What are your goals with chastity?

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    #1 locked_cuckold, Apr 5, 2019
    Whether short term or long term - what are your goals with chastity. I don't mean just amount of days locked, I also mean what do you wish to achieve in an overall scheme of things?
     
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    #2 Guest 0388, Apr 5, 2019
    Long term, our goals are better communication, more sexual satisfaction for her, and more control of my libido. To stop thinking with my dick whenever I get sexually aroused.

    Short term, to give her better and more orgasms today than I did yesterday.
     
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    #3 jemima, Apr 5, 2019
    to be happy.
     
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    #4 SheisaBitch, Apr 5, 2019
    Begging...
     
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    #5 Giveitup, Apr 5, 2019
    My goal is to reignite the spark of sexual passion within my wife and keyholder! To help her to understand that her pleasure is something that I crave, and that it's quite okay for me to make her feel good, without her having to worry about me. I have had a million orgasms. It takes more and more off-beat kink to arouse me, and I am sick of walking that path. Countless hours, days, weeks, months (you get the drift) have been wasted with my hand on my dick, seeking to ejaculate. What if, what if, we could find a way to be passionately reinvested in our sex lives; what if I could make her happier and more fulfilled; and what if I spend my newly-discovered time in more productive accomplishments? Chastity seems to be the answer to all of these questions...
     
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    #6 LesterBallard, Apr 5, 2019
    right now to beat the 115 days I lasted last time round.
     
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    #7 Junebug15, Apr 5, 2019
    You want to beg?
     
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    #8 latexbound, Apr 5, 2019
    A special connection with a keyholder
     
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    #9 Guest 4328, Apr 5, 2019
    How do you follow up that awesome answer from jemima? I don't know. So, I will just qualify why that is how I feel too.

    The goal for me is to be convinced, as I already am, that being in chastity is the best thing for me. The mental toiling and physical frustration of not being able to have any physical fulfillment of my libido due to life, at times feeling sorry for myself because of what I am "missing", has gone away.

    I have had no definitive way to move from this rut for many, many years. Discovering chastity devices and the whole mental process of seeing denial as a means of satisfaction, even though there is nothing else to come, has taken me to a place I didn't know.

    I find that whether or not, at some point, I feel the physical need come on me, I just think of how sustaining the feel of this beautiful piece of stainless steel feels wrapped around me, and that the constant feeling it provides.

    Ultimately, my goal is singular in keeping chastity in my life a a constant, so I never have to worry about the emotional swings, and can just be, and remain, happy.
     
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    #10 R2002, Apr 5, 2019
    Chastity saved my narriage. My goal is for my relationship with my Wife to continue to improve
     
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    #11 locked_cuckold, Apr 5, 2019
    Short term - to get through the day without orgasm. One day at a time. Also to find a way to wear my device at work without this bulge showing. To flatten or smooth it somehow so it's not obvious. To find a way to put it on and leave it on. I love the feel of my device.

    Long term - to never have an orgasm again, whether locked or not.

    In the big picture, I love who I've become when I'm chaste and I want to keep that going. I want who I am now - more attentive, more compassionate, more intellectual. to grow and see where that leads...a person that exists as asexually. Discover who I am WITHOUT sex.
     
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    #12 Danny15, Apr 5, 2019
    I whole heartedly agree with everything you have said .
     
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    #13 PerhapsJustAdog, Apr 5, 2019
    To grow as a person and evolve as a couple. Goals is a hard thing to define in relation to this. The journey is the point and life, in general, is like one of those laboratory kits. My goal is to not stagnate but rather go deeper or farther along the path(s) that suit me (or us since this is very much a mutual undertaking).

    It feels a bit like asking "What is your goal with that hammer?"

    Who knows? You might build a house, you might hit yourself on the thumb one too many times.
     
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    #14 SheisaBitch, Apr 5, 2019
    No. Chuckles....

    Unlike some I don’t want what I have locked away to not be a part of who we are. I very much want to know that release is desired. That I turn my boy on to the point he will beg for release. If only for me just to wrap my hand around the trapped member and hold him. Deep down that is not the desire, yet in the primal brain the need for me - my touch is a craving to be wanted... asked for.... begged for.

    And who knows, I might indulge.
     
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    #15 Junebug15, Apr 5, 2019
    Absolutely nothing wrong with you wanting to feel that desire and Passion
     
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    #16 Ma’ams Slut, Apr 5, 2019
    Sounds wonderful
     
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    #17 elliot_r, Apr 6, 2019
    It is.......it truely is.
     
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    #18 Chaste Sissy 69, Apr 6, 2019
    Would love to have my clit custard ooze out hands free!!
     
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    #19 jemima, Apr 9, 2019
    well ask to be milk then.
     
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    #20 Disciplined Boyfriend, Apr 9, 2019
    For us Mistress Keyholder gets a lot more attention than She used to. It also serves to remind us of our respective roles in our relationship. In summary we both get 24x7 contentment.
     
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    #21 Alceste, Apr 9, 2019
    I would say that my goal is to be chaste. The result is that I am chaste.
     
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    #22 Little J, Apr 9, 2019
    Exact same here.
     
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    #23 subcuckold, Apr 10, 2019
    honesty when we started with chastity the aim was to prevent me from masturbating too much (I had been completely cut off from sex) and therefore not being attentive to his needs. We then realized that it brought other benefits

    – total sense of belonging to my wife, this creates a very close relationship
    – the relationship becomes less physical and very mental, there is a very close connection; When i'm are hugging my wife and make innocent cuddles i feel in heaven, a feeling of well-being, without the desire and need to have sex I fully enjoy it as never happened, just a light kiss on the cheek to make you happy for days
    – loss of that aggression typical of males, I live better, quieter and less stressed; this applies to all aspects of life: work, friends, etc.


     
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    #24 NuderThanNude, Apr 10, 2019
    Now for something different...

    My goal is to be able to enjoy orgasms more when I can have them. As they say "absence makes the heart grow fonder".

    In addition, it is a mind game to reach down and not be able to touch my penis and to feel cold, hard, steel instead. It keeps me mentally, sexually aroused through out the day.

    And if that isn't enough, I love the look of shiny stainless steel surrounding my genitals. It's almost blinding when I pull my pants down.
     
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    #25 filltee, Apr 10, 2019
    The goal...
    to keep exploring our limits both individually and jointly.. see where that takes us... whilst being prepared to take some backwards steps at times to explore other avenues of what might be progression or might need to be reversed again.

    Just Explore.

    And to get a cage that will work that does not NEED to be removed
     
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