Very new guy introducing itself

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    #1 DutchGuy, Oct 29, 2021
    Hi all,

    just a few weeks a came into contact with this phenomenon. During some browsing I read about lock-tober, which I found very interesting. The following days I was unable to set this aside, the idea just fitted me, although I never had such feelings before.

    The idea of being caged and a female controlling this, made me dream about this and controlled my life the last few weeks so much that I ordered my first chastity device. I also discussed this with my wife, but due to some personal circumstances on her side she has zero interest in sexual interaction whatsoever, also this part. (This situation apart we love each other so much that there is no change I would leave her). So I am forced to explore this on my own.

    about me:
    A 42 year old gentleman with a open, honest and cheerful character. Happily married and a small but nice group of real friends. In my free time I like hanging out with my friends with nice dinners or enjoying some drinks.

    In daily life a hold a management position, call the shots in a really alpha environment. So perhaps here my interest is fed by needing some counter balance.

    So being very new in this, I am looking for guidance, I would love to fulfill next lock-tober, but I have so much to learn. The past few weeks I already learned a lot by lurking this side, but also got to know that guidance is needed.

    I like to thank L-U-C-Y for the opportunity to create such a wonderful space.
     
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    #2 Mistress Katie G, Oct 29, 2021
    Hi
    What a nice introduction. I'm new here too. Enjoy exploring:)
     
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    #3 DutchGuy, Oct 29, 2021
    Thank you very much for the kind words Mistress Katie G. . I am certain I will enjoy this exploration
     
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    #4 madams-sissysub, Oct 29, 2021
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #5 mikecb, Oct 29, 2021
    My general advice is "don't get discouraged". Most of us who own Chastity devices own MANY. It takes a long time to find something that works well with your anatomy and situation. Best of luck!
     
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    #6 DutchGuy, Oct 29, 2021
    Thank you very much for the warm welcome
     
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    #7 DutchGuy, Oct 29, 2021
    Thanks for the advice, I am confident I will not walk away quickly. I read something about the perks of some in combination with personal circumstances.
     
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    #8 King Hippo, Oct 29, 2021
    Maybe you can get to the point where your wife will control the key to unlock it... even if she doesn't participate any other way. Never know.
     
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    #9 DutchGuy, Oct 29, 2021
    Thanks, that would be a great result indeed, but unfortunately very unlikely
     
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    #10 The decorator, Oct 29, 2021
    Hi welcome hope this site and the very interesting people on can help you in your adventure if you ever want a chat don’t hesitate to contact me
     
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    #11 DutchGuy, Oct 29, 2021
    Thank you very much for letting me feel so welcome
     
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    #12 MissyB, Oct 30, 2021
    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it useful and entertaining.
     
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    #13 sissy veronique, Oct 30, 2021
    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion.
     
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    #14 DutchGuy, Oct 30, 2021
    Thank you! And the few weeks of lurking were already very useful and entertaining.
     
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    #15 DutchGuy, Oct 30, 2021
    Thank you for letting me feel so welcome
     
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    #16 LesterBallard, Oct 30, 2021
    Hello and welcome
     
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    #17 Turma, Oct 30, 2021
    Willkommen niederländer ;)
     
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    #18 DutchGuy, Oct 30, 2021
    Danke schon
     
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    #19 Disciplined Boyfriend, Oct 30, 2021
    Welcome @DutchGuy. Hope you find what you are looking for, enjoy.
     
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    #20 Aspire02, Oct 30, 2021
    Welcome to the Mansion
     
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