How much did you masturbate before Chastity?

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How often did you masturbate before any involvement in Chastity?

  1. More than once a day

  2. About once a day

  3. Every couple of days

  4. Two or three times a week

  5. Not often

  6. Rarely

  7. Never

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    Lot's of guys are here because we played with it too much,.and it hurt our relationships.
     
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    It is anonymous
     
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    At least once a day but the average was two to three times a day. Now it averages out to about once a week which seems to be what my wife prefers.
     
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    Way to much! This has really helped me focus on the intimate relationship with my wife.
     
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    Pretty much as expected so far. Come on lads cast your vote....it's confession time!
     
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    Very true!
     
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    Ive said tis b4.. n i wil say it again.. its was daily since 11yo.. at least 5x/week.. i did it in schol, colege, workplac, in car, in d jungle.. n of course at hom.. It disrupts yr studies, shifts concentration at work.., ruin a mariage.. a chastity device has put som sense bk into my life.. n its d greatest gift tat my wife is wiling to participate in enforcing it..
     
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    Before chastity it was a lot and did hurt the relationship. Now I get less orgasms in year than I provide myself before in a week. Our relationship is so much better.
     
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    About once per day before chastity.

    After chastity, if she gets her way it will be zero haha. Not sure how practical that might be.
     
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    Normally once a day, some times twice a day.
     
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    I'm sure I've done it about 5 times in a day. Once would be usual, but two would not be unusual...

    This is why 90% of men would benefit being locked
     
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    Because of age and low testosterone, it wasn't very often. But once I discovered nipple stimulation and how to make them more sensitive, it became more frequent. I had to lock myself up to save myself for my wife.
     
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    I used to as an easy way out when we were not having sex, just the usual busy life feeling tired thing, but I think it hurts intimacy. Now we have a lot of intimacy, no masturbation.
     
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    Maybe not what some folks want to hear but this kinda skirts the truth that masturbation (and sex) can involve a chastity device. And that it surely does for a lot of individuals and couples.
     
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    Was locked and had zero orgasm for two weeks and survived just fine. Got unlocked for sex and didn't put my cage back on and proceeded to jerk off 5 times in 3 days. Relocked the next morning and she set the timer for a week. I'm so much better off being locked up..
     
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    How is this skirting the truth? In what way is it? Please explain further. Thanks.
     
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    I would masturbate once a day and my wife twice a week. After we implemented male chastity I found out, that she doesn't want me to masturbate ever again and she has no need to masturbate ever again.
     
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    I think there should have been more options ....as in how many times per day. If time allowed i could easily climax 7-10 times in a day, I know that's crazy. Normally would be 4 or 5 times, mainly in the morning. wake up masturbate, have a snooze wake up do it again....etc and I am 56

    Maybe that's why I really struggle with lockups any longer than 2 weeks.

    Now I am down to usually 2 per week, once with my partner then she usually allows me one extra before I am locked back up.

    When we have a break from chastity all I ever masturbate about is being under my partners control again...
     
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    Honestly, any time I’m not in chastity I masturbate 2-3 times, sometimes more, per day. There have been several times when my wife was not thinking about locking me up, and then she realized just how much I was masturbating and/or caught me masturbating again (and again) and decided to lock me up as a result.
     
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    when i was younger, it was more frequently. as i got older i couldn’t keep up with both jerking off and having sex with my wife, so i tapered off jerking off because having sex with my wife is way better than jerking off. so we didn’t start out chastity play to control jerking off, instead, we both came to the realization that she is naturally Domme and is more comfortable in the masculine role, while i’m naturally submissive and prefer the feminine role. she enjoys chastity because she likes the control over me it gives her. she likes to “own” me. and i like to be owned and treated like her whore. oh, and she likes to watch me jerk off. win-win
     
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    I don't remember ever taking a shower without pleasuring myself. It seems like a distant memory now.
     
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    #24 Newbeginning84, May 19, 2022
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    I've been ruining our relationship by spending too much time jerking off when home alone or I knew I had moments alone. Often saying I was going to take a nap when actually I was going to jerk off and take a nap.

    Now I have agreement i will use my cage and she will hold the key whenever there are possiblity for me jerking off. This probably means most the time.

    Being locked and controlled by her is a turn on for us. But we actually will use it as a serious tool to help me save my energy for her. I need to be locked for our relationship to function.
     
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    Classic addict behaviour. I did that. Now I do just go for a nap and wake up frustrated.
     
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