I'm very interested in introducing the idea of ruined orgasms to @Mistress_M . She has been kind enough to allow me at least a full orgasm every 7 or so days. I love our weekend playtime because our passion is so intense but as many of us know there is that drop in that puppyish desire for our mistresses for a day or two after that full orgasm. I would like to try RO's as an effective measure against that drop in attentiveness. I love the way I feel about Mistress_M when I've reached that 7 day lockup period. I adore her all the time anyway but it's much more intense after that many days. Although I crave an orgasm I also regret losing that puppyish feelings for her for those couple of days. But I read a lot of contradictory content regarding ruined orgasms. Some believe that RO's are useless in terms of preventing that post orgasm letdown, they believe that you are fooled because you're left with the frustration of not having a pleasing orgasm yet you still have the post "O" blues because you've been drained of your semen. Yet others very much believe in Ruined "O's" as a way to release sexual tension but keep the puppyish qualities of their sub and the subs level of horniness to still remain relatively high. So I would love to hear some opinions from both mistresses and subs regarding how you think ruined orgasms effect the male mind.