Does chastity hurt?

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    Does the tube make it so the penis can't start getting erect or make it so that it starts but then it hurts and that makes it stop? Like, if you showed the cuckold man some porn would that be cruel or does the tube make it so that such things have no effect any more?
     
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    Once caged, the penis, when trying to have an erection, begins a process of frustration and pain because the attempt at erection pulls the eggs.
    The cuckold in chastity must learn to control himself or suffer... but I think that is what a caged cuckold would want, ----> suffer at the hands of the woman who makes him cuckold and submits him to her will.
     
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    A comfortable cage worn all the time should only be pleasantly tight not painful when the man is erect. Frustrating in a good way
     
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    Okay, so it hurts but not like super painful and it's okay that it hurts because it's like people who get off on being spanked. Like that?
     
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    Not exactly. It should be comfortable, almost feeling nothing when he is soft
     
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    Hmmmm yes more or less, the pain you can feel will depend on the cage you use, the smaller the cage the more pain. Or if the cage has spikes inside it will hurt a lot more.
     
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    If he can't maintain an erection in the cage because of the pain it's not the right cage.
     
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    It's not pain. Discomfort maybe
     
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    Lol, frustrating in a good way. I like that.
     
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    jejejeje
    your sadistic side came out !!!
     
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    Frustratisfaction
     
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    I can be hard and frustrated without pain (or what I would describe as pain) for a good hour or longer. I'm in 24/7
     
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    Uncomfortable but not painful
     
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    That’s the attitude most subs look for in the beginning. Nice.
    Any arousal he receives from you, can and will increase the discomfort.
    Chastity is addictive on both sides.
    Enjoy the journey.
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    After a lot of experimentation, I have found that the smaller and tighter the cage is when not aroused, the fewer problems I have with erections. The tightness seems to prevent erections from building up very much. (Erections come from the penis filling up with blood and when that is not possible because of the cage, it seems to shut down the flow of blood to the area.)
     
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    My husband had a fair bit of discomfort when his cage was large enough that it would allow for a little growth. The best device we've tried was the Nub, in my opinion. It was the first time he was able to sleep all night because it was so small, he couldn't even begin to get an erection. We had to move away from that one for other reasons, but our Cherry Keeper is very short, and puts pressure on the head of his penis. So he can't begin an erection with this one, either.

    If he complains about the pain, just talk to him like he's a cute little kid doing all this 'suffering' for you, and tell him you don't want to do it, but you have no choice because it's all for his own good. He'll probably get a little harder, but thank you later.
     
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    NO!! Chastity does not hurt and it should not be painful. Also, chastity has nothing to do with cuckolding or suffering. That is just porn fantasy. Sure there are some cuckolds in chastity and some people like pain, but that is not typical for vast majority of men in chastity I believe. Properly designed cage should not hurt. I am caged 24/7 and I have 0 pain, no issues and I do everything with my cock cage on. Of course it is a restrictive device around your private parts and there can be some discomfort, but definitely not pain. I wrote a guide that might help you if your cage is not properly designed:
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...for-24-7-cock-cage-wearing.45079/#post-509577

    Krystine Kellogg made a podcast about my cock cage guide if you are interested:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/krystines-flr-podcast/id1529833492?i=1000571210960
    EP: 0241 — https://krystinekellogg.com/podcast.html
     
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    For me, there is no pain or pulling on the balls. The cage is small so that my flacid penis barely fits in it. It can't get erect. It's just a bit of pressure & frustration when I'm aroused.
     
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    and if you dont go big then it dont hurt at all.
     
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    If the cage has a good fit it does not hurt at all - theres is not even some kind of discomfort if the cb suits you.
    When you try to get an erection the blood tries to rush in you still stay soft as your penis has no space to expand. At least that is how it is for me now.
    When i did not have a cage that fitted as well is was something else entirely. When soft everything was fine, getting an erection though i would get half hard inside the cage and it would hurt a lot.


    Any pain should be a sign though that there is something that should be changed.
     
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    I have dozen of cages. I use three of them: Steelworxx, Custom chastity, and Cellmate II. All three creates discomfort for me, when erected. I wouldn't call that a real pain. However if I wear a tight pants, that push a cage toward body tightly, then I feel no pain and no discomfort.
     
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    I'm in a Glans Armor device. It doesn't have the ring around the testicles but is attached to the end of my penis by a Prince Albert piercing.

    It doesn't hurt either but it does have it's own discomfort when I'm aroused. I can have a 'half-mast' erection at which point my penis fills the device cap and can't get further erect. I feel the pressure in my glans and on my shaft behind the glans.

    Ironically for a submissive male, when naked and 'erect' the weight of the device holds my penis down aimed at the floor as well.

    Lifestyle wise this device is much easier day to day than a traditional ring-cage device. I never could wear the other styles more than a few days without skin burn and chafing.

    I did wish to add that chastity does hurt in that sustained denial when aroused can be painful elsewhere in the body. I get a sore lower back that's mildly akin to that first sign of kidney stones. And of course the testicles can be sore and tender as well. My Wife enjoys tease and denial and edging, and that can leave me sore for about 2 days after a scene.
     
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    I have a custom cage and when I’m soft there’s no pain or discomfort; I’ll often times forget I’m even wearing it until I have to use the bathroom or my wife mentions it.
    Erections for me are more of a “sweet pain” or and ache, like pushing on a bruise. It goes away fairly quickly in the morning; during sexual situations it’s a constant reminder it’s on but never unbearable.
    The only real “pain” I’ve felt is after being denied for a few weeks I feel like my prostate is sore and get a dull ache in my lower abdomen, but that’s more of an occasional discomfort than pain and I can eventually ignore it.
     
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    It all depends on the cage you use as well!
     
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    You have to define "pain". Use the pain scale that hospitals use to determine if a person legit needs painkillers or is just in it for the high. The most "pain" a chastity cage should cause should be a little pressure and pulling on the testicals, depending on the design. I would call it a 3 on the pain scale. Its a bother/distraction, it can wake you up when you get nocturnal erections, but if you focus on something else its easy to ignore until it subsides.

    If the pain is severe. like it causes panic and he's begging for the keys, etc, or there is any significant discoloration to the testicals (a dull shade of pink slightly more than normal is fine) or edema of the penis flesh through the cage that stays after the erection subsides, then the cage is too tight and should be adjusted or swapped for a slightly larger model/larger ring (note that the penis is extremely flexible and can be crammed into a super tiny cage no problem when flaccid, the important factor is always the base ring fit).

    There should not be any sharp pain points, though it is common for a man who is just getting used to being locked to have some tenderness on the underside of the testicals where the base ring rubs. This can be treated with diaper rash cream and keep the area clean. A good way to clean the cage thoroughly if you are enforcing a lockdown is a soft automotive detailing brush. you can get them at an autoparts store or amazon pretty cheap. game changer when it comes to long term lockup hygiene.
     
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