El Guapo
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Birthday:
Mar 9, 1965 (Age: 53)
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Estados Unidos

El Guapo

Ladies First., Male, 53, from Estados Unidos

Wife off to South Carolina ... 5 straight days in the 2-A. Nov 18, 2018 at 12:29 AM

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Nov 19, 2018 at 2:18 AM
    1. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Wife off to South Carolina ... 5 straight days in the 2-A.
      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Five days, try all the time. It really gets better lol. I know you miss those l--s.
        Nov 18, 2018 at 1:19 AM
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I know I know - I feel silly saying 5 days ... probably a good laugh for many.
        Nov 19, 2018 at 2:06 AM
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I don't laugh, it is what it is. It's not a contest, it's where we all are that's important. If it pleases her so be it.
        Nov 19, 2018 at 2:26 AM
    2. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Cold down here. Possible freeze for the next few days. Send warmth.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Sorry, already had some ice. I never worry about it, have something hot that never fails.
        Nov 13, 2018 at 1:53 AM
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    3. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hey "54" Thank you. It was great talking. I think we have a kindred spirit. Hope things slow down a little. ;-)
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        was great talking - long overdue
        kindred spirits - yes indeed
        Nov 6, 2018
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    4. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Didn't want to bother you. Just text or call when you have the time. "87"
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        on my calendar for a call after 2 today
        Nov 5, 2018
    5. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hey 54 I would like to call you Saturday. If there is a good time to call about Susan . Let me know.
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        87, this time of year, saturday is not good really. my wife & i work at the local renaissance festivals and one of them is underway - so we work m-f at our normal jobs & s+s at the faire.
        i do get some down time - so depending on when you can call, i might be available for a little while.
        would love to talk.
        Oct 26, 2018
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    6. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      A confession. I admit; I can have weak moments.
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Don't forget to tell her life would be nothing if not for Her.
        Oct 22, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Check our conversation. Gave you an update. Some guesswork.
        Oct 22, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        [her & her] ... i think i know what you mean ... is that a typo? i saw the PM come through ... checking a thread & then heading there.
        Oct 23, 2018
    7. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hi Bud. We need to to get together and compare notes. She seems to be ramping up for something. May need moral support lol. It is exciting. ;-)
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        When is a good time?
        Oct 15, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Probably an ongoing email exchange would work best.
        I am online inconsistently & never know for how long I might be available. I might check in 3 or 4 times a night but not for long for each visit. I am a very unscheduled person so setting up a time doesnt really work.
        Oct 15, 2018
      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I will be happy to listen to your concerns, share my experience & provide encouragement. I might even share my jealously - you are looking to be one lucky dog,
        Oct 15, 2018
    8. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hope Locktober is going well for you. You know, this working thing really gets in the way of doing things you want to do. I guess somebody has to work. Been busy lately hope to catch up with you soon my friend.;-)
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        busy here too! i actually like working - so there is that. gets in the way is all - no trouble finding time for things important to me ... read: Her.
        locktober - same theme if a different word. honorsystemtober - just not the same though :)
        looking forward to catching up.
        Oct 3, 2018
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        You know not really that true. You found She is important to you. To me locked or not it dosen't change
        the way I feel. There is no contest here. We are the same in spirt to those we adore. It is the SAME.
        Oct 4, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        attitude is the same - yes.
        the word doesnt have the same ring - one 'fits', the other 'doesnt' :)
        Oct 4, 2018
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    9. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Ya know ... I like CM better now than when I joined. Thanks to all those who contribute moving us in that direction.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I agree. Very happy to see more couples and women joining. Great interaction.;-)
        Sep 25, 2018
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    10. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Back from a few days at the coast ... needed the sand between toes & the waves slapping against my legs.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @subiam The Granola Coast sounds like the bed & breakfasts are superb!

        @Rectrix Sounds like Daltrey ...

