Visit to the doctor

Damn. Maybe be better for your ass to just stay in your belt!

 

I am also not permitted to remove my cage, just have to be upfront and say we have a bdsm/ FLR relationship if I am asked about it.

 

I agree. You need to be open and honest with your doctor.
I’m so happy for you for having such a strong and confident mistress.

Hopefully she’ll see this and from now on will join you in the examining room. And personally remove the cage if needed, and not otherwise.

 

Unless there's any danger of being exposed as it were in the surgery then there is no reason for removal. We have no wish to expose our lifestyle to a professional who is going about their daily business. We aren't ashamed of it at all, we are consenting adults and don't give a fig what others might think. But it is private in the real world! As for being accompanied by your keyholder, that's only right! Mrs Chaste always comes in with me. It started mainly because I always used to play down my problems and feel like I don't want to waste their time when others need it more than me! If I have an injection or a blood test or a dentist visit, then she comes in because I am the biggest baby in the world and she holds my hand for me! Now that's love!

 

more fiction. Seriously, can you put this stuff in the appropriate thread?

 

250 strokes with a cane could kill an elephant

 

I agree pushing your kinks on others is wrong. But keeping things from your doctor can affect your health.

When I look for a doctor I ask her office if she is LGBTQ friendly. If they’re not, I’ll consider a different doctor. When I talk with the doctor I confirm what the staff said and also ask if they’re kink/BDSM friendly. I’ve found if they’re LGBTQ friendly that they’re going to be kink/BDSM friendly.

Now I don’t bring it up to be risqué, or to tantalize but rather so I know that I can discuss a kink or issue if something happens. An open minded doctor who I can have an open and honest discussion with is important to me. Having had a judgmental one just too much of a bad experience to do again.

So like many things, it’s how we act and how we discuss things. Don’t be creepy, don’t act like a freak, just be a mature adult and the respect will go both ways.

 

I never impose my/our kink on others, especially my medical practitioners. My wife and my keyholder would not have me do it either. Jeebus, if someone walked up to you or your family at work and said.. "My wife made me wear a butt-plug today. My ass is very full.", you would not be happy about it...I hope.

Anyhow, I've had 100 strokes, and my skin was broken and raw. That was a pretty extreme and unpleasant experience. Either the wife is trying to outright kill this poor guy, or she hits way different from my keyholder!!!

 

We just leave it at home - and once home - lock it back up. I often wonder how much is fiction here and how much is honest truth. I like facts and truth only. Fiction is fine in the appropriate place and context.

 

My Wife used to work for my Doctor, she would like to keep that part of our private life private too

 

I don't understand the issue. If doctors are familiar with examining male genitalia, what is the difference with them examining a penis incarcerated in a device or not?

I am thinking to ask mine to confirm that the fit is not causing any circulation issues or other health issues.

 

well the doctor migt want to feel it or migt want to look in the little hole. they wont like it being all locked up if they has to have a look at thingys.

 

Because my Dr is a very religious Hindu woman and a family friend, I’d really not offend her sensibilities. If I had issued in my urinary system, then I’d broach the system, but I get checked yearly for prostate issues and regularly for kidney and urine issues.


Also, it’s down to my Wife’s discretion especially as my Dr is a friend of Hers, no?

 

Okay but if the nature of the visit is your penis and your penis is regularly locked in a device, why wouldn't that be important information to share with your doctor? Also, why wouldn't you want to have the device in place to be examined by your doctor for peace of mind if the visit is related to your penis? I mean, what doctor is asking to see your penis if you're there to get prescription refills?

 

giggle they wont want to see your willy if you going to get some pills from them.
and if you gonna be examine then just ask if you can take the key with you to the doctors in case they wants to have it tooked off you.

 

I am not a doctor but what if your device is a contributing factor and this information is hidden from your doctor? I don't see how the conditions that you mentioned make it necessary to remove the device but it seems its not your decision anyways.

I guess I don't see the necessity but it doesn't really matter.

 

This is a VERY small Texas town, getting a Dr in the first place is difficult... so treating them with respect is a GOOD thing

 

There is a lot of fiction that people pass off or try to pass off as real.

That said, there is also a lot people worry about that is minor and not as big a deal as is made.

It’s why I wouldn’t have a religious doctor as mentioned above. It’s why I spent time looking for one I can be open and honest with. As said, respect is key. In my case, my doctor doesn’t know all my kinks in detail. But if I had an issue and something with one of my kinks had an affect, I’d have no issue talking about anything with her.

So again. Be open and honest. But be an adult. The point is t to play games but to get the best medical care you need. Each doctor is an individual as is each of us. We all have to decide what is appropriate.

For instance if I wore my cage to my doctor. (Which I currently don’t) it would be no big deal. On the other extreme, the doctor I had before this one was cold and distant when I shared that I was bisexual. I never went back to her as I couldn’t be open with her. Knowing she wasn’t LGBTQ friendly contrary to what her receptionist said when I booked the appointment, I’m sure she would t be kink friendly either. In any case, I didn’t care as she wasn’t the right doctor for me.

 

I'm facing this decision now. M'Lady is in the hospital and I am scheduled for a physical at the VA next week. She has her key with her but has given me permission to use the emergency key for my appointment. Debating whether to unlock or not. Male doctor and the nurse is rarely in the room with us.

My regular doctor in town knows about the chastity but has never had reason to see my cage. Doubt it would faze him.

 

I had an accidental experience a few days ago. Going in for a screening colonoscopy. Close to the facility, and way to late to return home, I realized I'd forgotten to ask my wife to uncage me ... oops.

I don't mind someone knowing about or seeing my cage: I have no shame about the way I live my life. I'm also not on the bandwagon that sees letting some become aware you have a kink is a violation: the world has more diversity than conformity and I think that's a good thing and what the heck. Which is not to say that I go around talking about my kinks ... but with professionals who have a job that involves seeing all kinds of variation, I don't worry about it if they incidentally become aware I'm wearing a cage (e.g TSA agents, doctors).

So, I was going to take it off, but shrugged when I realized I forgot.

Don't know if they actually saw it. For the procedure they had me lie on my side with upper leg bent a bit forward (so slightly tilted towards lying on my stomach, and my junk was flipped up, my closed thighs hiding it ... during setup. Then they put me to sleep, so I have no idea if they moved me around. Maybe exposed, maybe not. Doesn't matter to me, and I expect not to the doc who was looking around inside my colon with a camera, either!