Wife’s desire is no penetration ever

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    whose wife has no further desire for penetration, specifically by husbands penis, maybe a vibe or dildo but no penis ever. As such locking up husbands cock is a good solution to having to deal with him trying to use it
    They do however like their husbands oral service as desired


    Curious as to how many are living with no more pussy ever and very limited or zero orgasms but still service wife orally as desired
     
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    That's me exactly. No PIV and cunnilingus only if she wants it, which is rarely. If she wants a hard cock inside her my wife has the option of cuckolding me with my friends. She hasn't yet but I know she will and I'll have to suck their cocks to get them ready for her.
     
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    I have not had any form of penetration sex, even with finger, with my wife for over 20 years. She had a girlfriend and preferred the kind of sex she had with women. I got used to it and always preferred oral anyway. I also had a few girlfriends, including my wife's to have intercourse with very occasionally but not for the last 8 years. I got used to it. Now my wife prefers her vibrator and after seeing the powerful orgasms she has with one, I am all for it. I used to give her great orgzasms but at my age and physical limitations I am no longer a match for a vibrator and it is all about her pleasure and not how we get there.
     
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    Nope. My Wife has a reduced need for penile penetrative sex due to how much she enjoys both my oral skills and the Yoni massages I give her, but she still likes to have me inside her occasionally. Usually they are with me fully numbed so I cannot feel anything but just occasionally she will let me feel her.

    She absolutely hates dildos as they feel so fake to her, but she does very occasionally like using her wand massager.
     
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    I thought it was just me, I had been thinking I was a freak and there was something seriously wrong, I haven't had sex for over 20 years myself. After my wife gave birth that was it, finished over no more! I am still very sexually aware, but faithful to my wife, and we are happy but I do secretly use sites like this to satisfy my curiosity.
     
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    Medication has made me permanently soft so PIV is a dead issue anyway. My wife uses a vibrator to satisfy herself. I've always preferred men to women so an anal vibrator gives me what I need. If my wife wants to cuck me I'd have no problem with it. I've cucked enough hubbies over the years that I'm familiar with the role.
     
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    We seem to have drifted into this. Might be a middle aged thing. However, I've had lots of PIV in the past, but not nearly enough kink so I'm not complaining!
     
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    Marital evolution is part of it. Our door finally swing open after I confessed to my wife that men had been fucking my ass for years and that I loved it. Now she calls all the shots and I'm fine with that.
     
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    Not sure I could do that....but hey ash to their own, as long as no one gets hurt.
     
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    I agree. Dishonesty hurts the most. My wife is fine with my bisexuality but she should have known about it from the beginning to be able to make her own decisions. Fortunately she has decided to stay with me but entirely on her own terms, which is as it should be.
     
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    It is quite stunning the way the things that we thought were only fantasies turn out to be viable lifestyles.
     
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    Somewhat embarassing but this is me. My KH locked me up 17 years ago and since then has had no interest in penetration, I was never very good at it anyway. We still have a very close and loving sex life, but I don't expect I'll ever be inside a woman again, I don't really remember what it feels like. I'm ok with that and I love my Wife and our ever evolving relationship :)
     
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    Indeed it is. Once I admitted to my wife that I am bisexual we were able to talk honestly about what each of us wants and needs and proceed from there. My wife discovered that being dominant is natural for her and that I happily submit to any and all requirements.
     
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    My wife has no interet in piv as she hates the mess but she loves me making love to her oraly and with a strap on
    I would be lucky to be inside her once a year and even then I am not allowed to cum so being basicly permanently locked ( apart from washing ) works well for us
    Surprisingly we have a bette sex life with me denied and would not want to go back
     
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    Interesting how that works. Both my wife and I would much rather have her fucking me with a strapon than have me fucking her. Who knew?
     
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    the
    the idea is arousing................
     
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    :))))))))))))------------------------
     
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    nice:))))))))))
     
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    Been thinking about this topic....and there is no way that I could go without having J rock hard and deep inside of me, if there is no medical or physical reason to make penetration an impossibility...
     
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    LOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVEEEEEEE being penetrated! That's why I have a boyfriend. Before my regular, as many randoms as I felt i needed. It doesn't pay to allow the slaves to fuck you, they get all alpha and cranky! Unless of course its caged and wearing my favourite strap on.
     
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    Well said Miss Mandy! You seem to have everything in order just the way You want them to be. Good for You!!
     
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    Great description. We have been through the stages of lots of intercourse, followed by early days of orgasm denial ten years ago where she would have me penetrate her wearing a strap-on above the cage, to now where I'm locked almost permanently, she enjoys oral service several times a week, and I was given one orgasm in 2017. I noticed that when I was unlocked for a short time over Christmas she did not seem so relaxed during oral service, but as soon as I was relocked she really relaxed into it and enjoyed it more which showed physically too. So "locking up husbands cock is a good solution to having to deal with him trying to use it" seems spot on.

    Exactly, "drifted into this" is a perfect description since it has all happened organically through subtle changes and preferences expressed.
     
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    So do we :). As we are girlfriends we do use Ian for that, though no way does he have exclusive rights of access! That’s why god gave us girls nights out.

    Love
    Jane & Janet
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    You could always start a poll on it.
     
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    I also love to be penetrated......... by my boyfriend.:)


    But i love my Sissybois tounge very much.;)
     
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