24/7 rules

The last few years we were together and I still had balls to hold a chastity device in place, there weren't many rules except that I wasn't out of the cage except for when she wanted to get pregnant or if I had to fly commercial airline somewhere, and occasional cleanings. From July 2017 to late 2020, I was out of the cage twice for sexual activity, and about once a month to clean the device thoroughly. Both times were attempts to get her pregnant, which was successful in February 2018. Prior to getting the Queen's Keep, I had to be out pretty frequently for proper washing and cleaning since the Holy Trainer offered very poor ability to clean. Aside from that, I had no rules. She never had allowed sex toys, so there was never any vibrator or anything with which to masturbate, and trying to use my hand in the "traditional" method was just frustrating and painful. I gave up after a while. It was a difficult few years, and the adjustment to it wasn't easy.

 

We have one permanent rule - I can't have an orgasm, never (the cage is removed only on Saturdays for washing). In addition, I am forbidden to see my wife naked most of the time and touch her private parts (including breasts and mouth) - of course there are exceptions such as cleaning after a lover or when he wants to use me as a toilet .. otherwise it's quite normal

 

I have to kneel and ask permission to lay on her bed

I must use a quiet, respectful tone with her at all times

I am continuously locked and never allowed to touch or pleasure myself, especially to orgasm

I can expect to provide advice on decisions but never make them. I have no free will.

while other men are allowed to enjoy her as they please, I am not. Her pussy is off limits except for the times when she chooses to reward me. Begging or griping is not permitted.

my job is to serve her and nothing else. I am an owned husband and subject at all tunes to her whims and needs.

I give blow jobs but can never receive one, except perhaps, from another submissive.

 

To many rules to list them all but here are a few:

• Not allowed to sit in her chair in the living room
• Must ask permission to go out with friends (even for weekly scheduled events)
• Make sure her car is always full of gas, maintained, and washed
• Iron her clothes every night
• She is always on top during sex and no orgasm for me unless given permission
• No talking on Sundays.

 

We have certain rules that have to be followed all the while Others depend on the situation
I expect to open doors but not enter a room first
Turn the bed down
Make sure her glass is never empty
Don't answer back or give attitude
The list is simple most of it is about being polite and courteous toward my wife
Just a few way to many to list most of which I just do naturally now

 

As I see many have a strict slaves rules, on my FLR it is more vanilla but it is still a 24/7
I am not going out without any consent of wife (and it never happen)
No sex or any request for sex if she does not initiate it.
No arguing of any kind, all my sentense must be done with "yes my dear"

When back from whork I have 2 to 3 hours of chores to do (cleaning cat's box, cooking do grocery shopping and so).
Of course I dress as her maid once home and she sometime choose my breast size, else I am free to wear or not them.
Must be quit quiet to not bother her and serve her a meal she like and requested.

I go to bed when she goes and sleep when she decided. And actually she likes me to wear diapper.
She is firm and strict in many thing but gentle in others.
I can play video games or chat with people as long I serve her is she request anything, she want a tea, I have to interupt at once.
The daughter wants to eat at midnight? I wake up and cook. She like to see a friend, I drive her. and so on. It is a very soft servitude but a full time one. Quite firm but done in a very gentle manner.

 

Always locked up no orgasms and no T/D. Permanent chastity.

 

Not a lot of rules here. Always caged. Always respectful and obedient. No bad attitude allowed. Her approval is required to go anywhere outside of work (and even travel for work). It's all simple stuff, and all about respect.

 

spot on!

 

We don't have a lot of rules -

1. I obey her (specifically straight away, not when I feel like it).
2. I'm not allowed to cum without her permission.
3. I'm not allowed to sit on her day bed.

 

My mistress wife lock me up for 13 years in a row, only allow me out for cleaning and shaving. Once a week I only had sex with her one time on our first day she allowed me to clean her up after her boss was done with her and I was allowed to put my penis in her And pump once and she told me to take it out and she laughed at me and blocked me from HSA we were married 8 1/2 months later she was pregnant with her brother sis child that night

 

We had a pretty long set of rules, all of which were 24/7/365, but the basics were:

1. No making her wrong, arguing or negotiating with her ever, for any reason. If I wanted to share something that contradicted something she’d said, I needed to ask for specific permission.

2. If I wanted to do something she hadn’t previously approved, I needed to ask permission.

3. If she told me to do something I had to do it. If I had information she needed to help her make a decision, I was required to share it but only in service of helping her get what she wanted.

4. If she corrected me or decided to punish me, I wasn’t allowed to defend myself, and was only allowed to offer my viewpoint with permission, and only after the correction or punishment.

 

I will have that in mind.

 

What is a fkh relationship? Female key holder?

 

We have a list, she calls them our Ten Commandments. They have been added to and subtracted from over the years, nothing as formal as needing to write anything down.

I assume routines and expectations are part of the question.

-I stay locked until she wants otherwise, and lock up after. I’ve pushed this a bit but normally I’m pretty good about not needing a reminder.

-That covers no cumming without permission. I did tell her that I can cum from hitting my balls or have an analgasm. She said she doesn’t care as long I don’t cum from penis pleasure, that’s hers.

-Used to be a rule I had to service her orally every morning or that night…every day. After a few years, that fell off the board and is just on request.

-We had a rule that she would instruct me to wear whatever she wanted and I would wear it proudly. I wear so much feminine attire, she hardly requests any different clothes, except on maid day.

-She will use discipline however and whenever she chooses, either for correcting behavior or for fun. It’s not often anymore, because I’m such a darn angel!!

-I am obligated to keep her informed of my submissive status. She wants me in that state and wants me to communicate my feelings before there is ever a problem.

-I must take care of her property (her words not mine). That means no hair allowed anywhere except on top of head, maintain that so there isn’t any stubble, and keep her informed of the cage contents. Keeping an eye on potential irritation or abrasions before something happens where I would need to remain unlocked for long periods. Keeping her little dick in pristine condition (again, her words lol).

-She will cum and have sexual activity whenever it pleases her. I will watch or help any way she asks, and receive instructions when needed on how to please her. I think she was talking about toys, but she isn’t shy about instructing in other areas.

-I must follow directions in any instruction given, whether it be chores, cleaning up my mess after an orgasm, stop being sassy, basically if she says something it’s the way it’s going to be.

-I rub her feet everyday on demand. We skip a day occasionally, but if she asks it’s always performed.

-I must call her mistress Amante or Amante unless I’m a public setting. This is rarely done anymore, because needing to say someone’s name when they already know they are the only person you’re talking to is rare. Think about it, how often do you say someone’s name when speaking to them. I test it to her occasionally like good morning mistress Amante, but in general it wouldn’t come up unless we are in a scene in the bedroom.

That’s our basic outline, subject to change I suppose, like everything.

 

My wife doesn’t let me touch her either.

 

mine doesn’t tease me either

 

T&D has a direct a relation to my motivation to please her and behave in ways that affirm her & support her. I and my wife prefer motivation with a carrot and not with a stick. We're both happier in the long run.

 

These are excellent points, and we use each and every one of these. #1 and #4 make everything else work very well.

 

All great personal replies. My Quote:
It’s not about the destination…it’s about how we navigate a chaste life daily in service to my Goddess.