Locktober 2020

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    Hello Everyone, hope you all are doing well. So I and my partner are going to celebrate Locktober for the first time this year. And all I know is that the whole month He has to stay in a chastity cage without any orgasms. But I have seen some pics and blogs about daily tasks. What are they? And what about rewards and punishments during the whole month? If anyone has done Locktober before please advise.
     
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    For us, there are no rewards or punishments, I am locked with no milking, edging, or on the receiving end of a strap on until Nov1 at the earliest. My wife and I have household chores split is evenly, but if I fail to do any of my weekly chores my time is extended for another 7 days. The goal is to keep her pleased and any time I get called to the playroom, it’s to satisfy her until she begs me to stop.

    this year there will be a twist. Our private inner circle of 4 couples will be having a get together for locking tomorrow night and an unlocking party on the 31st. There will be a contest on the 31st, only 2 guys will be unlocked and the other remain locked until December. None of the ladies will tell of the contest, no matter how much we have begged.
     
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    I hadn't heard of daily tasks, rewards, or punishments. I can see it might make things more exciting, but also might be more of a burden for the Domme or Key holder. I just hope i can complete the assignment, as much for my own desires as to prove my obedience to my Mistress.
     
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    The only rule of Locktober and every other month is to do whatever is right for your relationship and ignore the dumb shit people write on the internet.

    The people who write about daily tasks and the like aren't living the life with a partner. They're writing and jerking off to a fantasy chastity/slave world that largely doesn't exist. You know what you almost never see people with partners talk about on this site? The stuff that you see in pictures and blogs. @boisub had an excellent post about that earlier this month that is worth a read.
     
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    Exactly! Make up your own rules. Lock for 8 hours a day, or lock only at night. Challenge yourself with mental chastity. Set a goal before you cut (exercises, work, relationship,chores, etc)

    The only requirement is that anyone involved have fun (even if the fun takes the full 31 days to achieve.)
     
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    By mental Chastity I assume you mean not locked? No way I'd be able to go through a whole week let alone a month without being safely locked away!!!
     
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    I think what @Trisha-KH is looking for is Jane at. http://www.keephimcaged.com/

    In past years she has written some very pleasing things for a chaste couple to share during Locktober. She is soon opening a new book.

    If you search CM, you should be able to find what she shared daily here a couple of years ago.
     
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    I'm going to go for it.

    Does it still count if I only unlock to switch to a different cage and/or to wash? One of my cages is definitely reliable to wash in. It's more comfortable with the ring. The other has a slightly larger ring, but sits nicely to protect against pinching. So I'm not sure which I want to wear.
     
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    Well, tonight's the night. Cage was taken off last night for some cuddle time and my last orgasm going forward. Tonight is the locking party and the wife and her girl friend are working from the house today. Not sure if they are making sure I get stuff done before everyone arrives or they are just taking it easy. There will be 8 of us in total, the couple living with us (still waiting for house to be finished) and long time chastity friends. The ladies are teasing it will be fun and interesting, think they will have fun and we will find out what is their idea of interesting.
     
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    I'm starting to feel a mix of anticipation and anxiety about the approaching date. Like you, Thomas, i hope to get one more release before locking up today. After that, it will be trying to stay focused on being good.
     
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    And so it begins, October 1 here already. Weekdays hopefully won't be too bad as we don't do a lot of sexual activity during the week, but weekends might be tough, we'll see.
     
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    HAPPY LOCKTOBER EVE!!!

    This is our first Locktober, i unintentionally started early on Sept 4th. The Queen and i have decided that i will be locked 24/7 except for grooming, PIV for her pleasure only and when i have to switch to a resin cage for work. i have to pass through metal detectors from time to time. Luckily i can plan those days in advance. If deserved, there might be caged milkings with my vibrator. i earned 5 minutes with a vib last week but was unable to cum. On October 31st She will decide if i get a Trick or a Treat and what that will be. i am hoping to run out the year caged 24/7 with only an occasional ruined orgasm.
     
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    Ms Val and Sir told me last night that my locktober will be till October 2021. And for the next year they are going to restrict my prostate massages to every other month.
    They were happy with how much volume I had after not being milked in the last 2 months. While they were on their trip.
     
