Hello everyone I’m a new keyholder at the request of my husband. We have been in a hotwife/cuckold lifestyle with a little bdsm thrown in for the past twenty years. I’m looking to learn as much about this kink as possible with the help of this group. I never realized that my husband was such a submissive. I also have a tilt towards being submissive myself. My goal is to become the Domme K/H he craves.
Welcome Madam, I hope you do well as his KeyHolder. We all need a good firm hand when it comes to this lifestyle. Remember to enjoy it. I hope he thanks you daily for taking on this responsibility.
Welcome to the Mansion. Hope you enjoy your stay. it is new here, as well. Everyone has been very friendly.
So great to hear from new KH, and congratulations! I think your sub will switch for you for a session if you want. Or you could even be a sub couple to a dominant couple. For him to watch his wife submit, and him have to stay submissive.... Afterwards.... He fucked me so hard, hubby. Now you clean out the cum for me.
Welcome! Any particular topics or questions that you would like to discuss? Can you tell us a bit more about your husband's particular kinks (if you don't mind sharing)? If we know a bit more about what excites him there are probably more than a few submissive males here who can offer advice on how best to drive him crazy (in a good way).
Welcome to the mansion! One of the major aspects of being a key holder is controlling your partner's cock. You don't have to be a capital-D Domme with a whip and leather catsuit. But it really helps if you find some thrill in taking charge. It's also about deciding what you want, rather than just your partner's fantasy. Dip your toes in and see how you like it. Maybe you'll be surprised. I know I was... younger me would have described herself as submissive, and older me paints a very different picture. Switching can be an option. As a special treat I have let hubby do whatever he wanted to me for an hour. The only catch was his chastity cage remained locked... so he was able to tease and torment me, but at the end of the hour I was still most certainly in charge. It was a fun change of pace for both of us. Lastly, wrote "craves", which I think is the perfect word. One of the biggest changes that has happened with chastity is that hubby craves me every day. I love that.