Talking to Ann about us/me wearing my chastity cage this morning, for the first time she was brave enough to tell me she is enjoying the control it gives her. It has been a slow process (about a year now) I have always wondered if I would regret getting her addicted to the contol she can have. Today she said it without being prompted. If it isn't too late to change my mind now, I would say it is very close. I am so used to wearing it, I don't think I would have it in me to stop it even if I wanted to. I know I am very lucky to have a wife to share this intimacy with. I am pretty sure as this becomes our normal she will become comfortable with it enough to tell her closest friends. I am ok with this too as I ponder the likelyhood. Most men will never get to enjoy this being many women will not allow themselves to try it and most men unwilling to give this to their wives or being patient enough to allow their wives room to let male chastity sink in to the point they won't want to stop. I love my Ann very much.
@John&Ann Technically it’s never too late to change your mind, but why would you want to? You’re giving her the power she enjoys and making her happy which makes you happy. It’s a positive feedback loop that few couples achieve. So, own it and enjoy the journey wherever it leads.
It has only been 6 months since I enlightened my wife to the chastity life. Since then she has realized taking charge is something she had lost in the past, and is loving her new authority. She has embraced the dominant part of her and I am loving serving her anyway she pleases.
Ann had to get the weirdness out of the way from being as vanilla as we both are. That's great she is accepting this with you
my wife is (was) also vanilla and oure journey started in march-21. now i'm locked 24/7. i'm only out of the cage when skiing, paragliding (hobby's of mine) and for medical issues... it was going slowly and i was trying to not topfrom the bottom. i told here everything and give her options in how she can approche it. i'm not in control anymore en she does how en when she likes. from a 100% vanilla wife she now cuffs my hands when cleaning or when she is teasing me. she pegges me, milkes me, push me to pleasure her. the first year iwas alouwd to ask for a small relief. nowa days i may ask once every 4 weeks, when she gives me a relief (ruined or full) the timer will resets to 4 weeks.. she is still learning the tease and deniel... but i thing i created a monster......
Awesome relationship this chastity thing is, changes I could not imagine happening, keep looking for a little more playtime involvement , when it comes I’m like a child at Disneyland, at 75 that’s saying something. Going on 5 years full time caged.
It’s a great path to begin with a little help seems like it can be limitless I’m going on five years.
It's so nice to read about women who are getting more into this lifestyle. Things have a changed a great deal for us since we began. I hope you two can have the same wonderful experience that had been waiting for us.
Congrats!!! I shared in the excitement of having my wife get into the kink this week as well! After a couple of years of me locking myself up and surprising her with the key for short day-or-two lockups, she surprised me last weekend with a 2 week challenge, one that I jumped all over! I'm now 3 days in, and she's having lots of fun with the power this gives her. She's even promised some fun teasing sessions she's been cooking up, but right now she's simply denying me any attention to build up frustration! It's so exciting to see her enjoying this so much, but part of me is worried/hopeful that this'll mean she'll want to keep it going long term!