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    I just wanted to extole the virtues of being on top in this thread.

    If he is tied to the bed before you attempt this this then there's no chance he's going to stop or change what he's doing (so often a problem when you're about to climax)

    If he has a ball trap device then it's best to leave the ring on. Normally the ring part has sticky out bits on it where it connects to the cage so you will need to rotate it until the sticky out bits are behind his balls.

    You can remove the cage portion once he's tied.
    leaving the ring in place will keep him harder for longer. If it's a snug ring then he will maintain a harder erection for longer. And if its uncomfortably snug then it's less likely that he will come before you.
    I find that a combination of the discomfort of the ring and your chosen preferred angle of thrust will prevent him from orgasming.

    (If , like me, you're no good at tying then it's a good idea to invest in some cuffs. I find that velcro ones attached to a leash are quick and easy to use. They also fold and fit easily into a smallish handbag if needed)

    Now you are completely in control the angle and speed of the thrusts (try a back-and-forth motion so that your clitoris rubs against your partner's abdomen), it allows for the most constant clitoral stimulation.

    Don't worry if his penis becoming a bit purplish in appearance with the ring still on. It will go back to it's normal colour once you're done. However if he really starts to complain about discomfort or uses his safe word then it's best to remove the ring asap. you can use a cold wet flanel or the bag of iced veg treatment to get him small enough to remove it and then continue if he's not too sore.

    I find that a long shower or full bofy massaging before you start, together with lots of kissing and caress and some oral sex really helps to get me in the mood for this.
    After all, Oxytocin is the "cuddle hormone" And the more time spent filling your blood stream with it, the more at ease you will feel about letting go and the more intense your orgasmic contractions.

    If you don't manage multiple orgasms from using this method then I would be very surprised.
    If you want to surprise him then it's best to pop the cage back on and lock it before untying him.
     
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    Do you favour one or two condoms to further desensitize him, or do you prefer skin-on-skin contact? Or does it not matter either way as far as you're concerned?
     
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    I really don't like condoms in me. I find the smell and the feel are a proper turn off.
     
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    My wife’s most intense orgasms come as she is doing the back and forth to the point I am about to come out. When she goes back and it rubs the back of her pelvic bone (g spot to the kids that ain’t found it) that is when her toes curl and every muscle in her body flexes to the point of almost cramping.
     
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    I think woman on top is good not only as they can control what feels best...but also man lasts longer
     
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    My partner is pure vanilla (and that is ok, I have learned that as a woman that is her right and privilege). What she has shared with me (and this may get me in trouble in a way but whatever), is that when she is on top she orgasms "super fast" ... I mean like faster then a guy that hasn't had any in a while. When the position's are reversed it takes longer but the orgasms are stronger.

    In my two cents it is about directing the friction and the position on the fly that helps "hit" it.

    I am very lucky as a man as she trains and rides horses so she is well practiced in the "saddle" of life :). Conversely, maybe I should be glad she is so vanilla, because holy fuck training horses would probably make her the meanest and most punishing dominatrix out there .... (shiver).
     
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    please Mistress i must have lots of oxycin in me cos i love cuddling. ooh and i hate them conoms as well. they taste horrible.
     
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    I think any man ,like myself, would love to be in the position your describe. Even if we’re relocked without having an orgasm. To be used in such a lovely way would be a Pleasure.
     
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    Mash there's nothing stopping you from reading this to your Keyholder.
    You never know, she might be inspired by it.
     
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    I would love nothing more than to be tied to the bed and have her make love to me like you Discribed but,bad knees and sore hips make it very painful for her to be on top. To be Young Again.
     
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    I think this sounds wonderful, but the problem for my wife and me would be that we've never been able to have sex with her on top -- I'm just too small, and it falls out if she moves at all.
     
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    If it's that small then it really should just stay locked up.
     
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    That's what my wife says too...
     
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    Always love it when She's on top.

    I will say, when She's on top, it is when reality sets in and I realize just how tiny my cock is, and I wish it were a little bit bigger for Her. Luckily, I still manage to get the job done.
     
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    Is that how you see it? Does she know you think of what should be one of the most intimate acst between two people that care for each other like that?
     
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    Unfortunately Filteethis is the case for most men.
     
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    Ms. Amanda, may I suggest that a man's performance anxiety, and known performance inadequacy (and her overt recognition thereof) and their relation to chastity be the subject of a thread?
     
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    that as maybe but not what you'd call romantic or even respectful ...
    i'd be ashamed of myself for even thinking like that
     
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