1 year orgasm free

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    Today marks a whole year since my last orgasm for my barefoot goddess.

    It's a milestone I never thought I'd reach but after around 4 months with no orgasm I found myself not wanting to cum, even though I have been so desperate for a release at times.

    I feel so comfortable in my cage that being without it, even for a brief moment, leaves me feeling vulnerable.

    This time next year it'll be 2 years with no orgasm, it's going to be an interesting, horny, desperation filled year
     
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    That's a great effort - not sure my KH would allow that !
     
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    Congratulations on your mile stone!
     
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    Well done.

    At 28 there is no way I could have managed it, even now in mid 50s and almost 8 months without orgasm or ejaculation, it drives me crazy and all I want to do is orgasm.
     
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    Congratulations. A year is a long time.
    I am on day 644, the 2-year mark will be 2-14-2024.

    I survive with constant teasing and serving her.
     
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    that's so great, i know! and it was the same thing for me during my first year, with the exception of being 'let out' for CBT every few months or so!
     
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    Congratulations! I found the first year the worst. I’m getting close to three years now and although I’m constantly horny and aroused I’ve adjusted to it. The feeling of being aroused constantly is such a better feeling than a few seconds of a orgasm and the drop.
     
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    Wow I would be glad to get to 1 month.
     
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    Hello and welcome to chastity mansion
     
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    I'm learning that myself... Been in chastity for going on 3 months now and making my lockup sessions progressively longer. Started a few days at a time and now going for 2 to 3 weeks at a time. I play the dice game, so the longest I can see myself being locked up is in the range of 1 to 2 months. Maybe some day I'll shoot (no pun intended) for 3 months, but I'm not ready for that yet. My longest session so far is 12 days and I'm on day 10 of 20 of my current one. Getting a bit tough but I'm hanging on.
     
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    #12 Aleks_ak, Nov 21, 2023
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    is there an anal orgasm?
     
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    What language is that? I don't understand it...
     
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    Sorry, not sure what you mean?
     
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    how do you reduce the natural orgasm? is there an anal orgasm?
     
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    If you mean a "wet dream", then I can't stop those. However they aren't orgasms as I just wake up to a wet patch in the bed.

    I haven't had any form sexual release, either anally or otherwise since this time last year
     
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    sexual frustration, now I get it. perhaps this is unfortunate.. but this is my personal opinion. no offense.
     
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    I'm with you. I miss orgasms, but I'm not sure they're worth it. A few fleeting moments of pleasure. Whereas, the horniness and submissive feelings and all are a constant addition to my life and our marriage. And after two years, I'm reluctant to start over (!!)
     
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    Wow, very impressive, I’m struggling after 2 weeks. I do love the feeling though, I’m slowly trying to extend my time in Chastity. Unbelievably, I had my first ever wet dream last week whilst caged.
     
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    I have wet dreams fairly frequently. There's nothing we can do to prevent them and they aren't anything like an orgasm so me and my keyholder don't class them as a release or anything
     
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    I felt the same way after 4 months. It was really tough to keep going. That said, I just hit 18 months orgasm free. My Wife (KH) has asked me a few times if I would like to cum. But now I don't want to break my streak. I hate being without my cage on now and my Wife loves me wearing it. Good luck on your next year(s)...
     
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    I was about to post a similar thread! On Sunday 19th my counter app clicked over and a new word appeared - 'Years', followed by a '1'. Month, week and day numbers clicked back to Zero. My Owners usual reaction to me informing her when another month has elapsed, of "that went quick" didn't even feature. Instead of some kind of congratulations or a 'well done' almost no response was given. - so the app just clicks forward each day as it's always done, now showing '1 Years, 0 Months, 0 weeks 5 Days locked'. My owner doesn't particularly care for penetrative sex, so she has no incentives to ever bother unlocking me. Sex is always centered around her pleasure and I find great joy in her orgasms as a substitute for my own. I've never had an orgasm in my cage and never tried and have no idea when, or more likely IF, she'll ever unlock me. So, the year count could very well click to '2' one day in late 2024! I've been locked almost all of our relationship, so maybe there's clear intent.
    Our relationship is FLR, BDSM based for context.
     
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    Brilliant achievement. My own milestone today (50 days and counting) pales into insignificance besides your accomplishment.
     
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    Congratulations, good luck on another year being chaste
     
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    50 days is still a long time so well done. Every day that passes is another step towards the milestone (if that's what you and your keyholder are aiming for)
     
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