No more PIV :-(

My wife and I still have PIV. She enjoys riding my cock. The only difference is she decides if I get to cum. I wear a cage because I want to share the sexual experience together and give her control over my physical pleasure. Not be out masterbateing by myself.

She enjoys the control of my cock more than the cage. Im trying to get her to see that the cage is a reminder and keeps me from touching myself when shes not around.

Its a journey, but I don't want to be in a place where we don't share our sexual pleasures if anything, I want it to grow beyond me and focus on her.

That's my journey

 

I have seen his comments are now a lot more readable, and he has a few good comments.
Just that English isn't my born language and I'm not into the broken type that is used by a lot of teenagers.

 

I'm definitely in the same boat - we're way past the 'lock me up because it's one of my kinks' stage. We're now at the point where my OH denies me because our sex life together is far more fulfilling for us both if I don't get an orgasm and we focus on her's being the best the best they can be.

That's the basis of the Chastity Mansion charter is it not?

 

My Wife still loves having orgasms from piv, but she’s very content cutting it down to 1-3 times a week. Usually Saturday and Sunday nights, occasionally after her weekly massage on Friday night, but usually likes oral after she’s all relaxed from being rubbed in hot oil for 45 mins to an hour.
We both agreed early this month that my orgasms when granted will only be from a hand job, that while I get to enjoy piv when she wants it, piv should be for her orgasms only. I didn’t realize just how much of an impact this would have on my sub mind set. She’s granted 2 orgasms this month this way, and while they felt amazing, it definitely still left me in a very submissive attitude, and locking back up after cleaning the mess helps also.
I don’t see her stopping piv with me, but who knows what the future holds. I am already having a tough time coming to grips with not being allowed to have a good long, hard fuck with her. Because she doesn’t really care for being pounded any more, and she’s destroyed my once great stamina, we now just have slow cuddly sex or her on top at whatever pace she likes, I am required to be able to hold off cumming and still please her. Lately it’s required a bit of lidocaine on the head of the penis, hopefully that’ll continue being enough lol, otherwise the cock sleeve or strap on will get dusted off more frequently

 

Last night, my KH and I had a conversation about another post on here regarding chastity and the general population. She said if more women knew about the benefits, there would be more happy wives.

Yesterday, I asked her in the morning if she wanted an orgasm, she replied no. Again during lunch, she replied no. . Before dinner, no. we went to bed early to fool around cause I needed to be between her legs. Its been over a week, and I needed to taste her and smell her pussy. we watched some porn on the tablet, and then I went down on her. She came hard. due to it being a longer than usual time and my oral skills were on point.

Afterward we talked about how she misses my cock. The closeness when we become one. Also I can make her squirt with the use of my cock, and a little back door play. She misses that. But what she gains is the constant want\attention from me in many ways. we havent had PIV in like 8 weeks. Ive gone 160+ days before. this is the new norm. We makeout alot, I hold her every night. Its a pretty easy decision for her.

 

We were nearly at this point prior to FLR and chastity. I am sorry for you if this is not what you expected.

Once she gained control, she felt more comfortable and didn’t have to worry about me finishing. She focused more on herself with great enjoyment. We are intimate far more often including PIV than before, I just don’t get to finish very often. She loves keeping me desperate.

 

I am completely deprived of Penetrative sex because my Master is disabled and cannot have it.

I am not even able to give her oral since she cannot take it in her current state.

In truth, Chastity is imposed on BOTH of us and that makes me very sad.

I still look for ways to make her my Master but caregiver fatigue sometimes makes this lifestyle not work.

Sometimes life has other plans.

 

I'm still lucky enough to be allowed PIV. We just try to do it less often compared to with other men.

 

I had a cowgirl riding me last night for at least 10 amazing minutes and probably longer, and I successfully brought her to an amazing O without me having one. Then I lovingly and submissively asked her to keep me in my present condition, without an orgasm, so I remain completely under her spell today. She'll eventually require me to cum, but for the time being, I'm enjoying the ride.

