.
     
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    True love has no expectations.
     
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    Why does it scare me? Love.
     
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    Strong women scare weak men.
     
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    A strong woman is an attractive character trait. But, can I can see how that might also be intimidating - to a fragile ego.
     
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    You don't look like you have a fragile ego.
     
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    That's because I'm afraid to give it away.
     
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    It is possible that I agree with you! To avoid generalization: weak women annoy me.
     
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    didn't mean to offend anyone, please accept my unreserved apology.
     
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    it's as meaningful as punishing a masochist.........
     
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    appreciate your apology.......I like to see the women of CM treated with the respect they deserve (all women actually) - thank you
     
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    That may be true, Miss Lucy, although it depends on what kind of weakness You refer to - strong women make me weak, and fuel my desire to submit and serve, and given the right circumstance I can feel confident enough to submit, is she desires my submission, which of course is never a given
     
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    Yeah, no.

    After reading this thread the only thought that comes to mind is why must it be always so serious?

    You take life that serious and you'll never get out alive. No single way of sexual expression or lack thereof is "correct", that thought is absurd.

    My miss enjoys seeing my submissive enjoyment, be it sexual or not, so we stick to what keeps us happy.
     
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    kickball Submitting to the power of a Domme

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    Not just weak Men
     
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    I love strong women.nothing turns me on more than a woman that throws me on the bed and gets on top when she wants something
     
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    Fantasy yes, real world not really. I'm physically alpha, although women can't resist trying to top me. I'm one of the few males who can join the "me too" campaign against sexual harassment. A female coworker used to grab my ass on a weekly basis 20 years ago. Unlike those me too females, I enjoyed the groping.
     
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