Do you and your partner have alternative names/terminology for chastity and related play?

We refer to a 'Ruined Orgasm' as a 'Partial Orgasm'

 

These are just a few of our shorthand and she has used these in mixed company over the last few years. She calls my cage my "little buddy", when she is pegging me she says its her "cardio workout" , fingering my ass is my "checkup", a flogging is an "attitude adjustment", and bringing her to orgasm is called "serving the Borg Queen"

 

She calls my cage my “ball chain” as a joke relating to the “ball and chain” prisoner.

 

I like 'attitude adjustment'.... that pretty much summarizes this whole chastity game !!!

 

my wife rejected the whole idea of chastity and cages but after I tried to sell her on it, she did refer to it as a "dick muzzle" a few times before never discussing it again. She never actually saw the device but I thought it was funny because I had never seen it called that but it is actually a pretty damn apt description.

 

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No

 

My contention has always been that "chastity" just makes guys focus on their dicks even more than usual; there's nothing chaste about chastity.

 

We don't even use the word chastity. I'm locked or sometimes caged. And more recently, we don't even use any terms since I am never not locked.

And when we have sex, I'm wearing a strapon. For a short time we called it "Foxing" for "fucking with a faux cock." It sounds a lot nicer than "reverse pegging" (which does t really describe the act, anyhow). But since she decided that I'm locked permanently, and it's the only way I'll be allowed to have sex, now we just call it "sex."

 

Love "serving the Borg Queen"!!!

 

My wife calls my cage "Bolt" as in "are you wearing your Bolt" to see if I have put it on when she says.