What does your mistress say when it is time to lock back up?

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    #1 paddlesandcuffs, Nov 15, 2018
    When my wife and I have sex she doesn't always allow me to cum, some times she just delays if I can cum until later in the session, sometimes I don't get to cum at all in the session. We would like to come up with a phrase that she can say that is my cue that I m not going to be allowed to orgasm, the session is over, and to lock back up. I was thinking something simply like "Mistress is done playing with her toy". What does your mistress say so signal this?
     
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    #2 L-u-c-y, Nov 15, 2018
    Does your wife not tell you to use a capital M when typing Mistress?
     
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    #3 yorkie, Nov 16, 2018
    in his defense he did use a capital M in the 1st instance of typing Mistress, i'm sure it's just a slip on the keyboard.

    p.s. L-u-c-y i cant help noticing your eyes, they're very pretty
     
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    #4 ChasteCel, Nov 16, 2018
    "Ok, put your cage back on" or some variation of that. Its still hot!
     
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    #5 Hersubbyhubby, Nov 16, 2018
    Thank me for denying you.
     
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    #6 Susanstoy91, Nov 16, 2018
    I'm done...Lock it back up...:lockkey:
     
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    #7 paddlesandcuffs, Nov 16, 2018

    Only on the weekends do we we use the formal capital "M".....
     
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    #8 paddlesandcuffs, Nov 16, 2018

    I like this a lot! I may suggest that we steal it.
     
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    #9 RangerCuck, Nov 16, 2018
    This is what I get. Short, simple, and to the point.
     
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    #10 Nicoftime, Nov 16, 2018
    Why aren’t you in your cage
    If I unlock you it’s going right back on after
    Lock up
    Ok that’s enough, it’s time

    Why aren’t you in your cage :p
     
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    #11 chaste_for_her, Nov 16, 2018
    We don't have a single phrase.
    When I ask permission to cum, she says yes or no (assuming that hasn't been worked out in advance). When she's done it's something like "ok enough" or "I'm done" or "stop".

    Then I clean things up, and ask her if I should lock it back up. Sometimes it's yes, sometimes I get told to go "manscape" and whatnot first, sometimes she wants me leave it out for a day or two, or lock it back up first thing in the morning.
     
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    #12 candyfloss, Nov 16, 2018
    Your Mistress should not have to tell you , you should realise that the session is over and that you should ask your Mistress " Mistress I beg you to please lock my cage back on thank you" and then she will lock you back up.
    Simples
     
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    #13 Miffy, Nov 16, 2018
    Today: get my breakfast and get that cage back on
     
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    #14 filltee, Nov 16, 2018
    I would have thought that assuming you should put your cage back would be the norm... if she wants you to not do so then surely she would have said so.

    Its not that difficult really and involves very little thinking for yourself. If the normal state is locked then why would you need any directions?

    Unless of course its the being intructed that you crave rather than the actual instructions. Which could be contrued as either giving your KH an opportunity to exercise her control or could be considered you thinking about your own needs and not those of your KH who might not want the onus being upon her to have to direct your every move. It would I think as usual depend on the dynamic of your relationship.
     
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    #15 Ma’ams Slut, Nov 16, 2018
    She doesn’t have to say anything anymore I know to get in the shower and wash it and get it back in the cage.
    At first it stay out a little while and then she would say why is it still unlocked and I was being complacent about it . That was before . Now she doesn’t have to say anything but if she chooses to she will before hand saying when I’m done with You right back in the cage
     
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    #16 Rectrix, Nov 16, 2018
    I don't remember anymore.
     
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    #17 Doug Scibor, Nov 16, 2018
    "OK, back inside."
     
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    #18 paddlesandcuffs, Nov 16, 2018

    Our dinamic isn’t in a state of locked up being the normal. Most times we have sex we both orgasm, sometimes spontaneously things will be going as normal and as denial while I am close to cumming she will tell me to stop and lock up.

    I am aware that a majority of people here are locked 24/7/365 and that’s great if that works for you. We use chastity as extended forplay as it is my biggest fetish.
     
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    #19 G42G, Nov 16, 2018
    "Time to lock him back up" is what I get. I give her a frowny face but do what I'm told. She knows it's an act but I'm waiting to be punished for it. We're still adjusting to this lifestyle change.
     
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    #20 Guest 3729, Nov 16, 2018
    Mistress has never been hard core about telling me to lock up except on occasion. She usually gives me the night out after being unlocked for play and it's kind of an unspoken agreement that I'm locked back up by the next morning without her having to say anything.

    I got back from a trip at the end of last month where I'd been unlocked for over a week and having "man time", we were pheasant hunting in South Dakota. This is normally never the case but this time I struggled wanting to put it back on after being out for so long. Mistress tolerated me a few more days before being very direct and saying "you're locking up tomorrow".
     
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    #21 Chaste J., Nov 16, 2018
    I can't remember!!!! :)
     
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    #22 DonnaSue, Nov 16, 2018
    Ok, Back in the cage!
     
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    #23 ChasteCel, Nov 17, 2018
    Nope, I've been explicitly told to ask.
     
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    #24 ChasteCel, Nov 17, 2018
    To clarify, I’ve just assumed and put the cage back on ... only for her to be annoyed and tell me I’m supposed to ask. It’s happened a couple times.
     
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    #25 locked8452, Nov 18, 2018
    Princess tells me:”I think you should lock back up”. Of course that isn’t a statement of her opinion.
     
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