Barburia

Of course. But welcome nonetheless.

Local or not, I always ask a mistress for what she believes are character traits of a good and true chastity sissy. I also love to discover the different ways she has managed to ensure a smooth and constant transition into submission and/or sissy lifestyle. As a chastity sissy myself, I always want to make sure that I am becoming the best I can be. So, Mistress Barburia, any advice? Please.

I obviously can't speak for others, but for myself it's not " anything to be ashamed of" and I don't think it's technically "humiliating". I like the feel and expression of female attire. Women get all of the cool colors and styles. I might be somewhat embarrassed, but I like challenging the status quo.

My "dressing is definitely not to disrespect to women in any way. I don't believe many men are emotionally strong enough to exist as a woman, I know I'm not! Thank you for indulging my comments. As @Ms King said, "I can’t help but question the conflict of respecting women while getting off on the humiliation of emulating one." I don't get that either!?

I absolutely get wearing whatever clothes you feel most express you, and both myself and my boy routinely ignore gender norms. More power to you, doing what you want to do. I think my issue is that most of what I see in sissification suggests that it is relating to degradation- particularly the language and wish to be “forced”. Everyone should wear whatever makes them happy.

Thanks, sounds like it was a pleasant and enjoyable transition to your current status. Glad it wasn't a neanderthal that treated a Lady poorly.

Hi @Sissy_Denise, thanks for asking. I’m pretty entirely dominant nowadays, but I spent most of my life more submissive sexually. And I want to honor that. And I’m even willing to play it sometimes too.

If you don't mind my asking, was it evolution or revolution?

Pretty much Post. Ironically.