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    Hello everyone,

    I am curious and would like to know if any of you have something like a daily routine in your FLR? Something that you basically do every day do strengthen your sub/dom relationship?

    For example: In our relationship we have the rule that I have to wake up first every day and prepare breakfast, even if I have vacation. When my wife gets up she first heads to the bathroom and prepares my estrogen pills and a glass of water. She then calls me in, makes me get on my knees and feeds me my hormones and water. I thank her for feminizing me and get to kiss either her hand, feet or butt depending on what she wants that day.

    I really love our morning routine as it reminds me of my place in the relationship every day. It also gives me a lot of motivation and positivity for the day.

    Do you guys have any routines? I'd love to hear them.

    Much love,
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    I please her orally to wake her up and then serve her coffee in bed.
     
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    I'm her coffee bitch every morning and then have to feed the dog
     
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    I get up and sweep all the floors , make coffee . In winter I pull her car out of the garage and warm it up before she goes to her office..
     
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    I am kissing her feets every morning while shes waking up. Then I am to make breakfast.
     
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    As she exits the shower I kneel naked, kiss each foot and her mound then say "good morning Goddess". That was an idea from this site, which we now do every morning, we both love it :)

    Then it's usually fetch her coffee, feed the dogs and make the bed.
     
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    I don't live in with either Mistress or Princess. But every morning I do various photo shoots for both of them based on their requests and reviews of my behavior. But when I'm with Princess I always make sure she gets breakfast / bath / oral/ anything she requires to start her day.
     
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    Every morning I get up from my matras on the floor at the feet of her bed and make her coffee. Then untill the coffee is cool enough to drink, she reads her socials and I rub her feet. At 7 I wake the kids and prepare breakfast. Love it that way!
     
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    I’m always up first to make the coffee, then I just do whatever she tells me to do the rest of the day!
     
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    I am the first one to rise and I immediately setup the coffeepot and turn it on before taking the dog outside and then feeding her. By that time, the cofee is made and I take Mistress Her first cup and then get into the shower and I shave in the shower. By the time I exit the shower and ry off, Mistress has laid out my lingerie of the day on Her bed and I put that on before doing my haor and applying my makeup. After that, Mistress inspects my makeup and then my daily chore list begins.
     
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    I get up, make coffee, pack her a lunch, fix her a coffee to go, start her car (if cold), rub her feet after work, clean the house, make supper, do the dishes. When we first started, she wanted me to down on her or worship her bottom either in the morning or that night. As time went by, it fell away.
     
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    I perform a host of daily chores over the course of the day. Every night we have a routine where I kneel beside her in bed and ask if I had pleased her that day. She gives me feedback and sometimes we have a little discussion, and then she releases me by telling me to get into bed.
     
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    Depending on my work schedule, if it's one of my early days, I am not to disturb her sleep. Otherwise, when I wake up, I am to please her. First with my fingers, then orally. Once she is thoroughly satisfied, I take care of the dogs, get her morning coffee prepared and then off to work I go. When she is ready for bed, I will please her again. She will then critique me on my behavior etc and 99% of the time tell me I didn't earn release. She will then go to sleep and I will take care of a few things around the house and then go to bed as well. Rinse and repeat.
     
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    My wife is usually up first to get to work (our work is in animal care, so she'll often be out the door around 6am). I am to get up, make the bed, prepare her nightwear for the bedtime, take the washing downstairs. I then take the dogs that are staying with us out. I'll prepare a drink for her return. If she's not well (she's got a fatigue issue that we're trying to get to the bottom of and get it treated), then I'll take her morning dog work on - she will collect the animals and I'll walk them. Either way, before she gets back I need to prepare the aforementioned drink, a breakfast, a snack for on-the-go if she's walking dogs herself, and be ready at the door to take her coat. After all this she will then let me rest a while and have my own breakfast. I need to eat at regular intervals owing to my own medication which makes me have almost no desire to eat. Then if it's a quiet schedule for me, she will allow me some downtime, then I have my morning duties (hoover, clean kitchen, recycling, feed dogs staying with us, etc.).

    It's a nice regular routine which gives me a sense of purpose in pleasing her, and she can minimise the stress of rushing around and trying to do too much. It makes for a much more pleasing day.
     
