To start I am a married 36 years to a Loving wife , kids grown , always had an exciting and fun sex life my wife and I Some would say tame “but that’s just you know there opinion “ (Extra credit if you guys the movie) It started the same way others have mentioned. Watching pegging porn and seeing the husband in a cage and thinking wow she’s owning him !! Turning to I wonder what that must feel like not being able to free yourself. I talked with a few guys on other sites about wearing a cage how did they get started what is a good starter cage etc Finally one day I ordered one Put it on and was immediately hooked Kept it on for a few hours and started to feel warm spots . Took it off and saw redness and it wasn’t feeling good It should feel good and not cause sore spots so I was told but that it also takes getting used to . Tried it again the next couple of days trying to wear it longer and longer And really not making much progress other than a few hours and still getting red marks. But I was determined to give it a go And gave my wife the keys as I was bringing her to work one morning She had asked what do they go too I had the cage in my pocket and showed her. Thank goodness I didn’t have it on because the next thing I know she had tossed the keys out the window. After some days of discussion/disappointment I got rid of the cage it was inexpensive more for testing the waters. Now my wife is no prude we have a decent collection of toys that can be used on either at any given time. I know she’s had boyfriends some I found out about some I didn’t until much later. But to her this was too much She can tease me by not letting me touch her as she walks by and the towel covering her slips off. But I have to remain sitting. Sometimes it worked sometimes it didn’t She loves back rubs. But I can only last about a minute and I am trying to get it in her. I love when she teases me makes me hard and walks away laughing So why is this a problem??? A few weeks pass and she starts talking about the cage. What would I get out it? Being caged wouldn’t be much fun for me? I wouldn’t be able to do anything? I tried to explain to her it wasn’t about me it was about her She would decide if and when I could be released and if I could have relief. And of course I get to clean everything up (Sorry if some here don’t like or understand this but I love it and I love the things she says as she’s pushing my head into her) She says I don’t know I don’t think this is for me maybe we want different things I told her that yes I want to try this with her but it doesn’t have to happen either I thought it would be a fun thing to do Her schedule and mine are all over the place. We may not get a chance at intimacy for a couple of weeks So I generally take matters into my own hands. I decided I was going to order another one if she talks about it again. Wouldn’t you know it two days later she says well maybe we could try it So I ordered another one A different one than before I did a better job of reading and comparing them and looking for the issue I had with the other It gets delivered I show it to her and I am met with hostile responses . Do I put it on her dresser and left it there for a week One day I decided I am trying this out Dam this one felt way better next thing I know I’ve had it on for 5 hrs. Put it away and over the next week I had extended my wearing each day a couple of hours I reached 16 hrs one day no sweat and I decided tomorrow full day and if it still feels good your sleeping in it !!! Now at this point we haven’t had sex in 4 weeks and I haven’t done anything on my own as much as I wanted to The next day turned into night And I loved it. it quickly became 4 24/ hr days!!!’ I wish I had discovered this years ago!! I’ll return tomorrow to add to this journey I know I am a short timer here compared to some but I just want to tell people about this amazing transformation I am going through.