What is everyone's opinions on ruined orgasms?

I think that there are different levels of a ruined orgasm. Most of the time, I get a little pleasure and lose some of my horniness for a couple of hours, but sometimes I feel no pleasure and remain very horny. This morning I was rubbing little willy on my wife's pussy and ass, when she said "you just had a ruined orgasm" I looked down and saw my cum running down her pussy on to her ass. I was hornier then ever, and lucky for me, she let me do my clean up duty, and then continue with my lick and a rub. But she din not let me have another ruined orgasm.

 

My wife often orders me to ruin my own orgasms, but I have no experience with her actually doing it. She doesn't often handle my meager penis at all.

The problem with doing it yourself is that you can get so worked up that even if you remove the physical stimulation before you ejaculate you still know exactly when it's going to happen. It's somewhere in between a normal and a ruined orgasm. The cum mostly dribbles out and I can stay hard throughout and even work towards another ejaculation, but I enjoy it more than a 'true' ruined orgasm, and I can watch my dick throb even as it dribbles cum. It's all relative I guess.

 

I don't like them...My Wife(KH) loves them. She thinks it's funny sometimes to see my reaction to a ruined orgasm...Thank-you KH...

 

I never had one.

 

When was your latest orgasme, Jemina.

 

I agree there are different kinds. They are all frustrating but a full ro that just dribbles out offers very little physical pleasure, let's me stay hard afterward, and there's no drop in the submissive feelings. It's worth exploring.

 

It all depends on the time when you stop stimulation and when your cum dribbles out...if it's 3 or 4 seconds, I feel a little pleasure, and I lose a little energy, and I'm not horny for a few hours. Yesterday, she asked me to spoil it for her (all she has to do is say those words). I laid little willy at the top of her pussy, and 6 or 7 seconds later, cum dribbled out. I felt nothing, did not lose any energy, and stayed horny. I told my wife, "that is the way a ruined orgasm should be done.

 

it was a long long time ago but I dont mind now I am milk evry 8 weeks and thats nice.

 

I’ve only had ro at my own hands and there is no drop afterwards. If I had the keys I would do one right now

 

Drop or no drop it's still playing with the penis and making it erect and making it drip, otherwise known as masturbation. Which is why you're locked and why it's good you don't have the keys.

 

Haha I’m actually pretty disciplined- the keys are left outside in the car and so far that’s been enough deterrent

 

I've accidentally given myself ruined orgasms, as in when intending to stop before I climax but stopping a bit too late so I still have a ruined orgasm. But whenever I have tried to do a ruined orgasm I've always gone too far and had a full orgasm. My girlfriend has never tried it with me, and I think is not even aware of what a ruined orgasm is.

 

Goodness gracious- if I wasn’t locked up I would do them all day long!

 

a good thing

 

This is why you need a chastity cage. You are a masturbator and you always go too far.

 

Yes it is very frustrating

 

My wife hardly ever touches little willy with her hand anymore.

 

The thing I don't like the fact about naming it a ruined orgasm is it masks the fact that guess what .... he did come. I am more keen to call it 1/2 orgasm.

For those that enjoy this kind of fun, with guys that have been able to achieve short refactory periods or are very high libido. Congratulations you get to understand how guys like this feel.

I definitely do understand and appreciate the naming of it .... I am sure the joy a woman/transwoman/partner feels in seeing tjhe male partner get hot and horny and ready, lose himself but then saying "no soup for you" ..... has to be immensely fun.

 

Mine ONLY does it to tease me. She loves to grope it when it's locked up, just to drive me crazy. And when I'm not locked up she will often touch it for a few seconds - just enough to get me horny and wanting more - and then stop.

When she wants sex she has me lay on my back and she gets on all fours over me in a 69 position so that I can eat her out and then continue licking her while she gets fucked by her huge dildo. In this position she either refuses to touch me at all (even though her face and hands and breasts are all right there), or she sometimes lets her long blonde hair and/or her hot breath tease my little penis. But if I try to touch it myself or lift my hips to try to get my penis nearer to her, she will smack it hard and tell me to stop. It's all about her pleasure.