So whose locked and whose not?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by steviepie, Feb 18, 2017.

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How many here are locked and when?

Poll closed Mar 4, 2017.
  1. occasionally self-locked

    7.5%
  2. occasionally locked by Keyholder

    11.9%
  3. usually self-locked

    9.0%
  4. usually locked by Keyholder

    29.9%
  5. full-time self-locked

    6.0%
  6. full-time locked by Keyholder

    35.8%
  7. usually locked when online in chatroom

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    0.0%
  8. occasionally locked when online in chatroom

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  9. ususally wanking when online (lurking) in chatroom

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  1. steviepie
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    steviepie inferior and unworthy male

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    One of our esteemed Mistresses had to ask who was locked in chat recently.

    Please take a moment to respond to this poll to help us learn about who we are as a community.

    Very Respectfully,
    steviepie
     
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  2. xcitedsisssy
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    xcitedsisssy cd/sissy michelle

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    Although I am not locked at the moment, and have been cage free for the last 3 days. Prior to this release I was basically locked up for 3 1/2 months with an occasional release for some playtime. Whether I was allowed to orgasm or not is up to her. My longest lock up with no orgasm at all was just under 4 months. My answer above is usually locked by keyholder since I do get the occasional time out of my cage and then I feel naked without my device locked on.
    I don't know when she will re-lock her toy but I have been told no touching! So far I have behaved and honored her demands. I don't think in the last four years I have been allowed to be free for more than a week at a time. Anyways it's is always her decision and I don't think we would have it any other way....
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Always locked unless she's playing with it, she leaves it off me after I've had an O(next morning I usually use that as a grooming opportunity), or because of an irritation needs time to heal.

    That's it. Never just unlocked. She doesn't feel the need to lock me back up immediately following an orgasm...no need to, but after my grooming and shower in the morning, it goes back on before work.
     
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  4. SubHubbyInChastity
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    SubHubbyInChastity submissive to @Mistress Good Wife

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    I've been locked 24/7 since Dec. 30th. My Wife/Keyholder only allows me out when she's teasing me. She allows me maybe one or two orgasms a month. I've been keeping a log since we started full time chastity, and I currently sit at 98.6% of the time locked.
     
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    Locked 24/7. Expect to be let-out at the end of March for trip involving several international airports.
     
  6. steviepie
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    steviepie inferior and unworthy male

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    I congratulate you on your values and your relationship. Did your wife or keyholder lead you into this lifestyle or was this something you brought to the relationship?
     
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    Sounds like you're unlocked and pleasured every day. Chastity Lite, where's the commitment to serve and worship your Goddess in that?
     
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    I put usually by my Wife (KH). We just started and I keep having to come out to heal. I think this time will be good. Put back in this past Wednesday and want to go at least 2 weeks from this coming Monday.
     
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    Been trying to guess used to my belt. Been locked on and off the past 3 weeks. Only time really unlocked is at work. Started my longest locked session on Thursday night hopefully going thru Monday night. Using emlalock with an keyholder form San Francisco
     
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    self lock - use emlalock - wife puts up with the idea - frankly she forgets I wear a device -
     
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    I am self locked. I bought a cock cage with a 40mm ring and found it too small so ordered a 45mm ring and it fits perfectly. I started this journey 2/15/16 with the hopes of being liked 24/7 with one day per month off for cleaning and skin inspection. Today I found a kSafe lockbox on Amazon.com and ordered it. The timer can be set for up to 10 days. It apparently has an EPROM that keeps track of time elapsed when the batteries are removed and continues where it left off when the batteries are replaced. I plan to put the cock cage keys in the lockbox, set it for the max time of 10 days then immediately remove the batteries. It is my hope that should I get freaked out and want out of the cage that having to wait 10 more days will give me time to cool off and rethink the need for release. Should I come to my senses and wish to continue my self imposed 24/7 chasity I can simply reset the lockbox to a full 10 days and again immediately remove the batteries and all is well. Just need to put the batteries in 10 days before my monthly cleaning and inspection or for scheduled doctor appointments. Please wish me well y'all.
     
