Wife’s desire is no penetration ever

My wife loves PIV. Unfortunately I don't last long, and now that have begun playing with chastity, I'm denied and excited, I'm basically a two pump pony

 

My wife has cut me back to zero intercourse over the last several years. I've only been inside once in the last 2 years, and I'm more than certain it's not happening again. I get occasional hand jobs and she gets oral whenever she wants.

 

And doing it with your bf while your own sub is well under lock and key has to enhance the pleasure from it!

 

My orgasms are Clitoral so I can manage just fine most of the time without any sort of penetration.
However, sometimes I get the hankering to be penetrated and in a masterful way (so to speak)
It's an urge that gets triggered by something and grows until it has to be dealt with.
That has to come from a 3rd party. never my submissive man or everything would be undone.

 

wife asked how I felt about it. Told her major deal breaker to point she would be financially cut off if she wanted to explore that route. apparently she didn't have that strong feelings about it.

 

My wife hates penetration and we have agreed that I will not penetrate her anymore. She also strongly dislikes erections and wishes I could always stay soft. Sadly, she also thinks oral is disgusting, so I only get to use my fingers to give her clitoris a good time.

 

And this version of a sex life is acceptable to you?

 

So you're in charge then!

 

This is intense. I could manage no penetration, or no oral, but to not be able to offer either would be very difficult for me.

 

If I was threatened like that I would lawyer up and divorce court here I come. Better poor than servile.

 

Just gonna throw this out there...
Pretty sure it’s the ones in the cages who are really the ones in charge... Yes, we, as KeyHolders, decide IF and WHEN orgasm happens, but they are the ones who want us to have that key in the first place, and I HAPPILY HOLD/CONTROL THAT KEY!!
I know that there are those whose idea it is the woman’s, but mostly it is the man’s idea. I am all for doing what I need to do to please my man as long as he goes above and beyond for me, the one he wants to hold that key.
Back to the topic... Gotta have that COCK!!

 

Totally!
We both enjoy our lives as hedonists and wanted no complications by having kids. I would rather put my tongue to good use, and low and behold, so would she.

 

This tends to be the norm, but not for us. Although it was jack that brought out my inner Domme, a power exchange eventually happened and my rules are now his rules. I decided his cock would be locked and I decided to fuck other men for my pleasure. It's a dynamic that works wonderfully well for both of us. I am not here just to furnish his kink on his terms.

 

I envy Jack with every fibre of my body.

 

So profound!
(for me anyway)

I got my wife into TND a long time ago and we have both adapted to each others creativity.
Still, she is the Mistress and I am not.
Ultimately, she is the Umpire & I have found its a bad move on my part to dispute.

 

Is Jack required to fluff and clean your bulls as well?

 

Yes I guess I am in charge. Wife has asked me to follow this forum as she is interested. I am honoring her wish and find other peoples lifestyles interesting but so far haven't seen anything compelling enough to proceed. I happen to like PIV which is why its a big deal breaker. I also don't have any big fetish about being denied or abused so some of the comments on the site rub me the wrong way. Doesn't really matter since each person and or couple have to do whats right for them. Mandy and jack seem to have come to a good place that works for them. Wouldn't work for me and part of the reason I am reluctant to engage in this form of play.

 

Exactly how I felt. I work 60+ hours a week when in country and 24/7 when in the sandbox to support my family and country so who is actually servile?

 

That's honest hunny and I respect that.

 

My wife prefers penetration but rotates between that, vibe and oral. She gets in a mood for PIV and nothing else meets the need.

And I'm okay with that.

 

My wife has me locked 24/7/365 with very few releases per year. The releases i do have are sex with numbing cream and condoms. No orgasms for me. She has told me it is a huge sacrafice for her because she wants me inside her much more often. She said that enforcing my discipline is more important that then PIV sex for her. She is much happier with a constantly horny, well disiplined , and attentive husband.

 

Its about the power exchange and the male agreeing to his wife's sexual freedom. He remains faithful and often denied. He wants it, she deserves it.

 

My wife loves PIV. Unfortunately I don't last long, and now that have begun playing with chastity, I'm denied and excited, I'm basically a two pump pony

LOL-this is us. Between age, weight gain, and being locked most of the time, my cock seems to have gotten smaller and barely even gets hard before cumming anymore. And, while she really used to like PIV, (we had 6 kids!) she doesn't really miss it anymore. She uses her dildo as needed, which is not that often. As long as I satisfy her with my mouth/hands, she's very happy, and so am I.

She unlocked me for the New Year (after being caged for a month) with the intent of PIV. Once it was clear I was as hard as I was going to get, we both looked at my cock at the same time, and then at each other and laughed. She said, "C'mon, after all the kids? I'll never even feel that thing," and proceeded to blow me till I came, which wasn't long. We drifted off to sleep and I went back in my cage in the morning. I love my beautiful wife/KH.