Boys, what is your reaction?

My verbal reaction would be "Thank you Mistress, I appreciate you saying this". My internal reaction would be "oh shit, what is she about to say or do".

 

Domina often tells me these things either verbally or tacitly.

 

On the inside I would melt, outwardly I would blush. That said, my KH is online only and I think I might have scared her off...

 

candidly, I feel the story here is in the response Goddess Gaia actually received upon sharing such sentiment. that would be instructive. maybe not happy, but instructive...

 

I think I would hug her, I am not sure what else would happen but I do feel that hug would last a while.

 

Beautiful words. I just sent them to a special person in my life who could use some cheering up. I would feel wonderful if somebody said that to me. I hope it will make her feel the same way!

 

Would love it! No reason always to be cruel. Think best combo is could go to both extremes. Makes him feel more loved and less cold.

 

That's well said. I also had to look up 'misandry' as I'd never heard it before. Somewhat sad that it's a word.

 

This thread promoted a good discussion I had with my therapist today helping me understand why it's challenging for me to give my Wife what she has clearly told me she needs.
I just want to express how much I benefit from this forum thanks to everyone here

 

By forum I mean CM as a whole, not just this thread

 

me as her slave would be suspicious but love to hear these words it s a good way to bind a sub to his key holder

 

I hear these things all of the time. How it makes feel? LOVED

 

"You are special. You are loved. You are precious. You are important. You are worthy. You deserve every good thing."

It's so good!

It could be used as a mantra - order your slave to repeat the words every night while looking in the mirror and/or every morning after getting out of bed

Used as punishment - slave to hand-write the words 100x in print and/or cursive before a punishment is removed - gag or nipple clamps for instance

You could record your voice saying the words and force slave to listen to it with headphones on repeat (perhaps mixed with other subliminal suggestions?).

I just like reading the words over and over. There's power in the positivity. It's like the words are charged somehow. It's hard to explain. Feels like soul nutrition when I hear them (just in my head. Would imagine the effect much larger hearing the words spoken by somebody else). I can understand how the gentleman burst into tears. Very often it feels like the whole worlds hates you. I imagine it felt like being offered water after slowly dying of thirst for a long long time.

Thank you again, Goddess Gaia!

 

Knowing now Your context @Goddess Gaia I see why You asked the question. There is a group on the Book of Faces that was started by Caitlin Moran called the Decent Fellows Society. It has... issues so I'm not terribly involved, but a consistent theme there is just how broken men are by patriarchy generally.

Breaking down and crying does not seem an uncommon reaction to such words. What I found interesting in this thread is the emotional well-being of most members in their positive and prosaic responses.

I suspect and humbly suggest that this is down to the fact that most have a loving KH/Wife and that the chastity is a form of recognition and care. That is, a chaste male knows absolutely that someone else gives a hoot about his parts and is prepared, in most cases, to make a game of it. A game that requires time, energy, passion and love. Not that this is missing from non chaste relationships but that it forms the bedrock of chaste ones.

Though I have gone into chastity it is not now, not will it ever be, part of my relationship with my wife. My wife is concerned I have no "outlet" but refuses to countenance any as all of them "make [her] hate" me. She's not kinky, she explains, and anything even remotely like that disgusts her.

So, in my limited statistical sample, I would suggest chaste relationships tend to *have* to start from a healthier place than non chaste ones.

That You, Goddess Gaia, thought to say the words, thought to ask how others would react and the responses in this thread stand as testament to that.

 

Mine says that A lot and always tells me how proud She is that I am in Her Life and make a wonderful housewife and maid.

 

think I would try to give her my coolest: "I know!"
... and then we would end up in a loooong giggling fit!

 

My first response would be: "Why are you telling me this?"

You see it would be so out of character for Princess Di to verbalize this. And she wouldn't have to in the first place.

She shows me exactly those sentiments in so many other nonverbal ways.

 

Men are not taught about self esteem and that is a big factor in a lot of negative male behavior. Men are taught to be good at things and if they are not, they have no value and thus they lash out in a variety of ways. Maybe they lash out at society, women, or themselves. Self esteem is a deeper, more internal concept where as "being good at things" is more superficial. Most men never hear anybody say the words that you had written in your original post.

 

Truth. "Most men never hear anybody say the words that you had written in your original post."

 

that is a very good kh.. very special

 

I feel the same way about Her. Sometimes I'm not the greatest at expressing myself to Her, but She gets the idea.

 

People are different, relationships too. This isn't uncommon (although in a more colloquial fashion or something) coming from my Wife and I say similar things to her frequently. Others have a more "actions speak louder than words" approach and I'm sure it works for them. As for me, I feel loved. And hearing that I'm loved is no less wonderful because of it.

 

Great post to read, my wife/KH and I both verbally praise each other frequently. Sharing our love for each other, and how important we are. Being as it’s mutual, it makes a huge difference. I see some things online where there is much degrading of men (especially in chastity). I love this forum & Chastity Mansion for so much support & positive thoughts shared in here.