Who is in permanent chastity and how?

I'm not totally denied, but so far this year my Wife(KH) has let me cum 5 times. I brought up MC and wearing a cage last August, and my Wife loved the idea. She has told me that she now controls my penis and I get a orgasm when she want me to have one. She has also told me that this is the way it's going to be for now on. I wear a cage 95% of the time. It only comes off for shaving and cleaning...Maybe 3-4 times a week, for 10-20 minutes...The rest of the time I'm caged...

 

My Mistress is online, but it is perm. She can contact me at anytime to make sure it is still on. For cleaning or shaving it is done with her watching. When finished and relocked the key goes back in a plastic container in the freezer.
I have been locked since August 15, 2016. Coming up on 3 yrs in a couple of months. I have been allowed 1 orgasm since the new yr.

 

Of course it depends on definitions. I've bean sealed into my device for the last 9+ months. As for how? My wife/mistress wanted to go for a longer lockup. Rather than using the ksafe (timer safe) I suggested a seal, so she would have to make a positive decision to unlock me. Thought it would be a few weeks. Turns out not.

 

The first day was locked on by me. The reason was because I am a habitual masturbater and basically that was cheating on my wife. At day one I gave her the keys and confessed to what I had been doing the past 15 years. She told me to get use to the cage that was locked on me. That was 1 year 6 months and 2 weeks ago. She told me that I will remain locked for the rest of my life.
It only comes off to clean and shave then it's right back on. During the time it's off I'm chained to the wall and handcuffed, that's the only time its unlocked and she stands there and watches.
I knew she would be upset with me, but I thought she might let me out after a day or two. I was wrong. She had me buy a biometric safe that only she can unlock and that's where the keys are. She has allowed me 3 ruined orgasms with the cage on. No PIV. Last ruined orgasms was July last year. I have been locked since Nov 15th 2017.

 

I have been locked and denied for 2 years. My Lady has told me that she has not felt inclined to consider when she might let me have an orgasm or when she might next let me have an erection... with both those statements add.... or IF..

She told me the length of denial was gradually further extended each time it happened until she told me that time had become indefinite.

That was an outcome that was not expected when I first asked her to be my KH or when she first fully took charge.

As for ... Am I being denied either erections and / or orgasms permanently.... I really do not know.

But for me it does feel better that way.

 

Impressive: anything else happening between you and your Wife regarding sex or affection?

 

I don't think I'll ever be locked permanently, but ive been wrong about things before. this year i was told no more then 6 orgasms so far ive had three.

 

I haven't been set a limit per year. Right now chastity length is up to my Wife and we haven't discussed this in detail recently: I think she wants me to pass my previous record of 20 days. To be honest I fear discussing O limits or time lengths with her. It would not surprise me if I suggested permanent she would go for it.

 

She gets sexually pleasured by me with my mouth and vibrators. She likes to cuddle and remind me a lot of why I'm locked up. No sexual releases for me. The last time was in July of last year with my cage on. It really sucked. She has told me not to even expect that anymore. I don't know if she is really serious about that or not but it's been almost a year now. I just know it doesn't look good for me to ever have an orgasm again.

 

How would you feel if she denied you pleasuring her by mouth? That's what would happen to me if I were put into chastity permanently. So that's another reason I fear permanent. When i'm in chastity my Wife likes to invoke total pussy denial.

 

I dont think that would happen. She enjoys it too much. If it did, then All I could do is pleasure her with a vib.

 

Yeah that's me now. Locked and no pleasure for me. I would do anything to be able to be inside her again. This dam cage is really escape proof, I can't even pull it out.

 

Buildup it is best not to discuss it with her, i mean if she is not already thinking about it, don't plant the seed. I did, and i have had only 1 O since the new year.

 

Yes they do like to make sure there is no way to get it off, don't they

 

It's a Lori 2a. There is no padlock, just security screws. They have a special pattern that only her key will unlock it. You can't mess with it because its recessed and I think it's a softer medal and the head will strip out if messed with. Some people on here have suggested that I try cutting it off. That's impossible cause of the heat produced and it's made from 316 stainless steel. Might as well be made out of a diamond. It's not coming off unless she removes it. That's not going to happen.

 

I am in permanent chasty to, you could say I’m retro as I’m still wearing a cb2000, with the large points of intrigue, it is removed every few days for observed washing and shaving, them refitted.
It was actually my wife’s idea! We had been in heavily into Bdsm for years and one day when I was as work she saw chastity caged on line, being the controlling dominant she is she wanted me in one straight away!
We started off part time just on my days off then out shopping and she got so turned on from me wearing it. She wanted me to leave it on one day and wear it to work, I could see how excited it got her I agreed.
I got home the next day and she asked how I got on, I told her it was fine. Then is not coming off she said! Your my property and o want you locked for me!
From there we went to long term, to cuckolding and on, I have not been allowed a orgasm since Christmas, and I have not had piv sex in over 4 years now, and my madam has no plans to let me ever again.

 

As I have mentioned in other posts, I am self locked.

Wife has chronic health issues that make intimacy difficult to impossible. I consulted doctors, GP, also a urologist, for some way to disable my ability to feel any stimulation, effectively deadening my abilities, to eliminate the frustration of needs not met.

My research led me to chastity device. It was my last hope for a safe and easy way to fix a complex problem. I wanted to show honor to my wife, and provide her with a way to prevent her feeling bad or some guilt for life not being normal.

I decided on 12-31-17 to go permanent. (My definition of permanent is 24 7 except for cleaning and shaving a few times a month.)

This is one of the best decisions I ever made. I love my cage. Cleared it with my GP doctor and she approved. Wife appreciates it and is grateful.

The feel of the cage is pleasurable, I found an off the shelf perfect fit. Considering I felt absolutely nothing (except frustration) before, the feeling of the cage is my small reward for my submitting my self to permanent denial.

There are a wide variety of different views on chastity, but, for me, permanently locked is the best way, and perhaps the only way. It has relieved much stress and anxiety.

I absolutely love chastity. I love what my cage has done for me.

 

I'm also amazed at the number of people with no release at all,my begging got genuinely desparate by the second month without release (longest time 2 months for not doing my housework well enough), it can't be healthy can it?

 

My mistresses over the years have always emptied me approximately every 2 weeks maximum, I was almost never unlocked when emptied. If I'd displeased I would still be emptied but would suffer same form of corrective punishment, ball slapping or squeezing during ejaculation or worse.