Orgasm allowed how often ?

What really melts your mind is when you start calculating how many orgasms you've got left while you're alive and capable.

 

Oh, I will get my sub to do just that

 

Thankfully mother time hasn't made this number too unbearable to think about for me, but it sure is a frightening idea haha.

 

My Keyholder Wife allows me a climax every couple of months, on average. She lets me beg for more, but just to amuse Her. Her terms alone determine my climaxes. She allows me to climax when She wants, how She wants (ruined, caged, my hand, etc), and maybe someday, in the presence of whom She wants.

 

Mistress S. Has started me on a weekly or bi-weekly ruined schedule. May go longer as time goes on but told me they would always be ruined to keep me in my submissive state to Her.

 

Maybe once per week through pegging with no penile stimulation. Ejaculations, however, are out of the question. She gets plenty though!

 

She has been letting me orgasm every 2 or 3 weeks. She likes seeing me cum on myself. She brought me to orgasm 4 days ago. After that she said I must wait a minimum of 30 days. I have never gone that long. I hope she sticks to that.

 

The time that I could "rely" on a 4-6 weeks interval in between my releases, seems now over as well. My last full release was on 28th of september last year. Since that time my Love likes to ruin and tease i.s.o. let me cumming. Once, my Love was mentioning that I should be able to hold for at least 4 months. However, based on our latest conversations, I guess that this will be extended with an unknown period...

 

Last year was 10, year before that was 16 I think (I think I wrote it down here somewhere).

Funny part is that is a stat, 10 per year, and stats can be deceptive. Yes I had ten, but several of those were within days or a week of each other. So, that means months without in between. Heck I think one month had three and another couple had two. That means 3 spread out over the remaining 9 months. So sometimes it feels like I haven’t had many at all.

 

Still new to the chastity lifestyle. In four days I’ll complete my first month of being locked. So far, my KH has allowed one ruined orgasm and one proper one. We’re still getting acquainted so haven’t worked out what her philosophy is for the long-term. But, at least for now I don’t expect normal orgasms will come frequently.

 

Ms Val hasn't allowed me out of my cage to orgasm in over 3 years. I get a prostate massage on the 25th of the month by either her or her live in boyfriend. Up until 3 years ago I was allowed 2 orgasms a year for 5 years. My last orgasm was with a Fleshlight at a play party in front of a bunch of people. She told me it would probably be a long time before I was allowed another orgasm. When I finished she put me in a corner for the rest of the party . She had humiliated me in front of friends and strangers. She asked me if it was worth it. I was too ashamed of my self to answer her. Her boyfriend told me to start cleaning the Fleshlight. They then left me there for the rest of the party.

 

My orgasms are pretty frequent, sometimes a few a week. The chastity device just gets to protect her interests of how it happens. She has not embraced the idea of long term denial because she just enjoys it too much. At the end of the day it is about what she wants.

 

For me in permanent chastity has led to longer and longer denial periods. I am now at over 140 days without any form of relief (no milkings, ruined O's, or any sort of release or relief). I am told that my first since Sept 5th last year will be at the beginning of March when we go to Mexico. Then I will have the chance of 7 days of cum training for her amusement. She say's the first of my tasks will be joining the mile high cum eating club. I will go jerk off in the bathroom on the plane into my hand, then video myself licking my hand clean and showing the cum in my mouth, swishing it around before swallowing. Then return to my seat to show her the proof. If I fail that will be the end of it, and I will be locked back up in my tube for the rest of the holiday and be denied until November. I always have to eat my cum when allowed release, so this isn't new. But I still hate it more then anything, and after not cumming in six months. I am scared how thick and yellow the stuff will be. I know I'll have a hard time with this, but I don't want to screw up the chance of cumming for a whole week, and possibley having the chance at PIV sex with my Goddess. It's been since last May since I have felt the warth of her wonderful pussy. Wish me luck!

 

Not had one since my Lady became my KH so I don't know how often yet.
However if it has already become
If at all, that is something I'm assured I will never know.

 

I never know when I'll be permitted to cum. But I'm never allowed without begging for it. We "play" several times a week, and I'm usually unlocked for it. She likes hearing me beg, but most ruined she'll tell me no, you're not cumming tonight. She'll keep up the teasing until I can't take anymore and I'll beg to be locked back up. That being said... My longest between full orgasms was 100 days. My last 3 though were about 2-3 weeks in between.

 

i don't have a scheduled chastity period and intervals between releases are various. It depends from my wife's mood and free our time mostly. For example last xmas i lost a bet and i have to wait until April now but these periods are not fixed. By the way, during my no-release period i have to serve her sexually whenever and in any way she wants (PIV, orally, with a dildo etc). She says i'm her human sex toy always ready for every needs. And it really works !!!

 

Maybe never? LOL. Don't really know.

About 15 years ago, Mistress allowed me 1 every 18 months for a period of time. Things became easier (for me) about 10 years ago. For a while, I was allowed every 3 weeks, more or less. (What a luxury!) We both realized it was better than i not be allowed to cum so frequently. So, we went to 3x/year, with monthly ruins in months I didn't orgasm. Then, I was to be allowed 1/year (with 11 monthly ruins), but somehow Mistress never gave me permission for that 1. I was only allowed to ruin.

The word for 2020 is that my December 2019 ruin would be my last for a very long while. When I first started chastity & orgasm denial with Mistress, I once remarked that I wondered when she'd let me cum again. She smirked, "Maybe never?" Well, that didn't happen then, but now....... I wonder if that's coming true.

 

Probably between once every 10 days, its between 1 and 2 weeks.

 

My wife never allows it, but she doesn't get mad if I have an accident and a ruined orgasm during a tease session.

 

My wife decided this way for me: I'm allowed to enjoy my hand-jobs every time she meets her bull and comes back happy.
It makes me extremely motivated to encourage her meetings, therefore I always prepare her in the sexiest way in order her bull fucks her at his best and she is fully satisfied.

 

If you are chastised you live in chastity and you never orgasm. In my version

 

I humbly suggest that She ask in the Female Keyholder's Forum on this site. I'm guessing She would get an accurate / insightful perspective from all of the verified Women on the site.

 

He ejaculates when I say he does, if he's under Discipline or in Chastity. I don't have a schedule for him. If he's under Discipline or in Chastity and I want him, then I get him.

If he wants sex, all he has to do is ask, as long as he's not under Discipline or in Chastity. Then, he's not allowed to ask.

The only thing I don't allow if he's not under Discipline or in Chastity is masturbation, unless I'm supervising it. He's not allowed to ask permission to masturbate, ever. When I tell him to, he has to, though. During supervised masturbation, he has to ask permission to ejaculate.

 

My Goddess varies the amount of time between my orgasms. They can be anywhere from 3 days to 6 months apart. Never knowing makes the teasing that much better! In the 3 years i have been in chastity, i have had 10 orgasms.

 

for me change over time, now is 1 every 3 month; i can masturbate myself, but with a very limited time to cum