Looks like your wife is consistently inconsistent, like mine! I guess I've got used to it and if I'm not going to top from the bottom I just have to accept it. I can recall her being very negative when I first bought a silicone dildo, then a few months later she was insisting I use it on her. Similar with a little clit pump. As sex is not foremost in her mind she starts off being a bit "yuck" about such things, then gets more interested when she thinks about it. Of course us guys are thinking about it every few minutes! It's 3 months since my last orgasm and that fact is not on her radar at all. But in a sense why should it be? It was I who introduced male chastity into our lifestyle and I think her view is I also take the consequences. I'm interested to see what will happen: perhaps at this point she considers it is permanent anyway as she never deliberately gives me an orgasm of any form, nor penetration. Her teasing is awesome but remarkably never involves my penis. Once she sees it dripping nicely she stops! She definitely benefits from my chastity, but if it wasn't part of our lifestyle I'm sure she thinks she'd manage quite happily with the alternative. When I start thinking "this sucks" she suddenly surprises me, and also when you start thinking "this is going great" she loses interest. But that's like life in general I guess.