Part 5 ~ The best thing about the future is it only comes one day at a time...

lol. :sign0007:

 

excellent words of wisdom from mike!

 

MW,

Two more quick thoughts, if i may. First, regarding surfing port. Umm, let's face it, if we're here, we're perverts. :sex_porn: You have had a lot of satisfaction, lately, from looking at lingerie and sexy outfits. He gets his a different way. It doesn't mean you're not sexy. It's more like being at the ice cream shop, and admiring everyone else's sundae, while you're waiting patiently for yours! :sign0004:

Now, the fact that he was doing that when you were expecting him to be doing something else.... what a great opportunity! "Pet, if we were playing right now, I'd have to punish you for not working on the site. What would I do? Hmmm??":happy0011:

Have a great day!
mikecb

 

Yay for you! He's getting sloppy if he was discovered that easily. Some good humiliation is in order I say! Once he's all settled in to the cage, what if you accidentally "lost" the key - what with all the moving, packing and such it must be around here somewhere. Oh dear too bad for pet...

 

Mistress Watchful sorry you are feeling so down. i really wish i could help you in return for all that You have given to us. Cheer up and stick around as CM wouldn't be the same without You.:love0038::love0028::love0063::love0059:

 

A D/s lifestyle will only be detrimental to a relationship if you let it be. If you feel the lifestyle is having a negative impact on your vanilla relationship then you need to take a step back on stop all references to a D/s lifestyle. If your vanilla lifestyle is struggling then it is important that you put all your energy into sorting out your relationship first.

Master and I have felt sometimes that our D/s lifestyle was affecting our relationship so we both agreed to put a stop to any play until we had time to talk and even get to know each other again.

Only when you feel completely happy within you relationship can you commit to any sort of a D/s lifestyle. If you do stop the D/s stuff you could try and introduce small amounts of play. The lifestyle is supposed to be fun and extremely fulfilling, if it’s not you need to take a step back.

 

MW,

I for one will always be here to support you. CM has become a vibrant and exciting site for people interested in this particular kink, and it's because of you and pet. Unfortunately, as many great institutions, as they get bigger, running them gets more demanding. I know from personal experience as an officer in numerous social clubs over the years that it's a thankless job. Please know we really appreciate it!

*hugs*
mikecb

 

Who's crappin on you?!!

Sorry I've not been around for a while.

I Hope your gonna be ok?

Keep your chin up hun x

 

Your posts are the main reason I come to read this site so I do hope you don't get discouraged. As the Vanilla, Dom, Chastity boggle all I can say is that Vanilla sex alone can become complicated for us when we spend too much time thinking about it and less time doing it. :love0038:

And I'm NOT saying I have the answer other then this. For us there is no "bad" sex. :jumping0046: How you dress it up can make it better of course.

 

MW: Hope this one works for you (both). But, whatever, don't lose heart or touch. Your posts are always so warm, witty, wise and . . . well . . . human: they're what keep me coming back so regularly. For what it's worth I've got both CB6K & CB3K and wish my KH / Wife would just keep me locked up a lot longer and allow me to worship her a lot more regularly. I guess human beings, especially couples, are just NOT conditioned to want the same things !

 

Here's hoping pet can wear it 24/7! Even if he can pull out or cheat in it, I think you should make the attempt. The fact that pet said something like "wouldn't blame me if I locked him up and forgot about him" sounds to me like he's in a very submissive head space. That took courage to say. He knows that your libido runs hot and cold, yet he's willing to try to live through the cold spells. That's love and trust, if you ask me! :happy0030:

*rubs shoudlers* *gives pep talk* So if he can wear it, make him wear it! Don't worry about your libido. With luck, it'll take care of itself. He's willing to do it because he's trusting in your relationship to work through the tough parts. That's a wonderful thing! He's told you that locking him up is NOT about non-stop sex. Let yourself believe him! Let him be your submissive. :rules:

mikecb

 

And just because he is locked up doesn't mean you can't get the strapon out and have him wear it. :happy0120:

 

Dollyanne knows the anguish of having a chastity device sitting in a box waiting to be used! Too bad it's the new birdlocked--dollyanne was waiting to see how that worked out--but maybe there is a potential for alternating months of chastity?! That would be quite interesting and exciting!

Curtsey,:butterfly:
dollyanne

 

Hang in there Mistress/Bambie (sorry private joke) At any rate go back to the two of you for a bit then let the other part come. I too have the same Dom/sub struggles. Goddess has been taking the Domme role and truth be told I don't see her relenting anytime soon. Of course right now I want to throw her down, tie her to the bed, and well you get the rest of the idea! Take care we miss you too!

 

Having two cocks at once is too vanilla? whew! As to the M/M action I think the best advice is to put your pet into Charlotte mode and maybe tell BG how much that type of thing would turn you on. He might be more willing to comply if he thought you enjoyed it. Maybe have pet "tuck" and go more fem? Aid in insuring BGs cock gets into Pets willing mouth and or?

As to the other mystery Alpha I think he is a very lucky chap and maybe your pet can just be in observation / humiliation / cleanup mode while your being serviced for a while. I'm curious what sorts of cuckold sites your being directed to? Ones that offer this, story sites or ? Anyway, your posts are getting more and more interesting!