El Guapo
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Birthday:
Mar 9, 1965 (Age: 53)
Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
Estados Unidos

El Guapo

Ladies First., Male, 53, from Estados Unidos

My oh my ... its my 1 year anniversary at CM ... almost forget! Jan 4, 2019

El Guapo was last seen:
Jan 22, 2019 at 8:34 PM
    1. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      @El Guapo = Good friend. Great to talk to you.;-)
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Jan 20, 2019 at 9:40 PM
    2. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Any day after 1:30 pm your time.
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Perfect. I'll be home working on projects all week. Be in touch during the week to figure that ^ out. Hasta.
        Jan 12, 2019
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    3. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      My oh my ... its my 1 year anniversary at CM ... almost forget!
      1. BKwife
        BKwife
        Happy Anniversary!
        Jan 4, 2019
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      2. Gigaman
        Gigaman
        Likewise bud
        Jan 4, 2019
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      3. Sissy_Denise
        Sissy_Denise
        Happy belated anniversary, may you have many more!
        Jan 6, 2019
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    4. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Happy New Year to both of you.;-)
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Ummm ... 3 of you.
        Dec 31, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        You very funny guy ! I guess you could say that.;-)
        Dec 31, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I suppose I was trying to be inclusive.
        I can see where someone would think it funny. And another, me as a wise guy.
        Dec 31, 2018
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    5. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Feliz Navidad - Merry Christmas
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Back to you my friend.
        Dec 25, 2018
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      2. BKwife
        BKwife
        Merry Xmas to you
        Dec 25, 2018
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    6. Sissy_Denise
      Sissy_Denise
      Love your posts! "What should I do? What shouldn't I do? ", there is no I in "She", what does your Lady want to do?
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        ^ Haha. Brings me a smile when I see you around too. Glad you found CM!
        Dec 22, 2018
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      2. Sissy_Denise
        Sissy_Denise
        Thank you so much, I'm glad too. It't like talking to friends I should have had for years. Got to go, chores to do.
        Dec 22, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        YES! I got into TND/OD/FLR decades ago ... and just found this place 1 year ago. It IS like home.
        Dec 22, 2018
    7. Joan.t
      Joan.t
      Hey, where are you?
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Thank you for asking.
        Sooo busy over the holidays.
        Feliz Navidad, amiga.