  12. Vinny
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    Vinny Locked up again. Starting year 6.

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    Last November marks 4 years of 24/7 lockup. My normal is being locked all the time. It is like when you first get a new ring. You get used to it being on your finger and hardly notice it anymore. That how I feel about my Jailbird. It is a perfect fit so it is very comfortable. My skin has been conditioned to wear my Jailbird all the time. I feel naked without it. I tried going two months without being locked but did not like it. Felt weird and I felt listless and lacking energy. After awhile you get used to running on your sexual energy from orgasm denial. When it goes, you notice it is gone.
     
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    Hello there, I love the days since tracker in your message, could you please tell me how you did that. Ty
     
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    Vinny Locked up again. Starting year 6.

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    Do what you wish but I have to caution you about not having an emergency key. Waiting 10 days is OK when it is just being horny but not OK when there is a medical emergency as I had plus a lot of pain from a skin irritation that would not go away. If not for my emergency key, surgery by going through my urethra would have taken much longer and the massive infection that collapsed part of one lung might have killed me or permanently damaged my lung. I was so infected that the IV antibiotics burned and I was put into isolation. Thanks for the emergency key, I was able to unlock before EMS arrived. If you are using a plastic device beware that they do crack and I had my CB6000 cage split and cut my penis. I had to take it off to stop the bleeding. Then you may wake up one day and find one ball still in the ring and the other outside of it. Believe me, you need an emergency key unlike the fantasies you may read online. I have learned the hard way over 47 years of BDSM play, that safe and sane play is the only way to go. My first operation for not playing safe taught me a lesson. However, it is your body to do as you wish. Just do not mistake the fantasies you find in some blogs and tumblr sites, for reality.
     
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    Thank you Vinny for your suggestion. Perhaps my thinking is a bit influenced by what I read on the web and your advice will be given careful consideration. I failed to mention that the kSafe lock box is made from what they describe as "thick" plastic. I guess in the back of my mind I had/have latent thoughts that I can break the box open with a good hammer in case of emergency. Of course the $60 cost will make me think twice before destroying the thing and $60 is a lot for my small budget as Social Security is my sole income. Again thank you and I appreciate your kindness.
     
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    Ok, I've gone to the link you provided and created a timer. However, I have tried all four code snippets, one at a time, in my signature line and non have worked.

    Which code snippet do you use and do you include that snippet in the body of the text or in the signature line?

    Thank you in advance for your time.
     
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    Sometimes out for a few days to take care of myself from chaffing and such, but otherwise, usually locked except when she needs me.
     
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    It was just decided last night that I will be locked until at least November 2018. With that commitment comes some choices to make about how to make sure I stay locked. Will need to invest in a better cage for sure, and strongly considering a piercing.
     
  20. steviepie
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    steviepie inferior and unworthy male

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    many thanks!!!
     
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    Nov 18, any particular reason for that specific date?
     
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    We are full time locked , only let out to play his hockey games once a week and locked up right after.
    I do let Him out for playtime and he never complains when I tell him to lock back up.
    We have been. Full time lock up since Jan 10.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    i am lock in my little cage as well cept when i'm allow to tuck and then i cant be lock cos there nothing to put the cage on.
     
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    Yep, full time locked here. Where all the wankers at though?
     
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    I've been locked since Friday the 18th Feb but my wife usually takes if off at night. Yesterday morning I was on a two week run of no release and was getting frisky. I was using my mouth and fingers on her and she said the words "I want you inside me" I knew I was screwed because she didn't tell me I could cum and I blasted away in her and if felt so good and full of shame all at the same time. She was not pleased. I showered and went back in the cage. Last night she offered to take it off at bedtime but I elected to have her only unlock it and if I had any problems I wouldn't have to wake her to remove it. I took it off to shower and went back in happily this morning. Then she just texted me that I should expect some severe punishment tonight when she gets home from work for cumming without permission and wearing her panties without asking. Im excited and scared. We haven't really gotten into her punishing me so much. She was apprehensive and I told her that she has my permission to make me cry. I hope I don't live to regret those words, but then again I must really want it to have told her that! Tonight will be a very telling night in my home and I don't suspect this cage will be coming off before I leave town for work. I only wonder if she will sneak a key in my bag for emergency.....
     
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