        @Allen1987 lol - numb ...maybe in the winter. well, and spring & autumn too :)
        Sep 10, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Breathe ... heavy clothes? Dont wanna trade if I have any choice.
        Sep 10, 2018
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      4. Breathe
        Breathe
        It was worth a shot. ;)
        Sep 10, 2018
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    11. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Back home and back to work, yuch. So glad we have wonderful women to keep us from going Awol. Still wish we could have a beer together. I hope someday it can happen.
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        someday a brew. in the meantime, maybe one while we hang out in the chat room some night.
        Sep 14, 2018
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    12. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Having a great day today. Why? Because I want to - and we are about as happy as we let ourselves be.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        That's how you go 42+ years. you got the secrete! Who told you? lol
        Aug 26, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        a lot of folks contributed ... including you.
        Aug 27, 2018
    13. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Liked your email, you are a verified person. How do I become one. LOL. Can't believe you could be speechless. We share much on the things that are important to those we love. That includes friendship also!
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Allen1987 ... liked your email right back! you become certified or verified (they might be the same) when you believe that you are. so ... i think you are there already.
        Aug 28, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I'm already there, where is that? Can I find me somewhere? I'm glad you found me, otherwise i might be somewhere else. Will give more verification soon.
        Aug 28, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        rest assured, you are off the spectrum. that is why i could find you ... its the only place i look for companionship.
        Aug 28, 2018
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    14. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Had some CM Permission troubles for a few days. Our omnipotent Goddess, L-u-c-y, fixed them (again) and I am back in business.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        As always to the rescue of us reverent beings of womenhood, Thank you again.
        Aug 18, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I believe that woman is part of The Q Continuum.
        Aug 18, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Spock always talked about possibilities. Definitely part of the CM Continuum.
        Aug 18, 2018
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    15. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Back in town. Back online. Not ready to get back to work.
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        BTW welcome back to CM, missed you bud.;-)
        Aug 14, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        missed ya to, 87
        nice to be home again (home home & here home).
        missed many of the folks here.
        Aug 14, 2018
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      4. Breathe
        Breathe
        Welcome back to the fold.
        Aug 15, 2018
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    16. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Taking a week off. Mostly hang around town. Long weekend of camping. Leaving technology at home. I'll be offline but thinking of y'all.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        87 - what our Ladies give us is just as powerful a commitment as we give to them (just different). Their efforts are significant expenditures of energy - and I am tireless to thank Her for it.
        Aug 14, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Sometimes I wish we could do a Vulcan mind meld. Let them feel the feelings these wonderful women instill in us. It is very hard to show some feelings that drive us to please them. Their efforts are tireless sometimes, yet they never give up on us, talk about love.
        Aug 14, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        The VMM ... and love ... nods!
        Aug 14, 2018
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    17. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Finally slowing down at work - some room to breath. This place is getting me out more because of some great threads & contributions lately.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I found out breathing room is a good thing. Didn't realize where my head was until we got here. Her work is always on Her mind, and only away does it clear. I do feel like a crazy kid. I feel like we just met and everything is new. Why don't you two get away for a few days. Take a break from the rat race.
        Aug 6, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i get the mind always on work - mine too.
        some time away - i am taking a week off & we are gonna get away for a long weekend. status update tomorrow.
        Aug 6, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Hey. don't forget the grill. Just focus on her, forget work for now. What a day. still processing. When I figure out what happened I'll fill you in.;-)
        Aug 6, 2018
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    18. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hi my friend. She went out for a while. I going to prepare dinner. Of course one grill came with me. Baked potato, steamed carrots and of course tenderloin steak. She locked my collar before She left, that means She loves me. This last year has been a blur and now processing. Oh wow, I can almost think. Catch you all later, maybe.☺
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        "She locked the collar on before She left, that means she loves me ... "

        I'd be all smiles & my eyes would be fluttering all through grilling supper!