        Loved your email - takes time to reply to such a masterpiece.
        Dec 21, 2018
    8. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      A rational empiricist that is steeped in Aristotelian logic has quite a tough time collecting data on a subject like this. To comprehend the meaning is almost impossible.
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        yeah. exactly.
        Dec 21, 2018
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        In this realm there is no compass to find direction. There is no correlation in rational thought. I think I'll
        just let it play out. Take my postion and let Her lead.
        Dec 21, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        a good plan.
        on one hand - if its all about her happiness & this makes her happy, then this is a no brainer.
        on the other hand - if you notice it starts to not sit right, time to speak up.
        Dec 21, 2018
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    9. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hey, everything peachy keen. Just lying next to Her thinking about how blessed we are with such wonderful women. She is just glowing.
      Thanks @El Guapo
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Two roads diverged i a yellow wood ...
        For you, both are beyond wonderful.
        Dec 18, 2018
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    10. Gigaman
      Gigaman
      El Guapo, you kill me with the things you post. I love it, keep it up. Makes it fun to come here and share.
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i will say the same thing back to you. BK too.
        Dec 17, 2018
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    11. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Making garlic chicken for a garden salad I already made. She decorated the
      tree after I put it up today. Great day can't wait to get to work tomorrow to
      redirect some thoughts. After 4 10-4 Over and out!
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Redirect your thoughts - seriously! The pillars of heaven have been shaken ... heck, -I- need to redirect my thoughts. Lets chat mañana.
        Dec 16, 2018
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Tomorrow will be fine. Work will give the cortisol a chance to subside. Unless I want to strangle someone.
        That would redirect my thoughts, ya baby sounds good. lol
        Dec 17, 2018
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    12. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      1st weekend in 3 months that we have no plans! What should I do? What shouldn't I do? Hmmmm ...
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Between 1-2 my time should be just fine.
        Si, hablamos mañana.
        Dec 9, 2018
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      3. Mash2214
        Mash2214
        Maybe try kneeling infront of your Lovely Wife and saying. “I’m all yours for the weekend “ next time.
        Dec 10, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        @Mash2214 ... You are right on track with that, 14!
        this time & next time, & the time after that :)
        Dec 10, 2018
    13. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Off to Houston for the weekend ... hasta.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Wife travels for business & education. We also work at local renaissance festivals - the one in Houston (3 hours drive) just ended so we had to break down the 3 month long campsite. Next faire's setup is in February.
        Dec 3, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Try that here in February you'll freeze your tush off. Welcome home.;-)
        Dec 3, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i used to be a marshal at the boy scout klondike derby jamborees ... winter camping is fun if you have the right equipment. have an in-person story for you about the bonfires.
        Dec 3, 2018
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    14. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      She came home. She had a good time. The ex called to ask how she was, she said"what do you care click". Why do people do that to each other?
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Yes, many are attracted by the surface glitter not the depth. And if one cant mature past the early stages of attraction, then they will have rocky roads ahead.
        WAY more than skin deep.
        Nov 30, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I think we both have seen the beauty from within and still mystified by the attraction. To be lost in the depth of a woman is more than pleasure. The overwhelming love and caring that they have for us will always touch me in ways unexplainable, you know, you have been there.;-)
        Nov 30, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        i know. yes.
        Sometimes I try to figure out why that is - that some guys get it & some dont. I have come to believe that its guys that have a well balanced feminine side. There are times I swear my brain processes more like a woman's than a guy's.
        Nov 30, 2018
    15. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      She went to her' mothers for Thanksgiving and the week end. The two were getting together today for lunch. If she comes home, lol I might get an update. This Friday my mom is staying over and I am going to fill her with steamed lobster. #1 will have it also. I get to do the steaming and the cracking. It's going to be fun.
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    16. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate it. From scratch homemade taco soup, tamales & salsa mashed potatoes - beyond yum.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Turkey and all the fixings. I know you are what you eat. I guess it fits. Happy Thanksgiving @El Guapo and the Ms. ;-)
        Nov 22, 2018
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      2. harddenial
        harddenial
        Yes Happy Thanksgiving to all our friends across the pond.
        Nov 22, 2018
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    17. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Wife off to South Carolina ... 5 straight days in the 2-A.
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      2. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I know I know - I feel silly saying 5 days ... probably a good laugh for many.
        Nov 19, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I don't laugh, it is what it is. It's not a contest, it's where we all are that's important. If it pleases her so be it.
        Nov 19, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        here, here ... to our betterment.
        Nov 19, 2018
    18. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Cold down here. Possible freeze for the next few days. Send warmth.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Sorry, already had some ice. I never worry about it, have something hot that never fails.
        Nov 13, 2018
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    19. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hey "54" Thank you. It was great talking. I think we have a kindred spirit. Hope things slow down a little. ;-)
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        was great talking - long overdue
        kindred spirits - yes indeed
        Nov 6, 2018
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    20. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Didn't want to bother you. Just text or call when you have the time. "87"
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        on my calendar for a call after 2 today
        Nov 5, 2018
    21. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hey 54 I would like to call you Saturday. If there is a good time to call about Susan . Let me know.
      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        87, this time of year, saturday is not good really. my wife & i work at the local renaissance festivals and one of them is underway - so we work m-f at our normal jobs & s+s at the faire.
        i do get some down time - so depending on when you can call, i might be available for a little while.
        would love to talk.
        Oct 26, 2018
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    22. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      A confession. I admit; I can have weak moments.
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Don't forget to tell her life would be nothing if not for Her.
        Oct 22, 2018
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      3. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        Check our conversation. Gave you an update. Some guesswork.
        Oct 22, 2018
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      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        [her & her] ... i think i know what you mean ... is that a typo? i saw the PM come through ... checking a thread & then heading there.
        Oct 23, 2018
    23. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hi Bud. We need to to get together and compare notes. She seems to be ramping up for something. May need moral support lol. It is exciting. ;-)
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        When is a good time?
        Oct 15, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        Probably an ongoing email exchange would work best.
        I am online inconsistently & never know for how long I might be available. I might check in 3 or 4 times a night but not for long for each visit. I am a very unscheduled person so setting up a time doesnt really work.
        Oct 15, 2018
      4. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        I will be happy to listen to your concerns, share my experience & provide encouragement. I might even share my jealously - you are looking to be one lucky dog,
        Oct 15, 2018
    24. Allen1987
      Allen1987
      Hope Locktober is going well for you. You know, this working thing really gets in the way of doing things you want to do. I guess somebody has to work. Been busy lately hope to catch up with you soon my friend.;-)
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      1. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        busy here too! i actually like working - so there is that. gets in the way is all - no trouble finding time for things important to me ... read: Her.
        locktober - same theme if a different word. honorsystemtober - just not the same though :)
        looking forward to catching up.
        Oct 3, 2018
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      2. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        You know not really that true. You found She is important to you. To me locked or not it dosen't change
        the way I feel. There is no contest here. We are the same in spirt to those we adore. It is the SAME.
        Oct 4, 2018
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      3. El Guapo
        El Guapo
        attitude is the same - yes.
        the word doesnt have the same ring - one 'fits', the other 'doesnt' :)
        Oct 4, 2018
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    25. El Guapo
      El Guapo
      Ya know ... I like CM better now than when I joined. Thanks to all those who contribute moving us in that direction.
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      1. Allen1987
        Allen1987
        I agree. Very happy to see more couples and women joining. Great interaction.;-)
        Sep 25, 2018
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    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Mar 9, 1965 (Age: 53)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Estados Unidos
    Your chastity role:
    • Submissive
    • Other - (Explain in "About You")
    Chastity devices:
    Lori's 2A
    Chastity resume:
    Three+ decades of honor system TND.
    Brought into the TND world during college.
    Steeped deeply in Orgasm Denial, Servitude in a cheerful manner & constantly wearing her panties.

    The Honor System worked ... mostly.
    There were penalties of course but my 'need' overcame my fear of consequences.
    I thought my lapses were infrequent - she did not agree.

    In the past year that frequency has increased & I decided to take action to minimize my transgressions. I ordered a Lori's Device.

    Silly me ...
    I was hoping to keep a key for myself because MY goal was to remove the convenience, not make it impossible.
    That was my plan until my wife said: "I'll hold on to those keys".

    There has been some adoption issues to constant wear so this hasn't been a reliable solution to keeping 'honest'.

    Practical as they come, my wife simply said "I'm just going to occasionally ask if you took matters into your own hands. You won't want to answer 'yes' to that."

    Dang! She knows I will be truthful about it. I cant think of a simpler way to head those illegal orgasms off at the pass.
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