 

Mein Partner hat mir in den letzten Jahren erlaubt, einmal im Jahr eine PIV zu machen. So wie ich das sehe, wird sie mich bald als ihren Sklaven ablehnen. Sie lehnte meinen Vorschlag ab, einen Strap-On zu benutzen, um sie zu befriedigen, sie will keine künstlichen Dinge in sich haben.

 

I am allowed to enter Miss A only when she wants it, and in the way that she wants it, for her pleasure, not for my gratification.

When she says "stop" I have to exit her immediately.

I have not been allowed to finish inside her for 5 years. My rewards come only from her hand.

It makes complete sense and I would not want it any other way.

 

Occasionally my Owner will ride me, but I'm trained to hold and not cum until I receive permission. Since I'm to eat all my cum I am required to immediately clean Her.

Alternatively She has had me wear a thick penis sheet or simply made me wear a strapon.

PIV is unnecessary for Her as there are lots of other ways my Wife can have orgasms. I'm just very happy to serve Her.

 

My human dildo!

 

That would be the end of my experience of a submissive.

 

Well I am working toward 6 years without PIV . Between the discomfort to her and my inability to get and erection as tiny as that would be. We are adapting a new lifestyle and relationship.

That's just our life now. My submission and chasity has given us a new start.

Good luck

 

We are trying to get pregnant, so chastity is not allowed (we are concerned it will damage the sperm). My fiancee likes piv, but she has another partner for that. She thinks of my genitalia as primarily decorative. We went through a few cycles of piv, but then she researched how to achieve pregnancy without it. Since then, we are back to our more normal dynamic. In addition to finding me inside her inappropriate (through laser hair removal, chastity, and medication; she believes that she has made me completely non-sexual in appearance), she feels she is cheating on the other guy. One mixed blessing is that I have almost unlimited masturbation rights during our procreation period. She has promised a return to chastity and our shrinking regimen when this period is done.

 

I really enjoy when my wife rides my cock, uses the wand and orgasams and gets off (not allowing me to cum).

Sometimes she can make a mess. It gets all over me and my sheets

Eventually hoping to tell me to put the cage back on. So far she has been ok for the last two days me being caged. Asked me about a release on Tuesday.

I desire the chastity life to enhance my marriage sexual, physical life. I want my penis to be for her pleasure.

If it became a lock you up and forget, I would not see a point to wearing a cage.

 

This thread really brings to the fore the importance of handjobs in a Dominatrix' toolbox.

No one really wants a life without sex. However there are times when hubby must be denied sex, and a handjob reinforces to the submissive man who is in charge while still providing sex and intimacy.

 

I feel I really need to read your full story!
This sounds crazy… just the sort of stuff that interest me!
Although, unless your sperms are banging their head on your cage on your way out I’m unsure about the logic behind this. Also, surely you should be conserving your sperms at this time not just spraying them into an old sock!?!
Also, 62? Trying for a baby? God damn you must be a sucker for punishment

 

Ball pressure can limit sperm number

 

Big smile. The concern is the possible damage from the ring. It's the plumbing we (read she) worry about more than the little swimmers themselves. That said, the sweet spot age for sperm is 3 days. On another note, punishment suckerdom may be the single most common attribute of this site's membership.

 

Chastity has definitely done that for my marriage. But since PIV is now off the table for her, my little guy brings her no pleasure whatsover, not that it did much when she was still able to have PIV.

The threads on this site lately are really starting to depress me.... NO PIV, NO BJs. What's left but the cage???

 

Strapons and handjobs.
I don’t know is the question was rhetorical, but that’s all I can come up with.
There’s also an argument for increased intimacy.
Maybe some penile shrinkage. Excessive sexual frustration…

 

No handjobs, PIV, or BJs for me. Caged daily. Have received a strapon, but not been on the giving end.