        Sounds de-licious by the way - love to say we'll be right over!
        Aug 6, 2018
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        When She locks the collar She is thinking about what's to come. She is letting me know I am on Her mind and She has plans. She says it inspires Her. And the way She looks at me..... BTW Probably not a good time to come over lol.
        Aug 6, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i like that - i mean really like that.
        ... the meaning of 'having plans' & inspiration.
        ... of course - best to stay out of the way.
        Aug 6, 2018
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    19. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      One day at a time.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Thank you Spock87 :)
        Jul 23, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Not exactly logical, but that works. Oh by the way you have a multi-legged creature on your shoulder, let me help.
        Jul 23, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Logical or not - everything is alright :)
        Jul 24, 2018
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    20. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      been in a funk for a few days. not feeling outgoing. dont take it personal like, just taking some space.
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        yes, 87 ... exactly!
        its all work - busy beyond all git out right now!!
        milady and i have some time together planned ... get-aways this weekend & almost a week in early august.
        Jul 4, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        such a wonderful coast up there ... however, it lacks all the petrochemicals we have on our coastline.
        Jul 4, 2018
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    21. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Profile is fixed - didn't realize how much I miss you gals/guys when I cant interact. The great L-u-c-y was able to fix this!
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I have near proof @L-u-c-y never sleeps.
        And I am pretty sure she can divide by zero too.
        Jun 14, 2018
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Getting together someday would make me smile.
        Matter and antimatter ... regardless.
        Jun 15, 2018
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    22. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Regrouping ... Round 1 was tougher than I thought. I have never been a quitter so just need to rethink some of this. Round 2 soon.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Panda2010 ... Great to see you - missed your being around.
        May 12, 2018
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      3. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        How is regrouping going?
        Jun 1, 2018
      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Two main hurdles:
        1. I just cant seem to survive the night. I hydrate a lot and usually pee 1 or 2 times per night. Its not very pleasant to wake up with that need. If all I felt was the pressure, fine, but ... thats not what wakes me up.
        2. Lori's are heavy!
        Jun 1, 2018
    23. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Monday's 'Fitting' was anticlimactic :(
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      2. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        Good to hear that you have been able to get it on and it is comfortable. I found a heat pack also helps to relax the skin on your sac so you can pull more skin through (particularly if your sac is naturally a bit tight).

        You will get the hang of it ;-)
        Apr 27, 2018
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      3. Breathe
        Breathe
        So sweet watching you boys encouraging each other. :)
        Apr 27, 2018
      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Dont stuff. Best ball forward. Heat pack. Days before nights. Getting the 'hang' of it. Not showing me. Prison. Encouragement. "Comin' out from 'round the world - are you ready for a brand new beat?" [sorry, i'm a musician]. Love. Y'all are the best!
        Apr 27, 2018
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    24. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Update from Ms. Lori: Your 2A has shipped.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Breathe 'bout time: SHEESH!
        @Allen1987 bet you can't wait: I CAN'T!!

        We are out of town this weekend so Monday will be 'the fitting'.

        Did I mention I have been having 'prison' dreams? Waking up in the middle of the night in a sweaty panic! Hands reluctant to explore the validity of the dream.
        Apr 20, 2018
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      3. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        The wait is almost over. And soon prison for you. Join the club lol
        Apr 24, 2018
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      4. Panda2010
        Panda2010
        Getting close now. Be careful what you wished for lol
        FFS I hope it fits snugly for you after all this time (I know there were careful measurements to start with). Good luck. Enjoy.
        Apr 26, 2018
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    25. Strict Sir
      Strict Sir
      Welcome!
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Thanks - I have found a home here!
        Feb 3, 2018
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Mar 9, 1965 (Age: 53)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Estados Unidos
    Your chastity role:
    • Submissive
    • Other - (Explain in "About You")
    Chastity devices:
    Lori's 2A
    Chastity resume:
    Three+ decades of honor system TND.
    Brought into the TND world during college.
    Steeped deeply in Orgasm Denial, Servitude in a cheerful manner & constantly wearing her panties.

    The Honor System worked ... mostly.
    There were penalties of course but my 'need' overcame my fear of consequences.
    I thought my lapses were infrequent - she did not agree.

    In the past year that frequency has increased & I decided to take action to minimize my transgressions. I ordered a Lori's Device.

    Silly me ...
    I was hoping to keep a key for myself because MY goal was to remove the convenience, not make it impossible.
    That was my plan until my wife said: "I'll hold on to those keys".

    There has been some adoption issues to constant wear so this hasn't been a reliable solution to keeping 'honest'.

    Practical as they come, my wife simply said "I'm just going to occasionally ask if you took matters into your own hands. You won't want to answer 'yes' to that."

    Dang! She knows I will be truthful about it. I cant think of a simpler way to head those illegal orgasms off at the pass.
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