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    Most times when my partner exits the shower I get to kneel and kiss her on her womanly parts, no licking just kiss, sometimes she opens the door quietly to test me, but i always hear. Then she slaps me in the head when i stay too long. :) Following my shower 25% of the time ill get a maintenance paddling which really hurts but Ill take it because it somehow relieves stress, buggered if i know how that works.

    The last thing is when we do have sex, following it I usually bury my face in her bottom, I don't get to lick or clean up. I thought she was humoring me, but a few times I haven't done it on purpose, and I have been held to account :) I am expected to basically kiss her butt following sex..which is fine with me :)
     
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    Something to do with the release of endorphins from what I've read. My wife is really puzzled why it works on me...

    As far back as 1987, leather activist and author Dr. Geoff Mains hypothesized that BDSM activity stimulated the release of endorphins, but scientists have yet to tease out the exact relationship between neurochemicals and S&M. But subspace does exist: Dr. Brad Sagarin, founder of the Science of BDSM research team and a professor of social and evolutionary psychology at Northern Illinois University, has compared it to runner's high, the sense of euphoria and increased tolerance for pain that some joggers feel after a long run. Except, obviously, one is caused by the asphalt flashing beneath your feet, the other by a whip swishing through the air.
    Source: https://www.vice.com/en/article/j5e...tting-spanked-and-tied-up-makes-you-feel-high
     
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    The best is to see what you can do and she hates to do,
    what time do you have free to do it.

    And check with her a dynimic that suits her needs. I do it with my KH, she has set me some task that are now mine. I know what to do when back from work and so one.
    I became a real housewive with her help and learn to be proactive in pleasing her and cleaning home.
    it takes time. began with a list of task or an excel sheet.
    For a wile I use the To-do app and she send me the task to do on it.
     
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    Thank you for sharing, and starting this thread.
    There is something very beautiful about the life experience you describe.
     
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    Every morning I wake up and pleasure her oraly, then I let her sleep for an extra 30 minutes. I bring her coffeee and kiss her feet. Then I kneel beside her as she drinks her coffee. when she finished I give her oral pleasure again.
     
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    Wow. That's pretty intense. And every morning, too!?!

    If that is a "9" on the 1-10 scale, I am not even up to a "2".
     
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    Every morning. weekdays at 6.00 weeknds at 9.00
     
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    Our one set routine is that I have to kneel and recite my pledge to her and then ask permission to join her in her bed. I normally do this naked as she does not like me clothed in her bed. She prefers me totally shaved and this allows her to feel my smooth legs.

    Our home is very large and the 'Mistress suite' consists of multiple rooms. While we of course share a bed, and she has provided me an office and a walk-in closet, within the Mistress suite I actually have no agency and must be a docile submissive at all times.

    Most nights I ask her if she desires worship, and most nights the answer is yes. This normally takes place with me kissing her breasts while fingering her, while I whisper my devotion and submission to her. Last night she enjoyed 3 orgasms this way. When she is done with me she either pats me on the head or pulls a sleep shirt on. With that I'm careful to thank her for allowing me to touch her intimately. Typically she will then dismiss me. Once dismissed I'm not to disturb her any more that evening.

    I think most of us subs have daily tasks, etc but it sounded like you wanted to hear the 'sexy' parts of an FLR and that's ours.
     
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    On weekday mornings our alarm goes off at 6:15 we spoon for 30mins, then we cuddle for 15mins while she strokes my tummy and usually teases me until 7:00 when I get up (always asking permission to put on my robe as I have to sleep naked) and go and make tea and feed the cat. Then back upstairs with her tea by which time she will be sat up in bed checking her phone. I will get the key on its chain from her dressing room and place it around her neck and ask what colour cage warmer she’d like me to wear that day. Finally I ask permission to get dressed and then I’m off to work. The weekends are pretty much the same with the added joy that she usually wants me to nurse at her breasts while she strokes my head and reads, so I’ll suckle for 30 mins at each breast by which time she’s ready for her first O of the day, then it’s up to put the coffee on. Happy days!
     
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    I wake her when she has told me what time she wants to be up. I prepare her breakfast every morning and serve it to her in bed.
    I wait to eat until she has got her breakfast, then I eat in the kitchen. I pick up her tray, do the dishes and wait for the days schedule.

    Sunday morning breakfast is served with me in a frilly apron. Most times, other than my cage and panties that's about it.

    Love our routine! Especially the apron!!
     
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