No more PIV :-(

Post menopausal wife hadn't been enjoying piv with me for a while. I cum very quickly and she very rarly came from piv with me. We started using vibrators, magic wand and after we started me wearing a chastity cage piv reduced further. Once she realised I can cum in my cage piv for me has no longer been available. Into my second year piv free now and I can't see me ever be allowed to feel it again. I do miss it but we have better sex now, although only about once a month and I don't get to cum every time, but she cums multiple times when we have sex now.

 

We are on vacation... a 2nd honeymoon of sorts... being physically intimate & having sex at least once a day... and I'm locked & denied for at least another month. Not having to deal with unlocking, numbing cream, condoms & relocking in order to have PIV keeps from breaking the mood and allows for complete spontaneity.

With her flexibility issues, the only way I could enter her now is from the rear and my little guy slips out after every thrrust.... not much fun in that.

 

Haven’t had PIV for 8 years now. Shouldn’t think I ever will again. My tongue is the only thing she enjoys in her V now, and I’m able to provide for her regularly. She gives me the occasional handjob (normally ruined) if she’s in the mood, but our sex life evolves around oral - for her only obviously!!
I couldn’t be happier and I don’t miss PIV at all. Every time she shudders and orgasms in my mouth I have my own little orgasm of satisfaction far more exhilarating than PIV could ever be.

 

I think it has to be said that there are more than a few of us that can and do derive our satisfaction from providing it rather than receiving it and no longer mind not having the latter
the price our partners have pay for that is that most of us in that position are in an almost constant state of arousal and that there is I am sure little they can do about that.

 

It has been close to 25 years since I had PIV or oral or anything else but kissing and touching breast. Prior to retirement my bi wife had a bi girlfriend for 30 years. Started out great. For more than 5 years we had almost nightly threesomes with our live in girlfriend, However, I got ED, got fat so my penis disappeared inside my body and the girlfriend was very sexually dominant and a sexual sadist when it came to men. I am a masochist so after I fell out of her vagina for the second time, she no longer allowed PIV. She also did not like my oral skills compared to those of women so that was no longer on the table. My wife learned that she prefers women for sex plus had multiple surgeries on her vagina and PIV was painful. She also does not like oral because she cums as soon as my tongue gets near her clitoris and prefers a woman or a vibrator.

They still let me join in on the nightly threesomes but I assisted them to get each other off aferwhich it was time for our S&M session where I was kicked, punched, burned, cut, whipped, strangled, and heavy duty CBT and nipple torture. The girls did not allow me to orgasm. They just left me there with a bleeding ass or swollen balls, to clean up,

We retired and moved away from the girlfriend and there was no sex at all then. I suggested chastity as it made a game out of me not getting any sex and it has been our sexual lifestyle for the last 12 years. I am not allowed to orgasm ever as my wife feels I owe her that for the 2,000 or so theesomes I was in for a 30 year period. This was payback for letting me have sex with her steady girlfriend and other girls she brought home for us to play with. I had a great sex life doing every fetish I could find with two women in private and public so I do owe my wife to make sex just for her pleasure now and I am not complaining.

 

That sounds horrible.

 

My days of having PIV might be limited. But not because of any decision to deny me on my wife's part. She loves PIV even though she doesn't reach orgasm that way. Over the last couple of months I have started to have ED problems. I tried a blue pill a few weeks ago - sorta worked. I only just got hard enough and I didn't last very long. So it wasn't very satisfying for her. If I get another chance I will need to work out the timing of taking the pill a bit better - only take it after I have given her an O!

The next time we were intimate I self locked to reinforce that it was going to be all about her (she doesn't really care whether I lock or not). I was able to bring her to O using tongue and fingers. The weekend just gone, my wife gave me a blow/hand job on Saturday night and on Sunday night I gave her another O using fingers and tongue (and kissing etc) So for us, there are ways around me not being able to get it up.

What about her love for PIV and me not being able to do the job?
Well, coincidentally, before I started having ED problems my wife raised the topic of an open marriage, which we agreed to. So someone else will be probably be providing most (maybe all?) the PIV for her.

• I have started a thread in the cuck forum, even though at this stage it isn't necessarily a full on cuck type relationship https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/open-marriage.51202/).

So, my days of providing PIV for my wife might well be limited.

 

Have you discussed the idea of a strapon? Maybe one that can house a bullet vibrator?

PIV was never the best for us because of my size but as we got older it only got worse because of ED and flexibility issues (my wife). Our sex life plummeted to non-existent. Porn and masturbation became my only outlet. I'm thinking of re introducing "PIV" with my wife with a strapon and i think she will go along if we can find positions that address her flexibility issues.

 

We haven't discussed me using a strapon for her yet. But it is something worth considering.

 

My wife has had other men provide the pleasure to her ever since we dated. I still like to give her an orgasm using my tongue and fingers and I have plenty of toys that I use to get her to squirt. I think you will enjoy making her orgasm after a man had filled her which has always been enjoyable to both of us. You are so pretty too.

 

1 time in 7 years. pretty sure my PIV days are over.

 

It's the restrictive nature of feminine lingerie that attracts me to it. Male underwear is invariably loose, even jockeys to a degree. But bras, thongs, garter belts, hose and corsets are very restrictive, and i love wearing them. Bondage freak, all my life, as you can see. And I don't know if anyone else has noticed it, but just wearing a bra adds the same type of warmth factor to me as wearing a T shirt. Strange, but it's been so consistent for me I know it's real

 

My wife/Mistress bought me that same nightie, though mine came with a g-string and the little wrist and neck adornments. She calls it my maid or sissy bitch outfit

 

52. There were a few years early in our marriage where she put on a lot of weight and had terrible self-image, and it was quite a dry spell for me. Regarding chastity, we have been doing this off and on for about 3-4 years now, but she’s never made me go more than 3 weeks in the cage, and out if the cage I usually get PiV, PiA, and BJs.

 

I enjoy the same type of feeling when I watch my wife have sex with her men. I don't have a fleshlight since I am in chastity but i get so turned on watching guys cocks going in and out of her that I start thrusting at the same rhythm that i start leaking from the cage. The same thing happens when I use toys on her that I feel its me in going in and out of her and every time she squirts I thrust and leak some more. When I leak she squeezes my balls so hard i almost pass out.