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    My wife just gave me her rule set for Locktober, this is what SHE expects of me, in her words. For us its a combination of Femdom, FLR and Chastity. For everyone else it is whatever you agree on, there are no set rules except what you make.

    Locktober; If you consent to give yourself to me for the month of October this is what I expect from you:
    • You will address me as mistress
    • You will always address me with love and respect
    • You will be in chastity throughout the entire duration of October. You may, with mistress’ approval remove the device for hygienic purposes on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays. The device may be removed for one hour on the above mentioned days.
    • You will submit to me fully and at all times that I desire. Should I decide to do nothing with you; that is my prerogative. You will remain silent and respectful. Failure to do so will result in an extension of stay in chastity. Remember you are consenting to be my property for the entire month. You will be used according to my needs.
    • Besides those pertaining to the children, you will have a list of daily chores. They are and not limited to: making the bed, doing the dishes, making my tea, and keeping ashtrays emptied.
    • You will seek permission to drink alcohol, make outside plans, and take naps
    • Failure to abide by the above rules will result in a punishment of my choosing.
    • Should you show the level of disrespect which you employed during our last experience, I reserve the right to cancel the agreement and will shut down near future conversations on FemDom or chastity.
     
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    I will be participating. I was briefly unlocked for 3 hours yesterday but with my hand cuffed to the bed, so that I can not play with my self. Locked again for locktober !!!!
     
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    A task can be anything you wish or choose. Simple as bringing you a drink or Maybe a nice back rub. After all it's your property in that cage. And that's what he asked for. Take a photo of your property in it's cage show it in the journal you create. Your in charge enjoy it. He will also learn to enjoy it.
     
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    So what happens when you have 4 naked men and 4 incredibly hot women dressed in sexy clothing together in one room, nothing. Last night was the locking party my wife hosted and it ended a little rough for 2 of the guys. Since it was our house, I got to go first and there was little difficulty (other than some cage pinching) getting my cage on and locked. The 2nd guy was iced down, so was the 4th, while the third went similar to me. Guess having to take sildenafil isn’t so bad after all. The 2 guys were so excited by the touch of another woman assisting their wife they got excited and their cocks resisted the caging. Eventually all the ice and spray help and they were locked and sent to stand next to their wife when finished.

    the keys were placed in a lock box in our playroom and will not be seen again until the unlocking contest on Halloween. Each wife has an emergency key hidden in their homes so there will be no cheating. The contest format has not been shared, but we know there will only be two released with the third one scheduled for Dec 1 and the 4th on New Year’s Day.

    We were advised to be on our best behavior and this should not be a problem for this group. However, if it happens, the chastity cage will be removed and locked away for 1 year. The other 3 guys love the lifestyle and other than an unintentional screw up, they enjoy having the wife control their cock and more so when they are let out for pleasure.

    while the locking party was boring overall, the tease my wife gave me when we went to bed reminds me why I love her controlling my cock. It was the first of many nights, just not sure when it will end this year. Our house guests will not be here this weekend, they will be able to get into their house to start a little decorating, still no word when they will be allowed to move back in, but the wife does want to tease me lots this weekend.
     
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    perfectly put!
     
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    Agree with chronicM
    Still I have weird feelings
    Sometimes I feel it just throbs in cage
    And sometimes it pinches at sack
     
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    Didn't realise I posted in the 2019 thread yesterday. Yeah I'm in. Will be the longest I've ever been locked. I will be removing the device any time I shower as my most comfortable cage isn't great for long-term wear.

    What I've found in the past is that the first few days are fine but after that I become distracted by how horny I am.
     
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    I started two weeks ago today and hope to make it at least to Halloween. I'm in my cage 24/7 except for five minutes or so to take a daily shower. This is the smallest cage I have and it is the most comfortable to date. No problem sleeping, although I have to get up once or twice a night to relieve pressure.

    I am wondering if any keyholders will be doing some extra teasing this month. Maybe rewards and punishments can be combined! Good luck to everyone taking on the challenge (by choice or not).
     
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    Really don't want to spoil the Party, but I constantly wonder, what People, who "celebrate" things like "Ju-NO", "Locktober" or "NO-vember" are doing in February? :p:D
     
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    Forbearance February
     
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    creative :D
    what about August? :p
     
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