Christmas of 2016 I met a wonderful little lady named Abby. We began our little whirlwind not even two weeks later, got engaged in August, will be married in May. Today, I finally grew a pair and broached the subject of chastity. I told her I had a few cages, and that it would be fun if she kept them. All I got was a raised brow that said, “go on...” I explained that she would set an initial sentence, and from there she could move the release date around based on my behavior and overall treatment of her. The eyebrow raised a little higher. She agreed, and set an initial sentence of two days, to see how things go. I let her see the cages, but she didn’t know what she was looking at, so she shrugged and said to use whichever one was most comfortable. I picked the largest one. I asked her before she left for work how she felt and she paused for a while before saying, “....I hesitate to use the word ‘powerful...’” I told her it sometimes pinched and that I might need to switch to one of my smaller ones if it pinched too much, so she left a key and told me to tell her how it goes. I switched pretty fast after she left, but behaved myself while doing so. I gave her an update telling her I had switched and how long it took me to do so. We are both old fashioned, waiting for marriage and all that for religious motives. My question for you wonderful, more experienced people, is what advice do you have for her, a small town raised, completely innocent, first time keyholder, just learning to spread her powerful wings? Thanks for taking the time!